(06-26-2018, 07:39 AM)subliminalsrcool Wrote: [ -> ]Dear Shannon,
This message is about AM 6.0. I am planning to start it for the first time once I have money saved up to buy it.
I wanted to get a custom reply based on my situation. Before I begin, firstly, I truly believe my family perceives me as a child. I am probably in the lowest of slums right now; no social life, no friends, no career success and in my late 30s. Sorry if this is going to be quite lengthy so thanks for being patient with me and reading it through. I think you might give better answers than any shrink might.
What makes you think that?
Quote:I call this title, THE BETA STORY BY A BETA MALE
A little personality background on myself. I live with social anxiety; I suspect the originating cause is when I was in my elementary years, I was scolded by my teachers and bullied by peers. Growing up into my teens, I was afraid of going to the gym in school and had a knot in my stomach. I was the quiet guy in HS that sat alone at lunch time and on the school bus sitting in the front.
During college years I didn't have much of my social life, parties etc and just was the observer from a distance. During my work life, I was a job hopper and never associated or connected with coworkers. Kind of a scapegoat by family and social outcast by others to put it in one way.
I have faith beliefs similar to my family but I also think outside the box and am afraid to portray what else I have faith in, too.
I have lived in with my parents forever. Never knew what it felt to be out and about on my own and I only delve on the thoughts and possibilities of whats out there since I have been culturally living in a strict situation by my parents.
Now I am married to someone overseas that was through an arranged marriage and never wanted to be in this position. Tried to stop it but I get the guilt trip very easily as my mom may make me feel or when I tried to break ties with family my dad would say things that would add on to that guilt stopping me from doing it.
Anyways, point of this post is about AM 6.0 that I am hoping to start soon....based on my life current circumstances, and a simple yes or no should be fine for an answer:
1. being in a marriage that I am in with this chick in a foreign land, how would one who has after an arranged marriage then becoming alpha handle the situation? Will AM 6 help me to end a marriage I never wanted to be a part of without feeling guilt that I am ending a unwanted marriage ?
The first thing you have to understand is that an Alpha finds their own way. You can't ask how it would be done by an alpha, because each alpha will do it in their own way. AM6, once you genuinely have it overriding your current programming, will put you in a position to decide what is right for you, and you will take whatever steps are necessary to achieve that goal. AM helps tremendously with killing guilt, shame and fear, as these are primary manipulation and control tactics which prevent the self from being in control.
Some people have had too much fear for AM6 to overcome, and most require 2-3 runs to fully integrate. Once you start, you are committing to some major changes in your life, and you must finish the program.
Quote:2. Can AM help me to break my pattern of living so I can move out to be on my own without the control of parents or their manipulation where I can still be in touch with them but live on my own terms to live as I please (eg was "forced" to come out to TX from CT and never wanted to leave that state cuz my parents "feared" I couldnt make it on my own).
Absolutely it can.
Quote:3. I am really focused more on personal development with AM and not all about the women attraction that it may manifest. So even if women show interest because of the program and I am a picky person when it comes to finding the right opposite sex species, am I able to turn them down without feelings of guilt ?
Alphas do what is right for them, and they do it without guilt, because that is their choice and they are in control of themselves and supply themselves with consent and approval.
Quote:4. Overall can I have a healthy relationship with toxic family as an AM and live the way I want and be in my space too and be perceived as a 'man' by family that otherwise would have seen me as a "unsuccessful nobody"
It is going to result in one of the following scenarios if you run AM6 and do so until you become an AM:
A) You will have them fight you tooth and nail, and you stand your ground, and they develop respect for you, which changes everything and may improve your relationship with them.
B) You will have them fight you tooth and nail, and you stand your ground, and it causes a permanent disconnect from them, which you allow to happen because you understand that you deserve a certain level of respect and consideration and you will not allow them to treat you otherwise.
Those are about 99.99% of the possible outcomes.
Quote:5. This may be a slight religion question but I do need to ask hoping not to break any rules, I come from a faith that we don't allow girlfriends and only can have intimacy post marriage or cant have wifes outside of our religion unless we convert them to our beliefs; since AM has a program that attracts women because you are transforming into a "man" how would I handle this from my beliefs background?
AM6 introduces SM programming in the last stages to act as a lead-in for that program. Looking back, that was not the best thing I could have done, and I do not think I should have done it. However, you can choose not to act on it; it is there to prepare you for the use of SM, and the focus of the program is always on the AM. If you choose to follow your professed religious beliefs, there is nothing that should stop you from doing so. AM will bring you to a state in which you will decide what is right for you, and that is what you will do, regardless. The SM lead in may make you more attractive to women, but that does not force you to act on their attraction.
Quote:6. Even if I want to / need to become AM, a part of me says I am comfortable where I am and cant picture myself in social situations and like to be in doors in my house all day and alone.....I never "hung out" so it would be unusual for me, will I stonewall the program because of this comfort zone thing that I experience?
The parts of you that are afraid of change will try to resist to whatever degree they are capable. Stonewalling, however, is not a guaranteed response, because of the type of technology being used and because that is not a standard reaction, but is only possible in select cases and by specific types of personalities. The program is designed in stages to minimize this reaction of resistance, and grow you into the change more slowly and comfortably.