I know what you guys mean... I feel confident and indifferent towards women but every day more and more are chasing me. But i don't feel a connection with most of them. When ever i do feel like talking to them i do, but I just keep doing what ever i happen to be doing when i lock eyes with them.
Ryan i may not be as advanced in taking risk like that as you but i did do more stuff out of my comfort zone and it feels great i feel like i can do anything and will continue to push the barrier.
is it better to take big chances or build up a bunch of little ones?
Well of course, I started out small and built my way up over the past year. I'll admit my moments of high anxiety kept me from tackling these things. I remember last year around this time it was difficult for me to go out by myself. But I took small steps like go out to get a coffee (walking inside instead of going through drive-thru), going to the store every chance I could, trying to walk in front of large groups at school, just constantly pushing my comfort zone. I eventually got the point where I would go to the mall twice per week just to eat lunch and walk around. Then I would go to the store daily to buy useless shit just to get out and walk around. Eventually, I gained more confidence and started small talk with others. Now I've pushed that even further. Same with women, obviously. I started out small, simple touching, flirting, teasing. Eventually, started pushing sexual stuff on them. For me though, I just do what feels natural. If I'm in the moment, I'll naturally feel like touching her or putting my arm around her if I feel some sort of connection (and if the signs are present of course), or I will grab her hand, etc. I believe some of this is also just a natural response from earlier in my life, I've had quite a bit of girlfriends when I was younger. At that point it's only natural I feel 100% confident in leading things to sex. If she's not pulling away, she enjoys it, take things further like kissing. When I kiss I can get aggressive with the touching and feeling up and she usually does the same. From there, sex is guaranteed.
Pushing my comfort zone was something I was never really good at, but I'm feeling more and more confident everyday from alpha male. At first I was upset that alpha male was 6 months and I thought to myself I can't believe I have to wait that long. But the truth is that I don't have to wait, life is way too short to wait. Guys don't let life pass you by. It may be filled with uncertainty at points, but without that there would be no thrill. Trust your gut and never second guess yourself. Also don't take life so seriously, relax. Being an alpha male is about being comfortable in your own skin and not taking crap from people. It's alright to pursue women if you really want them. Don't become so indifferent that you ignore women and expect them to do everything. They are very subtle, so you have to be aware of their behavior.
I don't ignore them per say i still acknowledge them and its obvious to me which ones are being subtle with me the only problem is i am not interested in some of them.
and Ryan for me is verbally i can get somewhere quick but the whole touching past normal light stuff and trusting my instincts on it and rolling with it is still crippled but im not giving up i just need to do something so mind blowing that it will unlock it for me. or well that's how it feels like its locked inside and i just need the key.
(01-04-2011, 09:58 AM)Blueness Wrote: [ -> ]Hey Shannon, in your honest opinion. Do you think its necessary to use Woman Magnet after using Alpha?
I know it's personal choice. I just want to know if you think it really worth using Woman Magnet after Alpha. Or do really just see it as icing on the cake, not really needed. Is there such a huge difference in someone that has used Alpha only, compared to someone that has used Alpha and Woman Magnet?
Thanks
I seem to have arrived to the discussion a bit late, I see.
I'll answer in order of reading then.
Alpha was designed to be stand alone, and I want it to always be stand alone. That doesn't mean it's somehow "less than" without something like woman magnet; rather, I prefer the UNIX approach philosophy where I can make it work. That is to say, lots of small things that do one thing and do it well, instead of one massive thing doing everything, but poorly.
Obviously, six stage sets are not small anymore, and in many cases (Alpha included) they are a conglomeration of various other things. But the whole is carefully designed, blended and balanced to achieve one specific goal, and do so very well. So in that sense, the parts are not parts, but the whole of a new thing that takes on a unique identity as one thing, not the parts that make it up.
This is why it's so important to try to preserve modularity. You'll notice I have a lot of programs that are designed to be modular. You have the core and the modules, as with alpha and seize the day, for example. You can modify the core by adding modules, and make it do what you want in unique ways.
So to answer your question, you do not need to use Woman Magnet after Alpha. But, if you want to adjust the results of alpha in the direction that woman magnet allows, then it is a modular option. It's all about giving you guys the options.
Yes, it is a major difference - no, it's not icing on the cake. But it's also not necessary, if that isn't what you want to achieve or become.
(01-04-2011, 04:21 PM)Ryan Wrote: [ -> ]Be indifferent to not caring whether or not you get any action. Still go after what you want though. If you want her, go for it. Tell her you want to have sex with. Her grab and kiss her. When you begin to realize you can do all kinds of crazy things with women as soon as you take chances, your life will change.
I posted in my journal about the movie, "The Tao of Steve". I think you should all watch that movie as soon as possible (try to dl it if you can). His main philosophy is that you must detach yourself from women if you want them in your life. Treat them as friends and things will take there course. Even though he does this (and he's like 300 lbs), he still has sex with women because he doesn't have to think about how to make it happen, he just does it.
As far as Alpha Male attracting women, there are some nice testimonials you guys should read on the website about people who used the older versions of Alpha Male. If one guy can date models after using the older versions of Alpha Male alone, it makes sense one could do much more with the newer versions... Depends on how bad you want it, I guess.
Please don't suggest that people break copyright laws by downloading movies. Even if that's not what you were thinking when you wrote it, a lot of people will think that... I make my living by producing copyrighted materials, and I try to observe the rights of others concerning this matter because I know that what goes around eventually comes back. So naturally, I don't want people breaking copyright law, whether it's my intellectual property or someone else's. Like them, this is how I pay my bills every month. When you buy a program, you're keeping me afloat. Someone's life is affected negatively when you don't respect copyright.
(01-04-2011, 05:21 PM)spiralout1988 Wrote: [ -> ]SHANNON if you read this.. (oh yea it's your journal) is fear of the unknown tackled at all in the 2010 Alpha Male? Because that's the biggest thing holding most of us back.
Noted. Good suggestion for 2011.
Okay, I see that dealing with fear of the unknown and being able to easily deal with the women you are attracting are points that need to be added. Good stuff.
Oh, by the way... the super secret experiment I told you guys about several months ago that would be utterly amazing if it worked, and how Prototypes 1 and 2 did not work... I have built Prototype 3. It's still secret, and only Andrew and I have a copy... but I have learned a lot from the second prototype about what was wrong with the program, and why it wasn't doing what it was intended to do. Prototype 3 is a radical departure from P2, and I dare say, I have high hopes for it. Testing begins on Friday for me. If this works as well as I am betting it will, you guys will see this being announced in the store within the next 4 to 6 months. And when I say that you'll want a copy, I am making a serious, major, ridiculous understatement.
If it works like I hope it will, you guys are going to positively mess your pants when you see what it can do. If. Fingers crossed.
I am also performing a different secret experiment with a possible new technology that has been in play three days now, and is producing some really strange and unexpected side effects. It has made me feel as if I am suffering a sunburn, and doubled or tripled my sex drive the whole time I have been exposed so far, but the experimental prototype has nothing to do with causing me to become aroused sexually. This is fascinating stuff. This new technology, too, is truly amazing (if it proves to actually work). It will potentially allow you to do things that are otherwise impossible with conventional subliminals. Truly revolutionary, if it works.
sweet
I wanna be sunburned with a raging sex drive!!
But in all seriousness I am super excited for all this new stuff.
Shannon-I don't know if this should be in suggestions or not
but for 2011 sex magnet could it/would it also include
stuff about abundance with women and general as well as feeling that there is always something
between you and a women that you can connect on deeply as the woman magnet already has.
I'm sure you know what your doing but I remember those two things being really enjoyable in my life.
(01-04-2011, 09:23 PM)woceyes Wrote: [ -> ]I don't ignore them per say i still acknowledge them and its obvious to me which ones are being subtle with me the only problem is i am not interested in some of them.
and Ryan for me is verbally i can get somewhere quick but the whole touching past normal light stuff and trusting my instincts on it and rolling with it is still crippled but im not giving up i just need to do something so mind blowing that it will unlock it for me. or well that's how it feels like its locked inside and i just need the key.
Just keep visualizing it happening. Experiencing will unlock these things for you.
(01-05-2011, 02:05 AM)Shannon Wrote: [ -> ]Okay, I see that dealing with fear of the unknown and being able to easily deal with the women you are attracting are points that need to be added. Good stuff.
I know you have a sub for dealing with fear of the unknown but is there a subliminal for being able to easily deal with women you are attracting?? if so I would start these as soon as I'm complete with alpha male.
Spiral, I think dealing with fear of the unknown will be added to alpha 2011
Which is an awesome idea! As for a sub dealing with woman! Woman magnet or
sex magnet when it comes out. BIATBW 7.1 or sexually or even carpe diem in my experience
all would seem to help deal with woman one is attracting
Oh I see what u are saying
not just attract them but handle it
Im sure all those would help but wm takes the cake, it made things smooth as butter with women
for my couple week miserable playboy lifestyle fling with it
(01-05-2011, 02:15 AM)Shannon Wrote: [ -> ]Oh, by the way... the super secret experiment I told you guys about several months ago that would be utterly amazing if it worked, and how Prototypes 1 and 2 did not work... I have built Prototype 3. It's still secret, and only Andrew and I have a copy... but I have learned a lot from the second prototype about what was wrong with the program, and why it wasn't doing what it was intended to do. Prototype 3 is a radical departure from P2, and I dare say, I have high hopes for it. Testing begins on Friday for me. If this works as well as I am betting it will, you guys will see this being announced in the store within the next 4 to 6 months. And when I say that you'll want a copy, I am making a serious, major, ridiculous understatement.
If it works like I hope it will, you guys are going to positively mess your pants when you see what it can do. If. Fingers crossed.
I am also performing a different secret experiment with a possible new technology that has been in play three days now, and is producing some really strange and unexpected side effects. It has made me feel as if I am suffering a sunburn, and doubled or tripled my sex drive the whole time I have been exposed so far, but the experimental prototype has nothing to do with causing me to become aroused sexually. This is fascinating stuff. This new technology, too, is truly amazing (if it proves to actually work). It will potentially allow you to do things that are otherwise impossible with conventional subliminals. Truly revolutionary, if it works.
You just love to mess with our heads don't you Shannon?
Haha, it's time to play the guessing game! Ok, now if I recall correctly you made a post somewhere in this journal about a possible update to the Poetry of the Silent Eros programs. The question is, which paragraph does it apply to? It's hard to pick, because in the second paragraph you stated that you felt "sunburned", which is actually a hallmark of the PSE programs because of the intense sexual arousal they cause. And of course the PSE programs are infamous for doubling/tripling sexual interest which supports my theory.
Come on Shannon, TELL US!!!
