Subliminal Talk

I love this http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-TIfAVk1pis

From 0:20 there was some kind of sincere love.

I did this earlier tonight where I had a white beautiful flower and gave it to a cute girl on the dance-floor with her friends and just did the kissing thing.

She loved it! and was really open to me afterwards to re-approach and her 2 friends too who were looking over from time to time.

It's about the feeling while you physically do the things. I think it's so interesting. I have the same sort of feeling when I am appreciating the time spending with a beautiful girl..

What I do not understand is that it feels really natural and I haven't had lessons in it but it just feels "right". Where did I get it from?

I want to be teasing and asshole like, which I'm experimenting a lot with but if a girl gets to know me she just knows that I am a gentleman and I think it's the gentleman image/thing that the natural right feelings stems from...

Sounds like you're doing just fine, experimenting with what works for you. The whole dynamic nowadays in dating is a tricky one. That look that Zan gives women is really all you need to know, but it takes a long time to learn or should I say un-learn everything you thought you knew about the dynamics between men and women. In todays world of constant text messaging, facebook updating and instagram, hardly anyone ever slows down and connects with one another. Women yearn for a genuine connection more than anything.

I read a story and you can find it here, about an old woman who pined over a man she spent one night with in college for the next fifty years. THAT is how powerful that connection is and I speak from experience on that one. I've had one occasion where a girl called me for years, thought I can't think of maybe one occasion where I called her. Even after she got married (and eventually divorced).

There was another occasion where a girl said I ruined her for all other men and I had never even so much as kissed her.

That connection is like a magic spell. It's the only thing you ever need to learn...well that and to know how to deliver with some bedroom skills to show that actually ARE the real deal. Zan is a master of that, I know it, but he is terrible at teaching it...not his fault, but it's a hard thing to convey, like talking to a blind man about colors. I bought his dvd series years ago and though he's somewhat of an inspirational speaker, he doesn't do a fantastic job of teaching you how to be like him.

That powerful aura of charisma comes from knowing yourself, having a strong center and a joy for life. It doesn't really have a damn thing to do with women and when you can learn to disconnect from ever needing them, then you can really connect with them when you're around them. They'll feel like they're on somewhat of a pedestal in your gaze, but also that you're on a damn high pedestal as well and them being on the pedestal in the first place is the result of getting the attention of a man such as you.

I know I'm kind of long winded on this subject, but you reminded me how much it fascinates me. So thank you for that.

Cortez great stuff and I agree..

I believe that this instant connection comes from a man who is present and has a direction.

I think that a big part of being able to have a connection like that is a man who lives his own life, regardless of the outer reality (still doing the things necessary). He is aware of his 5 senses and is very in tune of the 6. (energy/vibe) which a woman rarely find today because of all the distractions around us as you mentioned.

But tell me.. what do you think made a girl say the things and do the things to exactly you?

I find that most girls today are also immensely distracted by all the things going on around them that it is hard for themselves to have that kind of a connection with a man...


Stage 4 - Day 23,


I haven't noticed any change lately. Have been changing my habits to procrastinating ones because of the decision to take a eye laser operation so I can see clearly without lenses and glasses. So just by going out to the local pizzeria has been quite uncomfortable, not able to see clearly and not in a good state of mind...

It's because aside from the sometimes intense eye contact I give sometimes and what not, I also treat them like an annoyance more than half the time. I wouldn't say it's even contrived on my part. So it's a mixture of hot and cold. They're in no way a priority in my life and I treat them as such. Consequently. they won't leave you alone if you do that.

Sounds like you are on your own path. You are living a life of importance i.e. being productive with your time


Stage 4 - Day 30,


I've been hitting the gym almost every day for soon to be two months. It's amazing. I've become more bulked and I have a lot of energy when I am doing stuff. The little side-effects has been that I sometimes takes 1 hour to 2 hours of nap when it was supposed to be 30 mins.

I'm much more alive and healthy and feel pretty damn good about myself. Soon I will start a new personal blog about my experiences, thoughts and goals.

I feel like I'm so busy and my time is valuable. I've become much better at getting things done, mostly because of my friend I'm living with. He is a massive action-taker and I've learned that important lesson after I moved out with him

Speaking of which, we are getting thrown out of this apartment the 30. April, in 6 days! and we haven't found anything new yet...

In the women department I've began to use 1 hour almost every day in the day time to meet women and just socialize with them. It is great to see how well most of them respond and how openly they are to my influence and how nervous they get. Especially when compared to the nighttime...

I've become much more assertive when I interact with them. Much more at ease and comfortable too. I think it stems from having a lot of things to do all the time, which are steps towards my dreams...

Noticeable changes:

- Much more comfortable when talking to women
- Expects/Demands more when meeting women i.e. qualifying them more without saying much just by my presence
- Giving a lot more value than before
- Noticing more women checking me out
- Sometimes, with all the energy I have from the gym and from going out a lot, socializing with women sober, I get a bit over the top i.e. very cocky to the point where the girl will auto-reject me in order to protect her ego.

- Noticing women become nervous when they talk with me (Daytime)
* to a point of trying to end the interaction, like "so..." or "well.."
* holding my ground and just keep going with the interaction and then let them go by giving them a hug or a confident, sincere smirk.

Do I feel nervous? No, actually I don't. But I do sometimes feel like a volcano about to erupt i.e. an underlying sense of discomfort but is ignored so I can enjoy the interaction (usually the first cold approach interactions of the day).


- LM

(04-23-2013, 04:02 PM)LionMonkey Wrote: [ -> ]Soon I will start a new personal blog about my experiences, thoughts and goals.

- LM

I look forward to reading that, keep us posted. As for the rest of your experiences, sounds pretty awesome thus far!

Yea, I'm excited to check out your new blog as well

Recap of Woman Magnet 2.0 Stage 4

I honestly can't put words on how it has affected me right now. Check out the earlier posts about stage 4.

I decided to get drunk as hell with my old good buddies last Saturday and damn I got drunk. I had not had a drink for 1 and a half months.
First half of the night, I was the party!! Talking and kidding around with different women and a few guys in the bar.

In the beginning I joined 3 girls and my friends joined me. One of them were just as crazy as me but I could feel she did it for the attention, me on the other side just did it for the fun. One of the other girls I talked with most, liked me but wasn't that hot.

Discovered a club-like venue upstairs and met two milfs. Within 2 minutes, one of them had a great body and they talked about it and I grabbed her boob and they touched my chest and my cock. They just want a reason to do these dirty things!

Got extremely drunk in the end. Going straight for the crazy girl "take my friend instead" blablabla. she avoided me twice.

Talked to a girl sitting with 2 other girls and a guy. While I was talking to the girl, one of the girls pushed me away hard, like I was not a human being, so I pushed her back hard. We got into a heated argument. The guy interfered, "you hitting on girls?!".

My tick went off and I looked at him with my whole body and eyes in anger that I wanted to kick his ass. I looked at him with belief that I was 100% sure to "kill" him if he made a move.
The girl interfered. I gave him a little slap to make him do a move but he was just sitting there, not able to do it. (I usually never get upset like that)

The girl who pushed me knew she did wrong and tried to interfere again. I heard nothing what she said.
I went from being a happy, giving guy, to a very angry guy in a second. She crossed my boundaries :@

It was about to go down.. or at least I would probably annoy him more to make a move.. he seemed like he didn't know how to fight but tall he was.. before it could happen my friend came and pulled me away.

It was quite interesting because the whole thing was communicated on a energetic level.

Went downstairs, feeling the anger inside me. A very powerful emotion. Stood at the entrance by myself and waited for my friend to get his jacket.

Then the crazy girl comes over to me with her friends? as drunk and fueled I was, I had no patience for chit-chat and I grabbed her but she avoided and off they went to another part of the bar.

Afterwards me and my buddy went to other bars. WUHUUU!

I remember the night as a fading dream...


Stage 5 - Day 1,


Started stage 5 yesterday night.

Been slacking it a bit with meeting new women lately because I am moving, so it is hard to say what changes I've noticed....

Sometimes I'm extremely comfortable meeting and talking with girls.

Other times I feel like I have to prove to myself that I can just go over and be comfortable talking with the group and many times I don't do it because I want to have a reason to do it.

Honestly most of the times where it has went best are the times I did not try to find a reason to do it (and by "reason" I mean as a feeling of desire in me that draws me to do it) it has been random approaches and random people positioned near me.

Hmm.. maybe cultivate more decisiveness and more intent....

AHHHHHH, I'm going to have a laser-operation so I'll get my sight back and plus get cool laser eyes as superman! wohoo!

Besides that, I met one of the worlds best pick-up guy today!!!!

Stage 5 - Day 23,


Let me say this before I'll write some of my thoughts down of recent discoveries, "game" is a complex thing. It is not easily understood because of the many intricacies intertwined in an interaction between a man and a woman. Between who you are as a man and how female psychology is. Between the situation and circumstances. Everything is in the moment.

I've had a vision of how reality really looks like when picking up women. I went to a program by one of the worlds best guys that can have fun and get women. It was a program where he showed us him infield with a hidden camera. He would then pause and explain the subtleties he did and the girls subtle or not so subtle reactions. Also explaining the mindset behind why he does those things. The videos were not only very on the point but also extremely hilarious.

With my several years of experience and lots of references I saw "the truth" if you want. Looking back on every encounter I remember with women while he explained the videos, I finally feel like I have a really great understanding of women and what they really respond to.

What a really cool guy looks like and think like too.. and how the ego works with self-created identities


Now I'm consistent with going out and meeting girls every weekend 2-3 nights a week with a new good friend, who is a beast with this.
What I have noticed in my process are:

- My ego is mostly not present, there has been swings but after the program I'm much more egoless and my understanding of how high value looks like enforces that a lot

- Very comfortable meeting women

- Not always feeling 100% entitled but doing approaches is not difficult

- Has a great intuition on noticing girls who signals that they wants me to talk to interact with them

- Taking myself not seriously at all, much more self-amusement

- Which leads to less neediness. I do catch myself "trying" sometimes and I always know that's why the girl(s) attention faded.

- Less judging and more fun

- Have gone out the two past weeks with glasses on and I am extremely comfortable with it, just like with lenses. It's all the same. Only thing is that I'm more passive when a guy interferes because I think, if I did get in a fight, the glasses ruins it, even though I've been practicing martial arts for 7 years. Therefore, less entitled to mixed sets

- More in tune with the communication level of the average woman than the average man. I have a hard time to talk with guys when I'm out, especially guys who aren't "cool".. actually I don't talk to guys at all.. very rarely and it's just very small-talk..

I don't know.. it seems like I've lost track on what the subliminal improves in me.

I really feel like the same.. but my understanding of women and high value works have made everything go together for me and since I'm sober when I go out, I am able to adjust and calibrate to what I've learned, to how the girl responds etc.

Amazing really

A thing I've noticed is that before my understanding changed, I have had some of the concepts of a high value guy without being consciously aware of it. I think that's why some of the girls wanted to sleep with me, without me doing much. It was only on those moments though because eventually I didn't get it and they turned out to be ONS.

I think a combination of AM and WM has had that impact...

Quote:Have gone out the two past weeks with glasses on and I am extremely comfortable with it, just like with lenses. It's all the same. Only thing is that I'm more passive when a guy interferes because I think, if I did get in a fight, the glasses ruins it, even though I've been practicing martial arts for 7 years. Therefore, less entitled to mixed sets

An easy way to get over this is to observe how these men interact with these girls. So when you do approach a mix set get the dudes involved into the conversation. I guarantee when you start getting attraction from the women those dudes may pick up on it but they may not know what's happening. All they know is you are causing it to happen in the woman. they may get jealous. But they will never do anything about it. And if a dude does decide to start a fight I will bet that they are rolling with weaker women so based off that judgement I wouldn't waste my time. Based on your experiences and reading them I agree that you do have a good understanding of women. Those men don't have what you can offer. You're good to go. They can't even touch you.

But if it was meeee I'd be polite up front and ask the dudes if they are dating any of the girls. if not game on.

I'm curious who you met when you said "I met one of the worlds best pickup guys."

RECAP STAGE 5

Since I have had a laser-operation this month, I haven't been out socializing much.

What I've noticed though:

- More at ease in situations I've never been in before.

- Stronger intuition for when a girl is interested

- Have been more illogical than logical this month

- Have had interesting experiences with focused directed attention. Very interesting to play with. You can call it presence.

- More confident and self-reliant in a way that I'll do the things myself. I still ask people to do stuff for me, something I've begun to do. But no big deal if they don't want to , essentially asking for more from people around me when I want it.

- Pretty comfortable doing things that people would think "weird". Have gotten called weird by few girls yet my reality is just stronger and they just do it to test me


Stage 6 - Day 3,


This stage has been interesting. I've been in a very grounded mood lately and girls notice me everywhere. I know they want to meet me. They want to meet this awesome guy I am and be led to an adventure.

I'm more comfortable doing things that I once had a barrier for because of the urgent actions I take and mixed with clear in my intent.

A little story about a night out last weekend;

Quote:Having had a pause of socializing for three weeks, I went out to the town for a quick visit yesterday with some old friends.

It seems that two of my old friends are relying on each other for validation most of the time and I'm just not in their interactions.
It's easy to want to get into their interaction and get some attention but it's like they are a couple arguing all the time. Not my kind of tea. So I did what I had to do. I did my own thing which led to much more interesting adventures than the safety of "familiarity". Ever since having gone to the next level from my previous where I used to hang out with them, I knew somewhere that I've grown from them...

So I was not in a wohoo!! party mood but more in a grounded mood.

I saw things from a 3.rd person perspective. It was slightly like I was a vehicle controlled by something outside of me. I knew what I knew, so I just took the actions that was necessary for me to better express myself and be more free.

It was interesting because most of the things I did came from a very grounded place. A place of no emotions involved at all. A place of curiosity to see peoples reactions. Very tuned in to the intuitive channel.
Then again, there was not much flow. Maybe less authentic and no law of state transference. Less creative in the moment.
Though I didn't care if I couldn't express myself fully. I didn't force it but just acted.

For example, walking over to a table with over 10 women and asking how it can be. Bachelorette thing. Then I had nothing and I stood for 5 seconds and walked away. My mind was blank, my emotions were blank.

After waiting for my friends to get their ass going for 15 minutes, I told them that I would go ahead to the next bar and we'll see each other there.

As soon as I enter I see the nearest group of girls and I am very clear with my intent. Putting my hand forward and said hi to a girl sitting with 3 girls and we began to talk. Just me and her. It was a "meant to be" kind of thing.

She shit-tested me a lot. This guy sat beside me and told me that she has a guy she has been seeing for a while. I'm grounded all the time. Then he tells me I think you can pick her up. In my ears it was thin air. Things that didn't matter.

I told her a story that made her a bit upset and I apologized for it but she kept coming back to the story. Later her friend comes to sit beside her and she's like "leave" in a really weak way. Though I knew she would be fine with me being more assertive. She sucked to pick up guys lol.

So she wasn't that interesting of a dancer, so I left. Figured that there must be some other fun girls. Found my friends at the other end of the bar, laid my jacket and went to the toilet. Girl-guy ratio 1:5, physical attractiveness scale 4/10

Both occupied, I stood and waited in the waiting room, a girl came in, we talked briefly before the girl I talked with before suddenly bumped in to the room and laughed a lot, hided behind the door. Then she went out and then she bumped in again, looked at us and said "hahahh.. this guys shoes.. soo ridicules! shah"

We both looked at her. She was so awkward hahahah ;-P

In the bus I begin to talk with two girls and one of them was so stupid to listen to in a vibe-destroying way while the other was sweet and provocative.

But being in this mood, the responses didn't matter at all...

Very interesting experiences with this grounding mood, with no emotions involved. I'm sure it's going to be explored further and more in-depth when my eyes are fully healed...

The plan is now to have a week off, let my eyes recover and heal. I've grown a bit of a stomach haha ...

Begin to build my old good habits back and I feel like I have a very great foundation to skyrocket the success:

* Going to fitness

* Celebrating women everywhere I notice them and talk to them in the day and get some instant dates or phone numbers.. DAMN there are SO MANY BEAUTIFUL girls who just begs to be ravished behind their social masks! I see it everywhere.. it's like windows of opportunities EVERYWHERE!

* Practice Chinese (Going around in China next month to visit family again)


That's all for this time!

- LM