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Zane
Quote:I am wondering what kinda brain damage she’s suffering from?
37yo woman has some difficulty speaking, she can only say shorter sentences, that are other missing words. But she usually always says key words. For example about a week ago when I was seeing her at the local cafe (her carer is okay with cafe lunches with her), she said “Bed... Together” while pointing at me. Another time she was saying “My house... Me... You... Sleep”.
Recently, at one of our cafe lunches, she was saying “You... My house”, and I asked her what do you want to do together, and she replied “Upstairs... Cuddle” (her room is upstairs). It seems like she wants to sleep with me (she is fairly [/quote]consistent with her message).
37yo woman also has below-average IQ, and is noticeably slower in her movements and often takes several seconds to answer simple questions (her answers are consistent though). She tends to ask me the same questions over and over, so her memory may not be too great. She’s asked me if I live with my parents several times now (I live by myself at the moment).
Quote:Also, I think the care taker is taking things to extreme.. No kissing..? WTF?
Agreed. It is quite extreme.
State legislation says that one of the many exceptions to consent includes ‘Mentally impairment’, meaning that if a person who is ‘mentally impaired’ consents to sex, then it is automatically rape.
Her carer said to me “she has trouble saying ‘no’” and that this point voids her consent. I think her carer is over-reacting, but the group home policies consider kissing as a romantic / sexual act, and according to the group home policies, romantic relationships and sexual relationships are treated the same (referred to as ‘personal relationship’). The group home errs on the side of over-protected, rather than under-protected.
Very recently, my state has new legislative requirements for group homes focused on preventing sexual harassment, abuse, assault and/or rape. State consent laws were made ‘tougher’ a few months ago.
“Only an enthusiastic ‘Yes’, means ‘Yes’.” is the current legislation. But all grey areas are treated as an automatic ‘no’ / non-consent (such as brain damage, intellectual disability, drunk, high, coercion, blackmail, and many others).
MeToo has lead to hysteria, paranoia and mass fear. At the local shops there are government sponsored billboards that show women crying, with short messages about sexual abuse / violence. One of the government sponsored ads said “9 in 10 women have been sexually harassed, but only 1 in 4 adults report it”.
All this is likely why the carer is so over-the-top / over-protective. It frustrates me greatly.
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Shannon
Thanks for the reply.
Quote:We don’t know it was a manifestation.
Quote:It could. Just like it could be nothing at all.
Fair points. 37yo woman could be a ‘random’ that came into my life due to some subconscious belief(s) that I can’t seem to ‘pin down’ consciously.
The annoying thing about manifestation is being ‘in the dark’ the whole time, and not knowing who, when, where, nor how I will meet her / the primary manifestation(s).
I wish there was a way of consciously knowing these things beforehand. Or at least, knowing approx, when I will meet her.
I guess manifestation is just being patient and living my normal life in the meantime.
Edit:
Quote:I don’t know what it was. I do know that you’ve told that story at least three or four times now, and I think you would do best to leave it in the past and move on to the present.
She is still in my life. Her carer said that she still may recover / one day be able to consent. I still have a chance with 37yo woman.
With that said, I’m open to meeting someone new, that doesn’t have the same logistical complications. Just have to wait until I meet someone else who wants to sleep with me.
If one woman has asked to sleep with me, it is plausible that some others want to sleep with me also.