Catman, I read somewhere that you've done the PUA route as well? And that you don't feel like it's the way you wanna do things.
Then I just wanna ask why you have the wrong idea that women like bad boys? They don't. But they do like what signals these things that the bad boys/jerks sub-communicate.
For example, why would someone tell another person to "fk off"? It's basically saying that "I don't need your approval, now go away".
Only a person that's "high status" wouldn't need approval from someone else, as they already have approval from something else. Now this do depend on the situation but just go with this example now haha
If we go back in time, this could be a leader of the tribe, having an interaction (non-aggressive) with another tribe. Saying he doesn't want them around (Why? - Because he has his own tribe. His own people that give him approval, is loyal and things like that.)
That is the signal that most bad boys/jerks give girls, causing girls to get interested. He already has enough approval, (why does he have enough approval?) - he must be someone of value. But girls definitely don't like getting treated like shit. What they do like is these things displaying "masculinity", but in today's society, these "signs" often doesn't mean the guy is masculine or things like that. It often means the guy is a complete a**hole, but that doesn't remove the attraction from a girl BELIEVING he is a "bigger/better man".
This is also the reason why women "shit-test" you. They wanna see that there isn't a facade that you act, that it isn't a mask that you wear when you wanna get your dick wet. They wanna know they have the "real man" that can satisfy them. More often it's not the man they're searching, but he passed these tests anyway.
Most PUA companies regardless of their moral standings or things like that would teach you these things as long they have any basic understanding of attraction.
I would recommend you a book that I'd think you like, it feels like the sort of book you could resonate with and it would be a step in what I would say is the right direction.
The book is called "Fundamentals of Female Dynamics: The Practical Handbook to Attracting Women" and is written by Michael Knight.
Look it up if you want to, I have read it myself and it's definitely a good book. And I do believe that you would find help from it.
(03-21-2017, 11:00 PM)Ricardo Wrote: [ -> ] (03-21-2017, 02:11 PM)CatMan Wrote: [ -> ]Day 21: DMSI V3.1-A
-let's face it, if Susan Boyle used DAOSI or DMSI, nobody would mistake her for Jessica Alba.
This is what DMSI is supposed to do! I sometimes wonder if we or Shannon realise this?
No, it's not. DMSI is supposed to make YOU sexually irresistible, it's not gonna make you Brad Pitt, or Jessica Alba. DMSI has more potential as well, as DMSI is making the affected person perceive you as more attractive according to their standards.
One thing I would say that we men have an advantage over women is that women simply don't judge that much on looks. The most important factor in looks for men is grooming and fashion. Which is not exactly the hardest thing on earth.
Not saying that looks don't matter, they do. But not the same extent as they do for women as we are biologically wired differently.
The thing that is most attractive to women in men is our behavior, which also is easier to change than physical looks. With DMSI it should be a piece of cake, as long we also have the healthy beliefs.
But nonetheless, while not Jessica Alba I definitely think this is a HUGE improvement from when Susan Boyle went to her first audition (probably also have been edited a little).