And what I mean by that is that it's more a trade off for power. Women need something from u, so they give sex to keep u in their lives
Pick up is feeling really easy right now. Even if I ask a female employee at a grocery store a question my social value rises. There is a abundance of women just wanting to be talked to. They get dressed, get out of bed, put all this effort to go out for some sort of connection.
I admire pornstars a bit because of this realization. They can be so intimate infront of the entire world their career is literally about making a connection
Exactly. Every girl just wants to be approached and to meet the right guy. We are the men of attraction!
Its an illusion that every girl wants to meet the right guy.
Not every girl want to meet the right guy or the guy she loves many will go with someone she sees as good enough or its easy with him. Even if she could have someone better.
Honestly, SM is a self interest sub. Does it matter if the girl thinks it's easy being with you as long as u guys are having sex? U'll see AM makes u a true alpha but a lot of those beleifs are changed in the first few stages to become more socially dominant these rules about women begin to dissipate and there's only sex and attraction
Ya I like the changes I'm starting to notice in terms of social outlook.
(03-09-2016, 12:40 PM)Ultralight Beam Wrote: [ -> ]Honestly, SM is a self interest sub. Does it matter if the girl thinks it's easy being with you as long as u guys are having sex? U'll see AM makes u a true alpha but a lot of those beleifs are changed in the first few stages to become more socially dominant these rules about women begin to dissipate and there's only sex and attraction
Yeah for me it does, u will see as when you have done more runs of magnets, sex will have a less and less important role for you and you will care more about how the girl treats you and her character. You will use sex as a tool just as women do to get things. I thought the same way like you 3 years ago. Or maybe you wont i dont know this is the result of my journey so far. Maybe that is the reason girls come back to me because they see i dont value their pussy more than i value my ego.
I dont do sex for fun i do it for the respect.
Could i get more pusyy with a weaker ego maybe, would i do it? No, ego was always their with me helped me to survive pussy never did this for me.
Magnets made me always more alpha towards women than am itself.
Yeah I'm not saying being walked all over to have sex but i find myself having to compromise my time to have sex with them. This is obvious. Unless I'm a pornstar getting paid for sex there's no real productivity involved. A man doesn't need a woman to survive only to interact with them as human beings atleast. I do value my personal success but I might also run AYP financially wealthy lover who might have the same net worth or even more than me. I guess what I'm saying is that the perfect world with what I want from women which is based along the lines of the product description is very possible and only innevitable so I hold myself in that frame and silly things women do doesn't bother however like u said though my journey might change
I'd disagree with the tradeoff thing. But this might be the difference between SM and WM. I couldn't say as I haven't done both.
The way i'm interacting with girls with WM, appreciating them etc.. sex, talking sexually, playing on text or video or whatever. It's simply an exchange of mutual pleasure, we both want it as much as each other. In this way it's not an 'exchange of something else for sex' it's just 'an exchange of pleasure for pleasure because it feels good to both of us'.
I'm just realizing that alot of my interactions are simply hours of us enjoying each other even during the times when it's not going sexual, though most of the time it does.
Thinking in this way of 'exchange' you mentioned just takes the pure pleasure out of it all.
Quote:I dont do sex for fun i do it for the respect
I personally don't see the point. I do it for fun and enjoyment, mutual pleasure. I can't see how you could enjoy it much if that's why you're doing it.
(03-09-2016, 01:03 PM)essy Wrote: [ -> ]Ya I like the changes I'm starting to notice in terms of social outlook.
It wasn't as short of a process as I thought but rest assured, it'll change everything about u... For the better
Thanks for chiming in Ben. Don't get me wrong the pleasure is there but it's just raw sex. I don't want to enjoy her after when there's work to do. You're answer was very mature and in a perfect world I would want to explore the perfection of one person for hours on end however even with all my free time I'm not looking for that type of relationship with a woman. I just want sex. Maybe that's why WM is supposed to make u the higher value alpha. Honestly I'm not here to tell the female readers how much pleasure I can give during sex rather just talk about achieving my goals of having the best sex to my standards. I keep saying I've been a winner during this journey and that's true during this journey between myself and the females I've gotten with Ive come out the winner it's not very mature
I reached my training goals again today. I think why I feel like working out is torture is because I believed my success should come as effortless as possible. Subs help a lot with this but let me get this point clearly across. That doesn't mean u can be a wild animal, do nothing and expect results. This is very immature. A lot of criminals can't take responsibility for the work necessary to be successful and resort to scams in order to get their riches. For the longest time I thought things were just going to be given to me. I relied on the subs. The truth is the subs have helped and made me emotionally healthy enough to come to this realization. I'm not working out from fear, but just genuinely to achieve a goal. And I know I'm in alignment with where the subs is taking me, for the most part. Sometimes I wonder do I need to work out to hook up with women. But I'm still in alignment with the sub so it's irrelevant