Back on A. Did 2 loops yesterday afternoon while mushroom hunting. I had "Do Not Disturb" on, but somehow my brother was able to call me anyway, so it broke the ASRB for about 2 minutes. That irritated me.
The irritability continued until dinner. It's amazing, my hunger literally skyrocketed after just 2 loops of A. I've been having zero issues with appetite lately, and as soon as I run A, I'm hungry all the time again. I had to eat a bowl of cereal before bed last night, even after a big dinner, b/c I felt famished.
I slept a hard 8 hours, rare for me, and woke to train clients this morning. Of his own volition, my 82 year old guy client brought up a story where he saw his next door neighbor get a hand-job from said neighbor's girlfriend. WTF!? It was like my own grandpa telling me. He even made these slow handmotions to show what she was doing.
Then my mom came, and during that session I told one of my cat's to get his nose out of the other cat's ass. After that I said, "I'm so glad humans don't do that." So my mom says, "Oh I'm sure some people have that fetish - they're like, 'Ooo, can I smell you?'" And that grossed me out.
Seems people are becoming more comfortable talking about sexual things around me in general.
Yesterday, before running the A loops, we had an appointment at the OB-GYN. My wife's blood pressure has been spiking lately, and it turns out she has gestational hypertension. Now we have to go twice per week, and if at any appointment they don't like what they see, they'll deliver.
The OB was once again super-friendly with us, and this time I got kino. She rubbed my shoulder. :-O
Finally, my brother is in town for business. We all had dinner at my parents' house last night. For some reason, they sat me at the head of the table. I then was doing impressions of my teachers from high school and had everyone near-crying with laughter. It was a great time. My charisma, and relaxed/fun attitude, is getting better and better.
Shannon, I was curious:
Is DMSI currently scripted for intercourse only, or is it also scripted for the affected to do anything the affected are sexually capable of doing - including acts beyond their current preference?
The reason I ask, is my wife and I aren't able to have vaginal intercourse currently (actually, for awhile now), but there's no progress with her regarding other forms: ie oral, anal, or handy. It's been traditional intercourse or nothing for a long time, but it'd be great if she were suddenly open to giving oral, having anal, or manual stimulation.
If it's not, that would be cool. "My vagina's broken, please try my ass!"
(04-28-2017, 09:35 AM)RTBoss Wrote: [ -> ]Shannon, I was curious:
Is DMSI currently scripted for intercourse only, or is it also scripted for the affected to do anything the affected are sexually capable of doing - including acts beyond their current preference?
The reason I ask, is my wife and I aren't able to have vaginal intercourse currently (actually, for awhile now), but there's no progress with her regarding other forms: ie oral, anal, or handy. It's been traditional intercourse or nothing for a long time, but it'd be great if she were suddenly open to giving oral, having anal, or manual stimulation.
If it's not, that would be cool. "My vagina's broken, please try my ass!"
It's designed to focus on "physical sex". What kind of sex you prefer is up to you. That's not for me to specify.
Sounds like your wifester is pretty not into sex. Which implies that she either needs a lot of healing from some sort of experience, or her mind/hormones are not in the right place for some other reason. DMSI does have auric affected healing, so if it's that she should eventually come around.
(04-28-2017, 09:46 AM)Shannon Wrote: [ -> ] (04-28-2017, 09:35 AM)RTBoss Wrote: [ -> ]Shannon, I was curious:
Is DMSI currently scripted for intercourse only, or is it also scripted for the affected to do anything the affected are sexually capable of doing - including acts beyond their current preference?
The reason I ask, is my wife and I aren't able to have vaginal intercourse currently (actually, for awhile now), but there's no progress with her regarding other forms: ie oral, anal, or handy. It's been traditional intercourse or nothing for a long time, but it'd be great if she were suddenly open to giving oral, having anal, or manual stimulation.
If it's not, that would be cool. "My vagina's broken, please try my ass!"
It's designed to focus on "physical sex". What kind of sex you prefer is up to you. That's not for me to specify.
Sounds like your wifester is pretty not into sex. Which implies that she either needs a lot of healing from some sort of experience, or her mind/hormones are not in the right place for some other reason. DMSI does have auric affected healing, so if it's that she should eventually come around.
Right - if "physical sex" won in model phrasing, cool. If other options haven't been modeled, "physical sex, including any physical sex act the user prefers or desires," would be great.
Good to hear regarding healing of the affected.
How about we achieve the results first, and then make it harder to achieve the goal?
(04-28-2017, 09:53 PM)Shannon Wrote: [ -> ]How about we achieve the results first, and then make it harder to achieve the goal?
I was thinking along the lines of more options for "acceptable" physical sex acts would open the pathway to achieving more results for more people, faster. Having oral sex seems a lot more achievable than intercourse for many - if you're not married, anyway! XD Even just a quick make-out might lead the way to intercourse in-the-moment.
The first time I had sex with my wife, way-back-when, I didn't have any intention of sleeping with her. It with kissing on the couch. Then, it moved to taking off her shirt, and then...you get the picture. It was like baby-steps in the heat of the moment, each step not conceived of or taken until the prior necessary step had been achieved. But then, I guess my subconscious knew that would happen like that the entire time, didn't it? Hers, too.
3.1-A, 1 FLAC hybrid, 1 masked yesterday afternoon with headphones.
Had a sexual dream involving my wife last night. Rare, but a good sign I think.
Also had a dream with SIL (rare). She was holding a small dog that had the face of a shark. It was like a painting, and seemed abstract. I pet the dog, and she commented she couldn't get it to give her a kiss. I said that I could get it to kiss me easily, and put my face close to the dog. It started licking my face all over. That's all I remember.
I had another dream where I had a lot in common with an old lady. We were laughing, and agreed about everything. She started talking about her birthday, and it was the same date as mine. I said, "No wonder we get each other!"
Familiar healing/clearing resistance signs are getting stronger. I have less will power and discipline making good food choices, and though I should go to the gym, I don't "want" to. The desire to release pent-up sexual energy is also getting stronger.
Feeling restless and bored, with no ideas of what to do to alleviate those feelings.
(04-29-2017, 05:37 AM)RTBoss Wrote: [ -> ] (04-28-2017, 09:53 PM)Shannon Wrote: [ -> ]How about we achieve the results first, and then make it harder to achieve the goal?
I was thinking along the lines of more options for "acceptable" physical sex acts would open the pathway to achieving more results for more people, faster. Having oral sex seems a lot more achievable than intercourse for many - if you're not married, anyway! XD Even just a quick make-out might lead the way to intercourse in-the-moment.
The first time I had sex with my wife, way-back-when, I didn't have any intention of sleeping with her. It with kissing on the couch. Then, it moved to taking off her shirt, and then...you get the picture. It was like baby-steps in the heat of the moment, each step not conceived of or taken until the prior necessary step had been achieved. But then, I guess my subconscious knew that would happen like that the entire time, didn't it? Hers, too.
Everything you've said is already present. Physical sex does not preclude oral, anal, vaginal, or even group. I've left it as open ended as possible for that very reason.
Had an awesome sex dream last night - the woman was a mash-up of 3 different women I know in RL that I haven't had any contact with in
years. They're all hot in their own right. It was exciting, b/c though I've had sexual dreams, they haven't been like this. Kinky, every form of intercourse imaginable, multiple locals.
Went shopping for my son's birthday - it's time for a bike. Weather was crappy, and so was his attitude. He was really upsetting my wife, which was really upsetting me. We can't have her blood pressure shoot up, so finally I got angry because he wasn't behaving, and she wasn't letting me handle him.
Here's the good part. I've told my wife for YEARS how to handle me when I'm really upset. Even though I've given her instructions on a silver platter, it's so unnatural to her she doesn't just
execute the instructions. Sound familiar, anyone?
What is it I've asked her to do? Just come give me an empathetic hug. That's it.
Today, it happened. It was natural, completely unforced, and genuinely empathetic. She came up to me, poked me (kind of like a little kid - it was super cute) while looking up in a submissive way, and said, "You don't have to be angry because of me," and then hugged me. Complete diffusion of all my anger. I was so elated that this happened that I could have cried. It really helped, I told her so, and she said, "Ok, mark that down! I did it!" She then went upstairs to take a nap, and I laid on the couch downstairs, and did my loops. I was filled with emotion for the first 30 minutes of the first loop, b/c I couldn't believe what had happened. I seriously think that's the first time in almost 9 years. Wow.
Took my kid to the Children's Museum today. It was his birthday yesterday, and when we showed up, it was closed, so I owed him one. It worked out better for him, he got to go to the zoo yesterday (instead) and now the museum today.
Worked out better for me, too. Wife had to work today, so nothin' but moms and kids in the museum - and me. Even the CM staff were young females.
It was an interesting time. At first, I found myself looking for external results. Then, I found myself feeling anxious and overwhelmed. From there, I tried focusing on IDGAF, I'm here to have fun with my son, and I felt better. It was like letting go, and I even associated it with an almost helpless feeling. As that happened, I suddenly found myself surrounded by different women, all looking at me like a piece of meat. No moves made, just...ravenous looks. And then a strange, young staff member came and started to interact with my son and me. At first, I wasn't sure if I thought she was cute. Then, she grew on me (in a Luna Lovegood sorta fashion, lol). Lots of smiles, but nothing beyond friendliness. I didn't see her talking to anyone else, though - nor anyone else's children.
After that, I was suddenly and utterly exhausted. I started feeling really...odd. Almost dizzy. That dissipated a few minutes later, and after that, I felt like I could nap anywhere. Then the headache came on. So, we left and got lunch. Headache disappeared, and I'm not quite tired enough to sleep. Listening to today's loops now.
If people want to have a good go with healing/clearing and figuring out where they're at with DMSI, find a place where it's you, women, and no competition. I need to do this more often.
Ooooooh yeaaaaah! Finally got laid. Last night, wife even brought it up. She said we're in the clear, as far as having the baby. The baby is now past the cut-off for having to go into the NICU if she's born before full term. If she were born today, we'd get to take her home (barring any unknown complications).
Sperm/semen ripens the cervix, so it can cause someone late in the 3rd trimester to go into labor. We've been told there will be an induction during Week 37 (next week) anyway, so if it happens, it happens. There was also no pain for her, so that means I might just get it daily! Yay!
Only downside is I didn't last that long, lol - about 3 minutes max. Hope that number improves!
You let those guys build up and they'll bang the door down when you open it. Just need to have sex more often.
This is late, but thank you for showing those pics of the Hawt sil ioi's. Very cool to see from an outside perspective and it's always a good time looking at pretty girls. If I was her hubs I wouldn't want her hanging out with you haha
(05-02-2017, 05:07 PM)Shannon Wrote: [ -> ]You let those guys build up and they'll bang the door down when you open it. Just need to have sex more often.
I think that's the case, too. Back when we were making our daily attempts to get pregnant last year, stamina went
way up.