Hi Shannon!
On the subject of this post:
(02-17-2019, 09:53 AM)Shannon Wrote: [ -> ]Arousal isn't the problem. It's there, or you wouldn't be getting those responses in those situations. What we need is either disinhibition or fear removal for the affected.
Do you feel this is something that can be resolved with simply running this current version? Or, is another version needed to do this? If so, what do we do with this version until that one comes out? If it's true that another version is needed to actually do that, it seems this program may be at a brick wall. Often, I've spoken of not seeing any "clear" signs the sub is truly "causing me to be sexually attractive and making girls I find sexually attractive aggressively pursue me to have sex purely because I find them sexually attractive, and to the degree I do..." as I've heard is the purpose of the program. I admit...I still have real doubts that will ever come to be, especially when I think of several girls around me that were drivers for me signing on for this program. The thought of them wanting me as much as I want/wanted them, or more so, doesn't seem realistic at all to me, and still seems just as far away as before. I think I've largely given up on most of, if not all of them, at this point to be honest. Just seems way too farfetched and there's been no forward momentum to spur optimism onward. I tried to get some meetups going with 3 of them, 1 seems to be seeing someone now, two ignored the messages even though they were very cordial beforehand and even one was seemingly flirting. Makes no sense, typical 180 out of nowhere I've long been used to in my life, extremely rude behaviour from them, but it's very typical it seems. Just don't seem to have the "bad boy value" or whatever it is that makes them actually value you and respect you, otherwise you're ignored or looked down on for some reason, despite having this program. Anyway, it's obvious to me I'll need to see the design goal thing first hand, in reality, actually occur, with zero doubt.
In so many words, I seem to have been describing this phenomenon over time. This "almost, but not really" situation, where you think there might be something unusual happen, but then it goes away or changes quick or whatever. And there's zero momentum with it, so nothing ACTUALLY happens in the end. It's really just optimistic theory/fantasy, apparently. The next time you interact with a girl for example, she's weird or cold, awkward, distant, or doesn't reply to messages for no reason at all, ignorant, etc. etc. Complete 180. And you did absolutely NOTHING wrong, or creepy, or whatever, so there's zero basis for such treatment. Deeply confusing and demoralising over time, and likely seeds further resentment/anger towards them etc. And makes it easy to question whether or not anything is TRULY going on. And that you may have blown it up to be something when it wasn't, since you WANTED it to be something. Seems like maybe there is a brick wall, almost like she's like "wait...THIS isn't my type" or whatever, and it's ruined. Bottom line, I just never feel respected as actually a sexy option in their view. Still seem to be an afterthought, if that for some reason, there doesn't seem to be any lasting impact, tangibly. Still just the funny/nice/charming guy, that doesn't seem to have any sexual attraction and zero chasing taking place or sexual overtures...and I still don't buy that very attractive women will aggressively chase a guy for sex unless he's a bad boy, rich, or famous, or extremely attractive physically. Those instances are the only times I've seen hot girls act thirsty, otherwise, they're drowning in choice, why would they bother? And they tend to look down on other men that don't fit that bill, making it seem even more unfeasible. Makes it hard to really get behind the program's goal to be honest. I'll need to see it first hand, to truly believe I guess. We'll see...
I'm simply wondering if a new version will be needed to break through this annoyance/brick wall. I feel it is, but was just curious. Looking forward to a new version, hopefully it's very soon. I get the sense it'll just be spinning wheels, otherwise.
That post was a bit concerning, so I was just looking for some info on things is all. All the best, thank you. Congrats on LTU coming up, I hope you sell a lot of copies of it to make lots of $$$, lol.
