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Shannon
Thanks for your advice, opinions and fascinating discussion(s) about AYPs.
Quote:I didn’t say a FWB would be likely to hurt you.
That is good to hear. I assume all manifestations of AYP programs (my perfect FWB, sexual lover, etc) would be very unlikely to hurt the person who manifests them (AYP sub user).
Quote:However, who do you think is more likely to hurt you? A friend, or someone who is deeply concerned with your emotional and sexual health and well-being?
One thing I didn’t fully consider - and that is STIs. I assume that my perfect FWB (and, in fact, all manifestations of AYPs) are 100% clean and healthy in terms of STIs.
What exactly do you mean by sexual health?
Is there any other, possibly subtle, considerations to sexual health beyond STIs?
Quote:It’s just common sense that someone who is more invested in you will be safer than someone who is not.
I thought that manifestation (especially AYP) would create a strong connection between the ‘primary manifestation’ and ‘AYP user’, and that this would naturally cause the manifestation(s) to be greatly invested in the ‘AYP user’ / person who manifested them.
Would a perfect FWB naturally be greatly invested in the ‘AYP FWB user’?
Do AYPs (when successful) strongly bind the ‘sub user’ and AYP manifestation(s), to one another?
Quote:Most people are deeply affected by sex
Could you please explain this point further.
I thought that sexual intercourse was fairly straight-forward.
How is the typical male deeply affected by sex?
Quote:and sex with someone you’re only friends with is a good way to have a sub-par first experience
Do you mean sub-par as in awkward, sloppy sex? Or that she will be too rough? She won’t take time to teach me how to have proficient sex? She won’t want to have sex with me?
Or do you mean sub-par as in she will have STI? The sex will cause long-term emotional damage? and serious, long-term consequences.
In your opinion, how is losing virginity to a friend a sub-par experience?
Quote:My point of view may not be the best way for you. But I suggest these things because of my personal experience.
I don’t really know, consciously, what AYP would get me the best result for weekends only, beginner dating. I can see pros for FWB and also other pros for AYPSL, AYPRL, etc. I can also see cons for each type of AYP also.
I really appreciate your point of view, and sharing your experiences with AYPs.
Have you had many FWBs and what has your experience been with FWBs?
What was the worst thing that happened to you with a FWB?
Not many people here have shared their AYP experiences (probably because they haven’t used an AYP program yet).
Also, how many AYPs have you used in total? Overall What kind / quality of women did you manifest?
Thanks
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Leo1990
Quote:Perhaps if you’re a virgin, then getting fked by a FWB gives you the wrong mindset about women in general.
Quote:I also think it’s unlikely that a virgin could hold the interest of a FWB
Thanks for your opinions.
I thought that AYP FWB would ensure that she (the FWB) would be interested in me enough to have sex with me, no matter how awkward and sloppy I could be at sex.
I can see, logically, how a random FWB could be bored of a virgin.