(11-24-2018, 02:17 PM)lano1106 Wrote: [ -> ]That is very interesting discussion.
What turns off women is a man that pays/gives with expectation to receive something (like sex) in exchange.
If she deserves something and you give it with no return expectations and it isn't something big anyway like paying the coffee during a coffee date, well go for it...
Finally, I think it is wrong to reduce sex to only a financial decision. For me, if the service of an escort was only a dime. I would still not be interested in it... What I like is the whole seduction process... Pretty much unsatisfying like for a fisherman to go eat fish in a restaurant...
After googling around, it seems the golden rule is that whoever approaches should pay for the date, unless the other person insists.
If she asks him out, she should pay for the whole thing.
Expensive restaurants aren’t the only dating option, luckily. A nice, free (financially speaking) walk on the beach at sunset can be a sexy date for some people.
Personally, I would rather be with non-escort(s) (i.e. the typical women you meet naturally). I’ve never paid an escort / prostitute in my life.
But if two, or more, adults want to have sex, with money being exchanged, then that is okay in my mind. They have the right to make their own decisions. If one person is happy to pay the other for sex, and the other person accepts the money and has sex, then it is a mutual decision.
Prostitutes / escorts can, and do, say “no” to some clients. Where I live, prostitution is legal, and escorts have the right to say “no” and refuse service to clients that they are creeped out by, and/or that they don’t want sex with. They also have a legal obligation to refuse clients that are too drunk / too high.
Some guys / chicks love being seductive, and love the challenge of getting someone that they perceive to be forbidden, and/or ‘out of their league’. There are plenty of ‘challenges’ out there for people that love to test their ‘game’ / seduction skills. Everyday men / women are enough for people that want to seduce people / ‘game’ others.
Escorts are obviously not for people that like the challenge of seduction, and have a different ‘target market’ (i.e. people who want a quick and easy ‘lay’, and can afford to pay for it).
Edit: Yeah... coffee dates sound way better for poor guys (instead of restaurants).