Hint: Giggling wrecks want you. Do something about it. The ladies are waiting.
Lol, Shannon, I was leaning towards that conclusion. I suppose it wouldn't kill me to go on some dates. There's a nice spring selection of women to choose from now. Pretty maidens all in a row.
Spiral, I'm starting to lift out of the severe indifference that alpha male left me with. Granted, it was a good feeling to not need much of anything, but I didn't have the motivation to go out and meet new girls(Well that and I had a girl at the time). I was just pretty content in and of myself. I've kept that content-ness, but my motivation for women is rising again. My deal was probably hat I was already big on indifference and had been cultivating that several years before I did the Alpha Male set. I'm definitely getting more and more motivation to go out, though. Life just seems great and I want to meet new people. I go out whenever I can.
I just read some of your early posts.. wanted to comment on being impressed at the insight and maturity, as in: allowing a genuine connection, rather than pursuing an image or taking what comes, and at your growing appreciation for female company without a specific agenda and also with the quality of these subliminals. Great stuff, sounds like they really contain some things for being a whole person and experiencing fulfillment that somehow a lot of people miss out on regularly.
Shannon, is sex magnet 2011 for men or both?
Thanks, Maggie. I appreciate your comment. Allowing a connection can be seriously tough for guys because we feel the need to force things. The best girls I have ever been with have been have been in those times that I allowed a connection where I slowed down and appreciated them in the moment without needing to get something from them. That connection can be better than even the best sex and you can have it with someone without ever having sex with them. I want to know more about this connection between the masculine and feminine. It utterly fascinates me. Peoples relationships generally don't work. I realized that a long time ago. I never wanted to be like that and get together with the wrong person for the wrong reasons over and over again. I'd much rather be alone than settle for anything less than what I want. There's just no need for that and it's unfair for the person you're with as well because like or not, you will resent them on some level. It's just not good for anyone.
Maggie, SM2011 is for men. I have to finish building alpha female before I can create a sex magnet for women - but I suspect it might not be necessary. The AF2011 script is turning out to be strongly in favor of a sexually liberated and actualized woman.
Awesome! IT would be so nice for more women to cultivate and properly use their sexual energy
(05-12-2011, 10:10 PM)massagemaggie Wrote: [ -> ]Awesome! IT would be so nice for more women to cultivate and properly use their sexual energy
I strongly agree. A woman, like a man, is designed for sex from the ground up. If you think about it, there is literally nothing on or in a human body that does not in some way support the reproductive organs, directly or indirectly.
To deny and repress one's sexuality is to deny and repress an important part of oneself. If we can balance the natural expression of sexuality within and between the sexes, and get rid of sexism, we could definitely improve the world.
A sexually self actualized woman is a much healthier woman, and she will help make the society as a whole healthier by helping make others healthy with her actions. AF2011 covers the gradual acceptance of and opening to a woman's natural and innate sexuality and sensuality, and it is going to work on helping women understand, communicate with, appreciate and balance with men. I think the AM2012 set is going to have to have some things along like that in it, too. Wouldn't it be awesome if we could eliminate sexism and bring a natural balance of the sexes back into play through these programs? Talk about making the world a better place.
Quote: Wouldn't it be awesome if we could eliminate sexism and bring a natural balance of the sexes back into play through these programs? Talk about making the world a better place.
YES!
(05-13-2011, 07:04 AM)Shannon Wrote: [ -> ] (05-12-2011, 10:10 PM)massagemaggie Wrote: [ -> ]Awesome! IT would be so nice for more women to cultivate and properly use their sexual energy
I strongly agree. A woman, like a man, is designed for sex from the ground up. If you think about it, there is literally nothing on or in a human body that does not in some way support the reproductive organs, directly or indirectly.
To deny and repress one's sexuality is to deny and repress an important part of oneself. If we can balance the natural expression of sexuality within and between the sexes, and get rid of sexism, we could definitely improve the world.
A sexually self actualized woman is a much healthier woman, and she will help make the society as a whole healthier by helping make others healthy with her actions. AF2011 covers the gradual acceptance of and opening to a woman's natural and innate sexuality and sensuality, and it is going to work on helping women understand, communicate with, appreciate and balance with men. I think the AM2012 set is going to have to have some things along like that in it, too. Wouldn't it be awesome if we could eliminate sexism and bring a natural balance of the sexes back into play through these programs? Talk about making the world a better place.
God, Shannon, I couldn't agree more. There would never be any need for any game or subterfuge of any kind anymore. I can't wait to see what kind of results women get from AF2011 and I definitely will want to give AM 2012 a go when you make it.
I love the idea of people naturally coming together based on where they are in their lives. It's not a game of seduction or somehow tricking people into wanting you or sleeping with you. It's natural appeal and the coming together of like. There needs to be an acceptance and allowance of change, and moving on. There seems to be some kind of holding on to relationships, like it's a "shame" if things "don't work out" as if we're only meant to experience one kind of thing in our lives. The allowance of flow and the idea that relationships are eternal and it's ok if they change, as they'll change to reflect you!!! is a really freeing concept.
(05-13-2011, 11:11 AM)massagemaggie Wrote: [ -> ]I love the idea of people naturally coming together based on where they are in their lives. It's not a game of seduction or somehow tricking people into wanting you or sleeping with you. It's natural appeal and the coming together of like. There needs to be an acceptance and allowance of change, and moving on. There seems to be some kind of holding on to relationships, like it's a "shame" if things "don't work out" as if we're only meant to experience one kind of thing in our lives. The allowance of flow and the idea that relationships are eternal and it's ok if they change, as they'll change to reflect you!!! is a really freeing concept.
Yeah, exactly! Listen to the language people use. "It's a shame it didn't work out." Why? The only thing to me that is important whether you're together a long time or a short period of time is that afterwards you are able to look back fondly on the time you spent together. Otherwise, what's the point?
A lot of fun stuff happened today. I went to the ren faire in a neighboring city all day long dressed as a pirate. I went there alone, though, because none of my friends wanted to go. I was grateful, though, because these days, I have no trouble going to any event such as that on my own and when I do it forces it me outside of my comfort zone. A ren faire is definitely an event where you WANT to be outside of your comfort zone because it's like a million times more fun. I was going to be a cast member this year before I ran in to a chain of bad luck earlier this year, but everything is good now and I feel on top of the world. I know some people there as well and it's very easy to make new "friends" if you're charming because these women let all of their inhibitions go. I won't run through all of the stuff that happened today because it would fill a book, but rest assured that by the end of the day I had a great deal of women walking by me saying "Hiiiiiiiii Lord Cortez." whilst giving me the eye. It's tough work being charming. I kissed so many hands today. It was ridiculous. The moment I walked in today, I was caught by a beautiful women and immediately made to escort her to the castle dance. I did horribly, needless to say, but I warned her of that in advance and then she bought me a beer afterwards. I've known that girl since Halloween. I really like her a lot. A girl that I'm attracted to that also happens to have a fantastic sense of humor just drives me wild.
Other things that happened
-I got my chest licked up and down in public view by a beautiful woman
The same woman does a lot of things to me on a regular basis whenever I see her and she made it well known when I saw her that she's now single(She's been engaged for like a year). She's a lot of fun too.
Alot of other stuff happened on par with everything I mentioned above, but it's not neccesary to retell all of that. You get the gist of it.
Anyway, I am so comfortable now in going outside of my comfort zone. I mean dancing in public? That terrified me in the past and I did it twice today! Yeah after the first time where I sucked, I went and watched another round later in the day and was grabbed by another girl to dance with her. This time I actualy started to do really well. I proved to myself that I can dance and I actually enjoy it. That blew my mind, but everything that happened today didn't at all. It sounds ridiculous to say that beautiful women licking you up and down in broad daylight is a normal part of your reality, but it is AND all the other stuff that happened. It's just normal. My humility, as well, has shot way up and I'm more and more willing all the time to fall on my ass. All I can say is it's about damn time. My pride has been a huge problem with me for years and I've always been afraid to fall on my ass, but now I almost welcome it because it's the only way to grow and I want to grow as much as I can in this life. My bantering ability has grown exponentially as well and if all of this is normal and par for the course for Sex Magnet then I can't wait for stage 2.
Shannon, please tell me if you get any definite "AHA!" moments reading that and what improvements might have been due to stage 1. I'm very curious.
Bantering for me has also gone up.
Cortez, does the SM sub make you horny? It's doing it to me bigtime (and I'm okay with it!
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Sounds like you had fun at the ren faire!
It did a whole lot at the beginning and then it sort of leveled off. I'm still pretty horny, but nothing overwhelming.
That's just the first time I went too,lol. I'm going again next Saturday.