Day 4 - Update - (My Day, Snapchat Girl, Visitors Advice)
Time is now 10.30pm. Ive started to listen to my loop and come on to write up my post.
(My Day)
Nothing to report here. Nothing unusual.
Temp is -6 C, snow hasnt stopped falling for 24hrs or more and wednesday night will be -21C so its not the best thats for sure.
(Snapchat girl)
So im guessing this is what everyone is waiting to hear about lol
Ok so lastnight the last message was from me and she didnt say night or bye or anything.
We discussed how ill take her to this awesome pizza place that she hasnt even heard of and she said deal to that. (cant remember if this was in my last update lastnight but who cares just read it again so sorry for any repetition).
So I woke to her having messaged and replied.
We continued to message and I then asked we talk.
I asked lastnight but she said that its late (3am) and she should sleep to wake for class.
Now after some messages she said she has to go out in the snow and deal with some stuff which I respected too.
She did say that she will call me when she gets in otherwise when I am done with class (5.15pm) to call her.
I went to class 3.45-5.15pm and then my friend came home to mine to talk, strategise and bitch and gossip I guess lol
He left around 7pm which was when I messaged her to say sorry couldnt call, friend came over, and just left so im gnna now grab some food and will call later if shes able to talk.
She replied and said ok.
Some time later she suddenly messages and says OMG.
Now im thinking ok whats this about, and she tells me her landlord just came and left and just as the landlord left shes noticed a leak.
What got me was that she jumped on her phone to tell me, so of course as a single needy guy im thinking (and btw needy was a joke lol) that ok shes messaged JUST me about this, but then the rational side of me thought maybe shes:
1) messaged me to lean on me, as the older bro figure, or the older gay best friend
or
2) Shes messaged me as well as 101 other people cos maybe she is just that kinda girl that loves texting people and sharing her shit.
I dont know her well enough at all to know which one it is.
Either way whether its 1, 2 or the reason before those, the fact is I reacted and said OMG call your landlord.
I dont hear from her for around an hour and then she tells me it wasnt a leak, its what is called DAMP, seeping through the walls and even though her landlord will come tomorrow to deal with it, shes googled it and is scared of mould and the respiratory issues it can cause so going to try and wipe it off, as per the advice shes got from google.
I was laughing and she explained how shes a bit OCD about all this and scared of mould.
I did during the 1 hour ask if she could talk, cos im trying to get off from the texting and get to talking but she couldnt as she started to clean the wall.
So I cracked some more funny remarks and replies, and then said you go do that and ill go do some stuff, which is when I then put the phone on flight mode as well as Do Not Disturb, and started DMSI and came on here.
(Visitors Advice)
So my friend that came over after class, is the same older married guy I mentioned that cocks block me (mentioned it here briefly and more on another person's thread).
Anyway told him about this girl, who he has come across in passing and was happy about it and surprised too, he couldnt believe weve been in touch as its so random which it is.
He politely said to me that Jake2015, if you lose some weight, then you wont have a problem with girls for sure. I agree, weight is holding me back alot in life. However when he said this I then remembered that DMSI is there to make those we like, girls in my case, to come and attract and seduce us no matter how we look etc, so bring it on but yeah I want to lose weight etc too.
thats all for now guys.
(02-27-2018, 12:31 PM)Zane Wrote: [ -> ]If she called u for pizza then just go for it..Have Pizza with her. Do this first then think about next step.. Dont analyse too much..
I would have gone for pizza cause if u didn't get sex atleast u got a pizza.
hahah good point, well she said the next time she orders a huge pizza she will call me over, except now things are in the way a little due to the snow, temperature, classes and her damp wall issue but yeah ill aim to either call her over to mine for pizza or take her for pizza at the pizza place I mentioned in my update just before this.
what do you think?
Hey mate, as mentioned before, you already became her male girlfriend texting all kinda crap. Cut it off, arrange a final date to have pizza and don't let her gonna decide when it's gonna be or to call you. You give away all your power. You have to convey that you're a busy guy with a full plate and have no time to text back and forth. This way you just give her validation and attention before she actually earned it. Also, you are practically attached to her mood swings. You can't need this as a man, think about it...
Quote:You've got her attention (which, no Ben, doesn't mean she wants to f""",lol), that's great, now you have to attract her which doesn't work over text.
Inviting you over to be alone with her.. actually yes it does. Your next sentence obviously she's not going to do that, or even admit it. But it's giving him the opportunity to go over and make a move.
Quote:I think youre right it is plutonic.
He was just correcting your word haha, it sounds like something from pluto how you wrote it
(02-27-2018, 02:38 PM)firsthelix Wrote: [ -> ]Hey mate, as mentioned before, you already became her male girlfriend texting all kinda crap. Cut it off, arrange a final date to have pizza and don't let her gonna decide when it's gonna be or to call you. You give away all your power. You have to convey that you're a busy guy with a full plate and have no time to text back and forth. This way you just give her validation and attention before she actually earned it. Also, you are practically attached to her mood swings. You can't need this as a man, think about it...
can you go into more detail about this all if poss mate?
Day 4 - Quick Update - (Snapchat Girl, No Fap, Porn, Procrastination, Extras)
(Snapchat Girl)
Shes been busy cleaning the damp wall shes got.
Ive tried on multiple occasions to get her to talk to me, rather than wasting time txting.
Shes had 1 reason or another not to talk.
Now her reasons were that shes literally got tired arms from all the cleaning, yet we carried on texting for about 5 or 6 text messages before I realised and thought fuck this!
So wrapped it up quick and said good night.
Shes messaged back but I wont reply till tomorrow morning or at some point.
I dont know why shes not craving to talk, or why shes reluctant to talk, but how do I go on from this?
My suspicions were that maybe just maybe from the start she sees me as just a plutonic friend, thus asking me over for pizza and whatever are safe and calm for her but of course I wanna change all this, and no idea how.
(No Fap)
Not fapped still
(Porn)
Not really watched any porn either
(Procrastination)
Super High as always when it comes to study
(Extras)
Nothing else noticed, or changed, from diet to sleep to feelings etc.
No change in temperature nothing.
No change in regards to women or attraction or them wanting me etc.
I have to be careful, in the hope of DMSI working and the bigger hope of the sub working on me and not being stonewalled by me doesnt mean I allow myself to get carried away. I dont know what is DMSI or what is placebo, what is real and what is imagined as yet.
So I have to be patient, which isnt easy when you have 1 loop a day and thus hope this is more powerful that Thor's hammer.
(02-27-2018, 03:14 PM)Benjamin Wrote: [ -> ]Quote:You've got her attention (which, no Ben, doesn't mean she wants to f""",lol), that's great, now you have to attract her which doesn't work over text.
Inviting you over to be alone with her.. actually yes it does. Your next sentence obviously she's not going to do that, or even admit it. But it's giving him the opportunity to go over and make a move.
Quote:I think youre right it is plutonic.
He was just correcting your word haha, it sounds like something from pluto how you wrote it
hahaha Ben, I didnt realise but my laptop was automatically changing Platonic to Plutonic and still didnt catch on, had to re-read my original message to realise hahaha
gnna leave it there for prosperity
(02-27-2018, 03:39 PM)Jake2015 Wrote: [ -> ] (02-27-2018, 03:14 PM)Benjamin Wrote: [ -> ]Quote:You've got her attention (which, no Ben, doesn't mean she wants to f""",lol), that's great, now you have to attract her which doesn't work over text.
Inviting you over to be alone with her.. actually yes it does. Your next sentence obviously she's not going to do that, or even admit it. But it's giving him the opportunity to go over and make a move.
Quote:I think youre right it is plutonic.
He was just correcting your word haha, it sounds like something from pluto how you wrote it
hahaha Ben, I didnt realise but my laptop was automatically changing Platonic to Plutonic and still didnt catch on, had to re-read my original message to realise hahaha
gnna leave it there for prosperity
Thank God, it was really bugging me that you kept writing "plutonic" but I didn`t comment cause I didn`t wanna seem rude
Haha "prosperity" - "posterity" well played Jake
(02-28-2018, 02:13 AM)Determined Wrote: [ -> ]Haha "prosperity" - "posterity" well played Jake
haha Determined, im glad someone got this hahah
time for my update for today...coming up guys.....
Day 5 - Update - (Current, Snapchat Girl, No Fap, Procrastination, Hunger/Diet/Nutrition, Caffeine/Water/Liquids, Feelings, Sleep/Energy, Conclusions)
(Current)
Time is 9.57pm.
I am listening to DMSI as I type this.
I feel a little sleepy in the eyes, could be DMSI or the natural relaxation of this time of the evening.
(Snapchat Girl)
No messages, shes not firing up my phone as has been the case.
Not sure why, there is a shift could be due to me closing the door on her lastnight or simply just the way it is and im over thinking and trying to dissect the situation.
In the evening, I shared a forwarded/viral joke to her and many other friends. She replied (as did my other friends) and she and I shared some banter, after which I again said lets talk, I have asked 5 times and youre lucky I even asked once, which I wouldnt do.
She laughed and said yeah its just bad timing that whenever im free she isnt, and that shes now on her way to *BFS NAME* to return his hoodie which he gave her as its freezing cold.
I said get back to me when youre free.
I think I therefore have grounds to confirm I am and have only ever been her friend and in the phantom zone...sorry Superman prison there, I meant the dreaded Friends Zone.
DMSI save me lol
(No Fap)
Still not fapped. Gone to some porn sites, out of boredom but im not playing/watching any porn, merely browsing the thumbnails.
(Procrastination)
Avoiding study is still there.
(Hunger/Diet/Nutrition)
I seem to not feel hungry. When I am im over eating out of habit and boredom and fear that im not eating enough perhaps, even though im a big fella but im not necessarily hungry.
Is this DMSI or just my current constitution due to the time of day/month/week or even year? lol
(Caffeine/Water/Liquids)
Im drinking around 1-2 mugs of tea a day, not green tea but normal english tea.
I am drinking alot of coke zero, perhaps 1litre a day max or less.
I had a can of Coca Cola (300ml) today too.
I am drinking 0ml of water.
I need to fix this but its not easy and its a habit I need to change but man coke tastes so mmmmhmmmm. Always coca-cola yeh! lol
(Feelings)
Im usually a calm, jovial kinda guy. I dont seem to be feeling much anxiety or stress. Unsure but I seem to be chilled out or I think I am since im trying to analyse myself for the purpose of this report/post and for myself to see if DMSI is working on me at all.
(Sleep/Energy)
No change or anything different or extreme to report.
No headaches or anything either.
(Conclusions)
At the moment besides not fapping, I cant seem to say anything else has changed. Girls arent falling at my feet lol but seriously girls cant coming into my orbit, or smelling my aura or behaving in anyway in which I would feel like Winnie the Pooh bear with a pot of honey for all these sexy bees.
Nothing seems to have happened.
I know this DMSI 3.2 is a very powerful sub, the strongest there is at the moment if you exclude HULK from this lol So im wondering, being the strongest, then will it work quicker than any other version of DMSI or will it still take 30-90days to know for sure.
I know DMSI seems to be working on others and perhaps that is because they have been testing/using previous versions for a long time or maybe theyre already attractive and just needed to tweak themselves.
In my defence, im overweight, losing hair so if DMSI does work for me it will be proof that im not stonewalling and that the sub is awesome.
I hope im not stonewalling. Im not consciously stonewalling and im going out whenever there is a class so im not exactly trying to sabotage results, or prevent this sub from working and beyond all that I dont see how I could stonewall this sub exactly.
Im also waiting for the wall to kick my arse (US: Ass) if it hasnt already started on this.
Im maybe a little despondent, as I type this, not because my spelling of Platonic was as far gone as the planet Plutonic, but just that as I write this report, and think about the other reports prior to this, im feeling impatient and asking when will DMSI work for me?
thanks for reading and lift me up guys, am I resisting or if im getting no resistance crap, then is it working on me and just needing time?
Day 5 - Part 2 Update
Since listening to the loop, Time now 12.42am, I have been feeling somewhat sleepy.
again could be the time or DMSI but worth reporting.
Day 6 - Update - (Snapchat Girl, Any other girl?, No Fap, Physical Appearance, Anything else to report?)
Time: 9.28pm
I am listening to DMSI loop as I type this.
(Snapchat Girl)
Nothing there, no contact nothing now.
(Any other girls?)
I am a member of an adult dating site in the UK. I kinda go on when bored as well as well you never know right. Yesterday got in touch with a woman and we ended up talking from around 10pm all the way to 6am.
I only got 5hrs sleep and then got up for Uni so im not too happy about that as for me the sleep is important for DMSI execution.
This woman has a child so I know it wont go anywhere and well tbh im most of the year in Europe for Uni, so theres maybe no chance we will meet either.
Before you all jump on and say this is DMSI, well I dont think it is. This has happened before, but it wasnt something to report due to the other subs not being about me pulling women and more about E2/clearing or MLS/studying etc.
So I cannot attribute this to DMSI yet, and will know if and when DMSI kicks in for me because my results all around will require less effort from me and also much greater concrete results which are not over in the UK (1000s of miles away) but closer to where I live now.
At the moment whenever I go on such sites I simply use the philosophy thats its a numbers game and so I simply send an intro message to pretty much every female to see who bites, but for me to know DMSI is working is when I dont need numbers and yet the bites keep on coming.
Today however shes gone somewhat quiet, but im not fussed as im now more bothered about getting some sleep than wasting time on a woman on the phone.
Also this woman had no pic, simply a profile with some details so even though what we talked about is what im seeking in a female the rest of the above negates her for me.
(No Fap)
So no fapping, no desire to fap and I do out of habit jump on a porn site and then simply come out. I dont really have the desire to do anything.
When on the phone with the said female from above, I did get aroused more by my command of the call and what I was saying than anything else hahaha but still no fapping took place.
(Physical Appearance)
Today I looked in a mirror in a class and realised I have put on weight. I then asked my friend and he very politely agreed that it seems ive put on more weight. Im already fat, and now im fatter, this isnt healthy nor good. Im not suggesting its DMSI, but im hoping DMSI works somehow at making me change my diet etc.
(Anything else to report?)
Unfortunately no.
Im still wondering and asking the same question, that if fapping is reduced due to DMSI does this mean the rest of it will work for me and that I am not stonewalling?
I do fear since nothing else is happening in my world at the moment, if whether I am stonewalling or not.
Read my last report and you shall see that im not feeling tired or headaches or anything to suggest im fighting or facing any resistance but yet the results arent there for me.
Also as per my last report, caffeine intake, bad junk food diet etc its all unchanged. Im eating badly etc still.
Im little sad about this but what can I do except carry on.
Day 7 - Update - (Snapchat Girl, Any other girls?, No Fap, Anything else?, Conclusion)
Time 12.29am
I am currently listening to my loop for today (Friday 2nd March).
(Snapchat Girl)
Gone quiet, but her bf has sent me a friend request on snapchat so I accepted. I sent him one, hours later on facebook and he accepted.
(Any other girls?)
An old flame, someone I met online, havent met online yet shes totally besotted with me, and is on my snapchat but we seldomly chat, maybe once every 4-8months, got chatting to me today after I commented on 1 of her snapchat pics/selfies.
We chatted for hours and hours. She got married to someone she doesnt love and she thinks we have a future....im in a hole with this one lol
(No Fap)
No fapping today either. I may get hard and aroused but im not fapping. Im hoping still this is DMSI and not me consciously trying to not fap because others here arent.
(Anything else?)
I havent slept enough at all, both lastnight which was maybe a few to 5hrs sleep because of an 8am start at uni today, and then today when i got back ive avoided sleep until I was ready only for the old girl from above to keep me talking. Ive eaten, take a painkiller as was getting a headache from lack of sleep and im all ok.
I know sleep derails everything including subs so im going to hope and try to correct this from tomorrow.
My diet is VERY BAD
I must fix and clean this up asap.
(Conclusion)
Besides NOT fapping nothing else has happened yet.
Still early to say if im stonewalling or if DMSI is working due to me not fapping.