Never heard of a 50 caliber sniper rifle?
(03-29-2017, 01:30 PM)SargeMaximus Wrote: [ -> ] (03-29-2017, 11:21 AM)Mystic Pymp Wrote: [ -> ] (03-29-2017, 08:42 AM)SargeMaximus Wrote: [ -> ]The Russian I went out with on V-Day told me she wanted to off herself too. We bonded over the mutual struggle with it throughout our lives. Not the best way to spend a date, and it certainly didn't help make things sexy.
I talked to my social skills coach about it, he says it's prolly that I'm giving off something that makers people trust me, but that I need to have clear boundaries in that regard.
He says there's nothing wrong with wanting to f*ck the girl and having her either play ball or get out. It's not up to us to be her therapist.
Well, first of all don't stick into a crazy. I've learnt that the hard way.
Secondly I'm not sure if I understand you correctly but it sounds like you consider only having contact with females to have sex. I can feel sorry for her and want to help her as simply her friend. And as long as I don't feel used it's perfectly fine. You learn a lot of humility hearing stories like hers.
I'm sorry if I offend you and understood you wrong, but if you consider meeting with women with issues just to f*ck them you've got some serious issues right there. Do I want her? Sure, but I would not "have her either play ball or get out" unless she would start teasing me or using me.
Of course I felt sorry for her. Like I said, we bonded over the suicide thing because I myself have wanted to commit suicide but I tried to show her how you can overcome it. At the same time: I'm not her therapist, so it's not appropriate first date stuff to talk about.
The way I see it: what's wrong with having a fling? We can both take our minds off whatever shit we've been through in the past.
Sometimes people don't need therapists, only people who will listen and care. But yeah, you're right, it must have been awkward.
In my friend's case problem is in the present, not in the past. Simple young adult problems, but shite accumulates and it can reach too high level. So fling would not help her forget, only bring more to the pile.
(03-29-2017, 02:18 PM)Sickologist Wrote: [ -> ]Never heard of a 50 caliber sniper rifle?
Yeah but I'm not getting it still...
(03-29-2017, 02:21 PM)Mystic Pymp Wrote: [ -> ]So fling would not help her forget, only bring more to the pile.
You can't possibly know that.
Alright then, the goal of the sniper in dmsi is to attract whatever woman is your ideal type sexually. On Valentine's Day, you attracted a girl who tried to off herself which is the complete opposite of what the sniper should do for you. It could have used "excessive recoil" but that's only if you're shooting blanks.
I think I've lost the ability to tell who's crazier, you or me.
(03-29-2017, 02:44 PM)Sickologist Wrote: [ -> ]Alright then, the goal of the sniper in dmsi is to attract whatever woman is your ideal type sexually. On Valentine's Day, you attracted a girl who tried to off herself which is the complete opposite of what the sniper should do for you. It could have used "excessive recoil" but that's only if you're shooting blanks.
I think I've lost the ability to tell who's crazier, you or me.
Lol wow I can't believe I didn't get that. I thought you might be making a reference to suicides. Oh my.
Yeah, I get it, and I totally agree. In fact, she was the only date I've ever gotten from oneline lol.
As for who's crazier, maybe we'll find out lol
(03-29-2017, 02:29 PM)SargeMaximus Wrote: [ -> ] (03-29-2017, 02:21 PM)Mystic Pymp Wrote: [ -> ]So fling would not help her forget, only bring more to the pile.
You can't possibly know that.
I can. Her issues are not sorely emotional, someone shagging or hugging her won't change that.
Not to mention I used to want to help a girl in quite similar situation some time ago. Now I plan to write a letter to her and burn it in the furnace. DO. NOT. STICK. IN. CRAZY.
(03-29-2017, 03:33 PM)Mystic Pymp Wrote: [ -> ] (03-29-2017, 02:29 PM)SargeMaximus Wrote: [ -> ] (03-29-2017, 02:21 PM)Mystic Pymp Wrote: [ -> ]So fling would not help her forget, only bring more to the pile.
You can't possibly know that.
I can. Her issues are not sorely emotional, someone shagging or hugging her won't change that.
Not to mention I used to want to help a girl in quite similar situation some time ago. Now I plan to write a letter to her and burn it in the furnace. DO. NOT. STICK. IN. CRAZY.
Hmm alright well you know her better than me of course. As for not shagging crazies, so far it's all I'm attracting lol.
(03-29-2017, 03:58 PM)SargeMaximus Wrote: [ -> ] (03-29-2017, 03:33 PM)Mystic Pymp Wrote: [ -> ] (03-29-2017, 02:29 PM)SargeMaximus Wrote: [ -> ] (03-29-2017, 02:21 PM)Mystic Pymp Wrote: [ -> ]So fling would not help her forget, only bring more to the pile.
You can't possibly know that.
I can. Her issues are not sorely emotional, someone shagging or hugging her won't change that.
Not to mention I used to want to help a girl in quite similar situation some time ago. Now I plan to write a letter to her and burn it in the furnace. DO. NOT. STICK. IN. CRAZY.
Hmm alright well you know her better than me of course. As for not shagging crazies, so far it's all I'm attracting lol.
Limiting beliefs much?
Fucking hell, if a woman is talking about stuff like that on a first day run away. But your throught of 'why not have a fling and get her mind off it' will bite you in the ass if it happens.
Whatever, you guys are just amogging as far as I'm concerned.
HAHAHA..
It's useless ever trying to tell you anything Sarge. I'm out.
(03-29-2017, 04:21 PM)Benjamin Wrote: [ -> ]HAHAHA..
It's useless every trying to tell you anything Sarge. I'm out.
You were never "in" as far as I'm concerned.
This attitude you project when anyone tries to help you will keep you a virgin. It's times like this I understand why Shannon and others have stopped bothering trying to help you as it's a losing proposition and you just turn it back on them by causing some kind of drama.
All you want to do is argue and cause drama, you don't genuinely want to improve or have someone help you from their own experience.
(03-29-2017, 04:25 PM)Benjamin Wrote: [ -> ]I've been in plenty of girls.. can't say the same for you with the attitude you project when anyone tries to help you that will keep you a virgin. It's times like this I understand why Shannon and others have stopped bothering trying to help you as it's a losing proposition and you just turn it back on them by causing some kind of drama.
All you want to do is argue and cause drama, you don't genuinely want to improve or have someone help you from their own experience.
I didn't see any help here. All I saw was a bunch of judgement being passed on people who've wanted to kill themselves. I've been there ok? I don't think it's right to say someone shouldn't have sex with someone who's wanted to kill themselves that's just Bs to me.
As for the amog bit, I said I've only attracted crazies and mystic pimp says it's limiting beliefs. Again, how us that helping? All I've attracted so far ARE crazies, it's a fact. So yeah, where's this help you speak of? "Stay a virgin cause you shouldn't f*ck crazies" is all I'm hearing here.