Quote:Also, the girl from last night is someone who I had only talked to a few times at the castle. She does makeup out there, but I never see her. I had only seen her in passing and talked to her only once, I think, but I saw her on the "People you may know" section on FB and sent her a friend request. Within a few minutes she asked for my number and then after a little more very blunt banter, she asked me to come over. Turns out she lives a few miles away. Fun times...
Hey Cortez, how was she?
The first thought that popped in my mind, after have read it, was great..
and it gave me a smirk on my face too but then I thought, 20 minutes.. ain't that a rush for sex? and you don't say anything about her. ANYTHING.
It just made me wonder if there was an amazing connection or just sex?
- LM
(10-19-2011, 01:17 PM)Cortez Wrote: [ -> ]Yeah, don't worry about their rules, their standards, their boyfriends etc. All that stuff just doesn't matter. I know the way it's gonna be and that's all I need to now. Every objection, rationalization, analysis, etc. is all just background noise and I really don't react to it and they love it. I had a girl tell me the other day when we were making out that I was controlling. I said "OK" and just kept on making out with her. She was like "You're just gonna say ok?" and I was like "Well what do want? Is controlling a good thing or a bad thing?" and she was like "No, it's a good thing. I'm a sub." My general mantra is "Power through, Bro." You know the course you're on and you're going that way no matter what, someone's own limiting beliefs don't matter because no outcome is really necessary with them and once you know that you're going to win in the long run and no particular outcome is necessary with any particular female, you're free from the male trap that guys put themselves and free to act, do and say whatever you want. That makes you a BOSS. That also gets you laid like a rock star. I've heard that women like tall guys and I don't how true that is, but in the scenario's where it is, you can bet that their initial attraction would be gone in a few minutes flat if I didn't have anything backing it up.
Also, the girl from last night is someone who I had only talked to a few times at the castle. She does makeup out there, but I never see her. I had only seen her in passing and talked to her only once, I think, but I saw her on the "People you may know" section on FB and sent her a friend request. Within a few minutes she asked for my number and then after a little more very blunt banter, she asked me to come over. Turns out she lives a few miles away. Fun times...
I'm copying this post and saving it...the freedom in it is just seeping through..oh yeah and "power through, bro" lol nice...
between what u and Ryan said on the height thing, I've just made the decision to be over it and let it go-surprisingly easy once there is enough logic to shove the irrational stuff out the window. Earlier tonight I was on the way to Duane Read when this 6'1 supermodel looking chick stopped after opening the door and held it for me while I walked from like a hundred feet away to get in. Congrats on ur fun times with facebook Cortez
(10-19-2011, 02:17 PM)LionMonkey Wrote: [ -> ]Quote:Also, the girl from last night is someone who I had only talked to a few times at the castle. She does makeup out there, but I never see her. I had only seen her in passing and talked to her only once, I think, but I saw her on the "People you may know" section on FB and sent her a friend request. Within a few minutes she asked for my number and then after a little more very blunt banter, she asked me to come over. Turns out she lives a few miles away. Fun times...
Hey Cortez, how was she?
The first thought that popped in my mind, after have read it, was great.. and it gave me a smirk on my face too but then I thought, 20 minutes.. ain't that a rush for sex? and you don't say anything about her. ANYTHING.
It just made me wonder if there was an amazing connection or just sex?
- LM
I never said we had sex. We did everything but. She was way sore from some chick that got in to a bar fight with her. Anyway, we did enough to satisfy me. I went and hung out with her again tonight. Tonight we just hung out, made out a little and talked. Se tries to come off as a hard ass, but it doesn't work that well with me because I'm about as blunt as it is possible to get. I believe this was what I said to her "Give me a call whenever you're ready to get f*cked." to which she happily replied "OK! I will@ I'm sorry that I'm so lame tonight." She's a nice girl, though, but what we do is entirely fun. I save the "amazing connection" for another girl I know that I'm starting to like a lot. I must like this other girl if I'm making her italian food on Sunday, but the girl from last night, we're both agreed that it's strictly fun.
Good! No more height talk outta you!
Not that you can help it at all, why worry?
Ryan
(10-19-2011, 07:02 PM)Ryan Wrote: [ -> ]Good! No more height talk outta you! Not that you can help it at all, why worry?
Ryan
haha exactly, well apparently some things help-I did grow almost an inch with hypnosis as I mentioned in my pre-sex magnet journal but that is the last I speak of it sssshh to myself
(10-19-2011, 06:40 PM)Cortez Wrote: [ -> ] (10-19-2011, 02:17 PM)LionMonkey Wrote: [ -> ]Quote:Also, the girl from last night is someone who I had only talked to a few times at the castle. She does makeup out there, but I never see her. I had only seen her in passing and talked to her only once, I think, but I saw her on the "People you may know" section on FB and sent her a friend request. Within a few minutes she asked for my number and then after a little more very blunt banter, she asked me to come over. Turns out she lives a few miles away. Fun times...
Hey Cortez, how was she?
The first thought that popped in my mind, after have read it, was great.. and it gave me a smirk on my face too but then I thought, 20 minutes.. ain't that a rush for sex? and you don't say anything about her. ANYTHING.
It just made me wonder if there was an amazing connection or just sex?
- LM
I never said we had sex. We did everything but. She was way sore from some chick that got in to a bar fight with her. Anyway, we did enough to satisfy me. I went and hung out with her again tonight. Tonight we just hung out, made out a little and talked. Se tries to come off as a hard ass, but it doesn't work that well with me because I'm about as blunt as it is possible to get. I believe this was what I said to her "Give me a call whenever you're ready to get f*cked." to which she happily replied "OK! I will@ I'm sorry that I'm so lame tonight." She's a nice girl, though, but what we do is entirely fun. I save the "amazing connection" for another girl I know that I'm starting to like a lot. I must like this other girl if I'm making her italian food on Sunday, but the girl from last night, we're both agreed that it's strictly fun.
"I'm sorry I'm so lame tonight"-
(lame1 [leym] Show IPA adjective, lam·er, lam·est, verb, lamed, lam·ing, noun
adjective
1.
crippled or physically disabled, especially in the foot or leg so as to limp or walk with difficulty.
2.
impaired or disabled through defect or injury: a lame arm.
3.
weak; inadequate; unsatisfactory; clumsy: a lame excuse.
4.
Slang. out of touch with modern fads or trends; unsophisticated.)
I'm assuming she meant definitions 1-3
(10-19-2011, 08:40 PM)RainbowAbyss Wrote: [ -> ] (10-19-2011, 06:40 PM)Cortez Wrote: [ -> ] (10-19-2011, 02:17 PM)LionMonkey Wrote: [ -> ]Quote:Also, the girl from last night is someone who I had only talked to a few times at the castle. She does makeup out there, but I never see her. I had only seen her in passing and talked to her only once, I think, but I saw her on the "People you may know" section on FB and sent her a friend request. Within a few minutes she asked for my number and then after a little more very blunt banter, she asked me to come over. Turns out she lives a few miles away. Fun times...
Hey Cortez, how was she?
The first thought that popped in my mind, after have read it, was great.. and it gave me a smirk on my face too but then I thought, 20 minutes.. ain't that a rush for sex? and you don't say anything about her. ANYTHING.
It just made me wonder if there was an amazing connection or just sex?
- LM
I never said we had sex. We did everything but. She was way sore from some chick that got in to a bar fight with her. Anyway, we did enough to satisfy me. I went and hung out with her again tonight. Tonight we just hung out, made out a little and talked. Se tries to come off as a hard ass, but it doesn't work that well with me because I'm about as blunt as it is possible to get. I believe this was what I said to her "Give me a call whenever you're ready to get f*cked." to which she happily replied "OK! I will@ I'm sorry that I'm so lame tonight." She's a nice girl, though, but what we do is entirely fun. I save the "amazing connection" for another girl I know that I'm starting to like a lot. I must like this other girl if I'm making her italian food on Sunday, but the girl from last night, we're both agreed that it's strictly fun.
"I'm sorry I'm so lame tonight"-
(lame1 [leym] Show IPA adjective, lam·er, lam·est, verb, lamed, lam·ing, noun
adjective
1.
crippled or physically disabled, especially in the foot or leg so as to limp or walk with difficulty.
2.
impaired or disabled through defect or injury: a lame arm.
3.
weak; inadequate; unsatisfactory; clumsy: a lame excuse.
4.
Slang. out of touch with modern fads or trends; unsophisticated.)
I'm assuming she meant definitions 1-3
Yeah, pretty much. She was all beat from being a little badass, lmao. I gave her a massage as well. She owes me one next week.
This reminds me of the gigolo I was once reading from... "The price of dinner gets you a good massage, but that's all you're getting tonight" =)
Ryan
Not that I was trying to get laid from it, I just felt like it, BUT on the other hand, every time I have ever made dinner for a girl I have gotten laid. Bought dinner, No. Made Dinner, Every time.
(10-21-2011, 09:42 AM)Cortez Wrote: [ -> ]Not that I was trying to get laid from it, I just felt like it, BUT on the other hand, every time I have ever made dinner for a girl I have gotten laid. Bought dinner, No. Made Dinner, Every time.
Why is that, do you think? I notice the same thing...
Maybe it's just sexy when a man cooks dinner. It's kind of rare thing. Most guys can't cook at all. Or maybe our cooking is just that damn good. Who knows...
Of course it's SEXY! Not that it's just very chivalrous it also shows you know how to take care of yourself, that you can also do something that women expect you are not good at, and that you really do care...it's a very rare thing in our society
Ryan
(10-22-2011, 01:12 AM)Cortez Wrote: [ -> ]Maybe it's just sexy when a man cooks dinner. It's kind of rare thing. Most guys can't cook at all. Or maybe our cooking is just that damn good. Who knows...
I'm thinking that a leader is capable of doing whatever he chooses to do, and actually does it, so it's a sign of a leader to them.
Also, cooking for a woman is not just something most men can't do - 'cause I guarantee you, my cooking isn't as good as that of a lot of the women I have dated (yet) - but some thing they will not or do not do. It is therefore understood by women as "He cares, and he's taking care of me." More high value mating display. This is deadly, right here.
Then there's the "This man isn't needy. He can do for himself, and obviously does."
And the "I won't have to do everything with this one."
I think I am going to have to study bartending and cooking more, come to think of it.