Who would have thought. .. "beta game" (I'm gonna call it authenticity from now on) actually serves me well. PUA to me is nothing more than indoctrinating myself with someone else's belief systems. I'm sitting here trying to develop my own belief systems through dmsi, but I end up spoiling it by putting more crap into me. I have enough faulty programming in me as it is. Adopting another's archetype as my own leaves a lot of loose ends that don't get acknowledged.
So that has been an ego crushing realization. All the time and energy I spent indoctrinating myself into what I thought I wanted to be like has been in vain. The truth is that I am an emotive and expressive man. Attempts to be anything but that just leads to fueling irrational GSF complexes.
That may well be a huge reason I have been crying; everything I thought I knew about myself got smashed. The [eternity] underneath the mountains of bullshit masks is actually a very sexually attractive gentleman. A smooth operator, so to speak. I didn't need to ADD to myself. I needed to subtract bullsh** that I didn't know I had. 3.0.1a is a boon in that regard.
Authenticity is key. To thine ownself be true. It really helps to understand my MBTI personality type. As an ENFP, it would be futile to want to become an ESTJ traditional alpha type. Alpha for me looks like nothing but pure self mastery, hence Transcendent alpha is by far the superior term for describing a self actualized self.
I'm so glad I didn't cave into stopping version A again. Getting past the feelings of hopelessness has resulted in a deeper understanding of myself, and what it's going to take to align with the goals of dimsee.
Awesome to see another man making this realization!
However, don't forget the fact that even while PUA may be "unhealthy", it's been part of your journey and might continue to give you good insights. It has for me at least. If you've found a teacher you've resonated with and liked his teaching. Stay with that guy. He'll continue to give you help in other areas you haven't even thought about earlier
"When a man realizes the only thing he can be is himself, that's what'll he give the world and the world will thank him for it."
(02-07-2017, 10:30 AM)eternity Wrote: [ -> ]Who would have thought. .. "beta game" (I'm gonna call it authenticity from now on) actually serves me well. PUA to me is nothing more than indoctrinating myself with someone else's belief systems. I'm sitting here trying to develop my own belief systems through dmsi, but I end up spoiling it by putting more crap into me. I have enough faulty programming in me as it is. Adopting another's archetype as my own leaves a lot of loose ends that don't get acknowledged.
So that has been an ego crushing realization. All the time and energy I spent indoctrinating myself into what I thought I wanted to be like has been in vain. The truth is that I am an emotive and expressive man. Attempts to be anything but that just leads to fueling irrational GSF complexes.
That may well be a huge reason I have been crying; everything I thought I knew about myself got smashed. The [eternity] underneath the mountains of ***** masks is actually a very sexually attractive gentleman. A smooth operator, so to speak. I didn't need to ADD to myself. I needed to subtract bullsh** that I didn't know I had. 3.0.1a is a boon in that regard.
Authenticity is key. To thine ownself be true. It really helps to understand my MBTI personality type. As an ENFP, it would be futile to want to become an ESTJ traditional alpha type. Alpha for me looks like nothing but pure self mastery, hence Transcendent alpha is by far the superior term for describing a self actualized self.
I'm so glad I didn't cave into stopping version A again. Getting past the feelings of hopelessness has resulted in a deeper understanding of myself, and what it's going to take to align with the goals of dimsee.
Very mature realization man! Most of the people out there will come to that kind of conclusion too late in their lifetime.
Honesty, integrity and True desire is the path of inevitable success, IMHO. Keep going towards the Best Version of Yourself.
I'm extremely happy for you eternity! That's such a profound change man, I'm happy to see you advancing in the way you are.
For a while I was wondering why you were crying so much. Then seeing it framed in the context of you breaking free from that garbage - absolutely beautiful.
Best wishes man!
The last couple days have been incredibly stable, as far as emotional state goes. I find I'm at peace with myself.
The announcements of 3.1 is stirring up discord as to who will stick to dmsi and who will bail. I hope those who bail end up coming back to dmsi after the reasons for bailing had been addressed. Not that I have anything to gain by hoping this on someone else.... but for a man to experience a paradigm flip where women seduce the man is an experience no man should miss in this lifetime.
I wonder if it's time to stop DMSI 3.0.1 now, in preparation for less turbulence on 3.1
Hasn't everyone bailed on DMSI to some degree?
(02-09-2017, 11:42 AM)eternity Wrote: [ -> ]The last couple days have been incredibly stable, as far as emotional state goes. I find I'm at peace with myself.
The announcements of 3.1 is stirring up discord as to who will stick to dmsi and who will bail. I hope those who bail end up coming back to dmsi after the reasons for bailing had been addressed. Not that I have anything to gain by hoping this on someone else.... but for a man to experience a paradigm flip where women seduce the man is an experience no man should miss in this lifetime.
I wonder if it's time to stop DMSI 3.0.1 now, in preparation for less turbulence on 3.1
It certainly seems Shannon is making more progress at a faster rate than he was expecting, based on some of the comments I've read.
(02-09-2017, 11:42 AM)eternity Wrote: [ -> ]The last couple days have been incredibly stable, as far as emotional state goes. I find I'm at peace with myself.
The announcements of 3.1 is stirring up discord as to who will stick to dmsi and who will bail. I hope those who bail end up coming back to dmsi after the reasons for bailing had been addressed. Not that I have anything to gain by hoping this on someone else.... but for a man to experience a paradigm flip where women seduce the man is an experience no man should miss in this lifetime.
I wonder if it's time to stop DMSI 3.0.1 now, in preparation for less turbulence on 3.1
Those who bail on DMSI will do so for one of two main reasons.
1. They decide something else genuinely interests them more, and they may or may not come back to DMSI. These guys will be in the minority, because they're not bailing out of fear or resistance.
2. Those guys who decide they can't handle what DMSI is demanding from them, and they know that DMSI will have it's way if they keep listening. These guys would have their reasons for bailing removed by DMSI if they don't bail. They will try to convince themselves and everyone else that they fall into #1 above, but it will be relatively easy to spot the difference based on how they act, think, speak, and what they do afterward. They may or may not come back, but the point of them bailing is so that DMSI does NOT succeed, and does NOT make the changes that result in them using it or using it again. They therefore are unlikely to run it again once they bail.
I agree with you on the paradigm flip.
Quote:I wonder if it's time to stop DMSI 3.0.1 now, in preparation for less turbulence on 3.1
I was kind of thinking of that myself actually.
I think I'm getting significantly more intellectual. My thoughts are more coherent. My Thoughts are more linear. Just what I wanted! Now, I would very much like to be able to pull exactly the word I need at any moment, and I'll be a beast at speaking.
So far, my run back on A has resulted in
1. My neediness is at an all time low.
2. I'm developing a major long term poly sexual relationship with a woman. We're just waiting on living circumstances.
3. I'm much wiser
4. I'm more jovial
5. Thinking quality has been improved (more effective Te, for you mbti lovers)
6. Validation seeking from men and women is basically nonexistent
7. My personal needs are more apparent
8. Drive to succeed is growing
9. Multiple income opportunities have presented themselves
I think it's safe to say I am done with 3.0.1 as of yesterday. Time to bloom!
What a journey this version has been. I've really evolved into a far superior version of myself in just 2 months of 3.0.1.
Thank you Shannon for the opportunity to grow and test your product.
I can't wait to see how you think of 3.1 when 3.2 is in the works, then, heh
(02-10-2017, 09:23 PM)eternity Wrote: [ -> ]I think I'm getting significantly more intellectual. My thoughts are more coherent. My Thoughts are more linear. Just what I wanted! Now, I would very much like to be able to pull exactly the word I need at any moment, and I'll be a beast at speaking.
So far, my run back on A has resulted in
1. My neediness is at an all time low.
2. I'm developing a major long term poly sexual relationship with a woman. We're just waiting on living circumstances.
3. I'm much wiser
4. I'm more jovial
5. Thinking quality has been improved (more effective Te, for you mbti lovers)
6. Validation seeking from men and women is basically nonexistent
7. My personal needs are more apparent
8. Drive to succeed is growing
9. Multiple income opportunities have presented themselves
I think it's safe to say I am done with 3.0.1 as of yesterday. Time to bloom!
What a journey this version has been. I've really evolved into a far superior version of myself in just 2 months of 3.0.1.
Thank you Shannon for the opportunity to grow and test your product.
I actually really noticed increased intellectualism as well. I feel like my thoughts are more organized--I'm less racy and in my own head, and more stable, coherent, and mature. I guess I would call my thoughts more grounded. I've had an easier time figuring out people in my life, social situations, difficult scenarios, and I've even noticed an increase in clarity of thoughts while writing, or performing other actions that require strong mental focus and intelligence.
I would definitely say that Dimsee is the closest thing we may have ever had to an 'end-all, be-all' type sub. With all of the clearing, the attractive and confidence boosters, and the ultra success programming, it's so easy to see why DMSI is a really, really strong choice for a sub for men everywhere (no idea what the effects of this sub are like for women). I'm hoping that those who haven't had much success yet will find some increased results in the coming months, but if 3.1 is even twice as powerful as 3.01 is, then we'll all be in for a real treat.
The goal of the program is to make you sexy, intelligence is sexy, so I am not surprised with those results for you guys
I got a brand new 2017 car two weeks ago and didn't even brag about it to anyone except my closest friends. Last year when I got a shitty ass hoopdi, I was bragging to everyone for validation. It's very interesting how this new car was far more brag worthy, but I kept my mouth shut about it. Not that it was a chore to keep silent... I just knew deep down how needy it would be to seek validation from people who aren't important to me by telling them I got a new car. I worked my ass off, and sacrificed a lot of my free time to be able to afford the down payment.
I know it was due to US programming and being accountable for my own life.
Next goal is finding a place to live because a man who shares a room with his mom and sister is not sexually appealing. Lol.
@kalmah thanks for sharing man, I know how vast the clearing process is going. And it is going to be even more on 3.1