You said a mouthful Jim. I've actually been thinking over the past few days about how my life would be different if I hadn't gotten in my own way. Reminds me of that quote you have in your signature honestly.
If you're aspiring to get into music, I'd say go for it. Even if it's just being a song writer. There have been quite a few people that have started out as song writers but eventually branched off and became artists. If WM2.0 delivers even half of what it's supposed to you'd have a great advantage in terms of increased social skills and lack of fear. Don't forget that Shannon has a program designed to help songwriters so if the urge is still strong after WM2.0 that program could be just what the doctor ordered.
Songwriting and WM2 would be amazingly synergistic. Go for it and see where it leads you.
Haha yea man its definitely something I want to pursue.
So this week has been quite life changing for me. Have moved into my new flat which is awesome, they all seem like really cool people to hang out with. I've been noticing that i'm quite relaxed in new social situations but I really don't feel like saying a lot. Girls keep smiling at me as well. This naturalizer is awesome as well, I find I have to be very astute to whats going on within myself and with others to notice the changes. I've been through my up days and my down days and had a lot of thoughts about my ex which I haven't had for a few months. I guess there's some more letting go to do there.
My boss was commenting today on how far i've come in my position as well which is a good sign with my annual review coming up next week. When I do feel like talking as well conversation flows very naturally. Like tonight I was talking to the bartender (never happens) and we were just chatting away for about 5 minutes she was laughing and having a good time.
Moneys very tight at the moment with me crashing my car today so a wealth type sub might be the way to go after this one if WM keeps doing more and more which I know it will. I was also quite surprised at how calm I remained after the crash I was able to keep my cool while the lady in the other car was shaking and in a state of shock. This helped to relax her as well.
EDIT: also in the last week I have had zero want or need to touch porn. This coming from looking at porn every day. I also find I don't even feel like masturbating or sex as well. More just connection with people
That is AWESOME! I can't wait to get on WM2 myself, but that won't be until January or February, depending on the break I take in between.
It has been awesome. For the first time ever I walked into a mall today and felt zero social anxiety it just wasn't there no matter how hard I looked for it. The changes have been huge and i'm feeling quite solid within myself even with my current financial crisis. Decisions are being made quickly and smoothly even in high pressure situations.
Conversation has just been flowing beautifully and so naturally its almost like poetry. At the same time i'm so relaxed around it all. People are just opening me up without me doing a thing. This is how it happens when resistance is not present.
Would definately say this sub is going to get to an insane level by the time stage 6 is met.
(10-20-2012, 02:34 AM)Shannon Wrote: [ -> ]Bravissimo!
Dito!
So have had some strong resistance come up in the last few days.
Its almost like I'm a flip from last week where I wasn't at all concerned about sex now all I can think about is sex and flirting on online dating sites. So there's definitely something being dragged up here
Ok so that resistance has pretty much passed now.
Seeing as tonight is my last night on stage 1 I thought I would jot down the changes that I noticed
* Increased Confidence in general
* Increased ability to feel like I can deal with whatever comes my way
* Decrease in social anxiety
* Increase in comfort in different social situations
* Got over my fear of moving out of home
* Random social occasions popping up (i.e. went over to a mates place I haven't been to in ages and ended up at a bbq, randomly met a mate at the service station and ended up at the beach and so on)
* Some flirting from girls on the very odd ocassion
* People doing things for me or giving me things randomly
* Greater relaxation in life generally
* A feeling like I've been like this my whole life
* On the odd occasion seeing how I could do things that I never thought possible
* Generally being in a state of flow with most conversations
* A feeling like everything will be ok in life and not worrying to much about the future
* Thoughts of past relationships coming up and at times missing those past relationships
* More focus on women
There was probably more but that's about all I can think of for now. A lot of resistance came up but in saying that I found I was able to handle it a lot better than I could with AM
Awesome results, I look forward to using this!
-Ben
I definitely want to do this too. Maybe I'll get a discount since i have the 2010 version
I'd definitely recommend it if anyone has any sort of social anxiety or even if you think you don't. I'd say a lot of people don't even realize they have social anxiety until the vale has been lifted and things start appearing from a completely different perspective. Its like a giant fog that I never knew existed has lifted and I started to see the world in a different way.
Also if you are wanting to expand your social circle this is helping so far after just stage 1.
Of course this has all come about through me getting out there more as well but WM seems to help bring about the opportunities and allows me to capitalize on them more.
How do you know you're not getting out more because of WM? Socializing isn't done alone, you know, and that's a primary goal of WM.
(10-27-2012, 09:35 PM)Shannon Wrote: [ -> ]How do you know you're not getting out more because of WM? Socializing isn't done alone, you know, and that's a primary goal of WM.
too strong naturalizer detected?
Edit: thx funkey was very tired yesterday
