Shannon's Journal Discussion Thread, Vol. 5

[lano1106]

All of you need to keep in mind that if I build a new version of OF, and you buy it before the instructed time of use for the previous version is up, you are forfeiting your right to a refund of the older program by doing so.  I can build a new version of OF, but I can't do it alongside Stage 5 because Stage 5 is almost finished.  Should be coming out Monday or Tuesday.  I'll build OF v2 after that.

Haven't had much time to look at DMSI recently, with everything going wrong.  Last month was a nightmare comedy of errors, and it wasn't very funny.  I'll get to that.

I have never used the refund policy to ask for a refund. So, refund policy aside, is there any counter-indication to complete an OF 8 months period and upgrade OF from V1 to V2 in the middle?

It has to be possible and even beneficial... It is my assumption for having interest in OF v2...

[fab10]

There's about 5-6+ orders at least now it seems for a new OF. Awesome! You could probably do one for E4 after too.

Except E4 is 5.75.2, it’s already got some (most?) of the latest tweaks.

[Jake2015]

If you use Masked format, you should try masked at a volume that is comfortable to listen to.  Make sure the highs are not too high volume and the lows are still audible on the ocean surf track, and then that should work for the trickling stream, too.  

Masked is not as aggressive as Ultrasonic or hybrid.  If the issue you have with ultrasonic is too much too fast, then masked should get more results.  You can also try lowering the volume with the ultrasonic.  I would use masked before trying that though.

Thanks Shannon, so the reason for going to mask is because im feeling that my phone cant play US so may as well try masked. Only hesitation is whether it will interfer with my sleep or not so ill give it a shot tonight and see.

ok thank you ill give that a shot with ocean or trickling and see but do I need to calibrate ocean first to be able play trickling stream, thats my understanding yes?

thank you

Your phone can play ultrasonic just fine, Jake.

Yes, for fine tuning, use the ocean surf to set volume.  That should be right for trickling stream as well.

Thanks Shannon again. The reason I felt it didnt play US was cos I used the speaker test on the phone and got a swooshing sound on both my newer s10 samsung phone as my older s7 phone.

Also im now on cycle 5 and still nothing. I admitted I had to restart the cycles as I stopped due to the mess I went through and stress with the girl but I restarted soon as I could and reached cycle 5 with nothing noticed.

So was going to give masked a go but if you say my phone can play US just fine then ok ill stick with US.

thank you again

When you say swooshing sound, you mean the last several seconds were not silent?  I'd be very surprised if that phone couldn't reproduce ultrasonic audio correctly.

I didn't say you have to keep using US.  I just have a hard time believing your phone can't play it.  If you want to experiment with different formats, go ahead.

Thanks @Shannon yeah I dont think it can play it. I made a recording to show you but I cant add it here as an attachment. its a video file as I screenrecorded on my phone to show you. Any way to send a video file?

[CatMan]

Hell yeah I want to be in. @Shannon does this mean this installment of OF 5.75.5G will be in the upcoming DMSI release? Also, am I correct to say that, as fear is root of it all, that OF/FRM is the key to FRM 5.0?

Allow me to clarify how I'm doing this.  

Fear Removal Module 4.9 is the module that is being used as the Key Script for Overcoming Fear.  That means the FRM is the goal of the program, and the rest of the skeleton script supports that goal.  But in other programs, the FRM is not the Key Script.  It is part of the Skeleton Script, which is what supports the Key Script.

So FRM is the key to OF, and the key to FRM 5.0 is something I haven't figured out yet.  Basically I'm not yet sure how to advance FRM 4.9 to 5.0, but I have identified some things that will enable the skeleton script to better support the FRM, thus allowing for better execution of FRM 4.9 without changing it's script.

It would be about like tuning a race car by improving all the components without upgrading the engine.  I'm not a car guy, but let's say we improve airflow to the engine, and we make the cooling better and we improve the efficiency of the engine by tweaking the timing, and we tweak the gear ratios, adjust the tire pressure, use better oil, add nitro and perhaps new spark plugs.  The same engine is now going to put out more power and perform better than before. 

That's sort of like what I am able to do right now by using FRM 4.9 in a newer, more advanced and better focused, tweaked and tuned skeleton script.

There's about 5-6+ orders at least now it seems for a new OF. Awesome! You could probably do one for E4 after too. Easy money for you, and since many of us are spinning our wheels now due to the pandemic issue...makes sense to dig deep with such programs to prepare for the post-pandemic world and future execution of other subs.

Is a new OF something you can do along side LTU Stage 5? Seems like it could be based off your past words.

Also, how are things with DMSI coming? Saw you mention a possibility with it recently, so I was curious.

Thanks, Shannon!

All of you need to keep in mind that if I build a new version of OF, and you buy it before the instructed time of use for the previous version is up, you are forfeiting your right to a refund of the older program by doing so.  I can build a new version of OF, but I can't do it alongside Stage 5 because Stage 5 is almost finished.  Should be coming out Monday or Tuesday.  I'll build OF v2 after that.

Haven't had much time to look at DMSI recently, with everything going wrong.  Last month was a nightmare comedy of errors, and it wasn't very funny.  I'll get to that.

@Shannon Just some important things I'd like to bounce off you...

Of course, but we aren't talking about refunds. More of, taking advantage of the unprecedented down time here and digging deep with this program. Investing MORE in fact, by getting the upgraded one...so it's an endorsement, not an indictment.

1. To clarify, it will be 5.75.5G, correct?
2. Should we stop OF now, and rest for the new version? I know you generally prefer a wash out of the previous program. Shouldn't be long anyway and my brother and I are on our 3 day breaks starting today, regardless. So no big deal.

Understood about DMSI. Just wanted to hear about that long term question thing you spoke of before that sounded intriguing.

[Shannon]

All of you need to keep in mind that if I build a new version of OF, and you buy it before the instructed time of use for the previous version is up, you are forfeiting your right to a refund of the older program by doing so.  I can build a new version of OF, but I can't do it alongside Stage 5 because Stage 5 is almost finished.  Should be coming out Monday or Tuesday.  I'll build OF v2 after that.

Haven't had much time to look at DMSI recently, with everything going wrong.  Last month was a nightmare comedy of errors, and it wasn't very funny.  I'll get to that.

I have never used the refund policy to ask for a refund. So, refund policy aside, is there any counter-indication to complete an OF 8 months period and upgrade OF from V1 to V2 in the middle?

It has to be possible and even beneficial... It is my assumption for having interest in OF v2...

If I build OF v2 from the latest skeleton script, it will still have FRM 4.9 in it, and the only thing that will change is the skeleton script.  So it would be fine to just jump in on v2 from v1.  I just want to make it clear to everyone what that does to the refund option on v1, not because I think anyone here would try to get a refund and v2, but because there are plenty of people who do shady things like that who aren't on the forum.  So nobody can say I didn't point it out.

[Shannon]

There's about 5-6+ orders at least now it seems for a new OF. Awesome! You could probably do one for E4 after too.

Except E4 is 5.75.2, it’s already got some (most?) of the latest tweaks.

And OF v1 is 5.75.1G.  They still want the upgrade, and each .x at the end is a significant breakthrough advancement, so... 

If it wasn't a real step up, I wouldn't consider building OF v2 from the same key script as v1.  Thus, E4 is also a potential upgrade.  But, I am not going to do that, because we have to make progress in other directions, not just keep rebuilding and upgrading recent releases all the time.  OF I am willing to do.  But there are a lot of great things waiting for me to get to them.

[Shannon]

Thanks Shannon, so the reason for going to mask is because im feeling that my phone cant play US so may as well try masked. Only hesitation is whether it will interfer with my sleep or not so ill give it a shot tonight and see.

ok thank you ill give that a shot with ocean or trickling and see but do I need to calibrate ocean first to be able play trickling stream, thats my understanding yes?

thank you

Your phone can play ultrasonic just fine, Jake.

Yes, for fine tuning, use the ocean surf to set volume.  That should be right for trickling stream as well.

Thanks Shannon again. The reason I felt it didnt play US was cos I used the speaker test on the phone and got a swooshing sound on both my newer s10 samsung phone as my older s7 phone.

Also im now on cycle 5 and still nothing. I admitted I had to restart the cycles as I stopped due to the mess I went through and stress with the girl but I restarted soon as I could and reached cycle 5 with nothing noticed.

So was going to give masked a go but if you say my phone can play US just fine then ok ill stick with US.

thank you again

When you say swooshing sound, you mean the last several seconds were not silent?  I'd be very surprised if that phone couldn't reproduce ultrasonic audio correctly.

I didn't say you have to keep using US.  I just have a hard time believing your phone can't play it.  If you want to experiment with different formats, go ahead.

Thanks @Shannon yeah I dont think it can play it. I made a recording to show you but I cant add it here as an attachment. its a video file as I screenrecorded on my phone to show you. Any way to send a video file?

No need, Jake.

[Shannon]

[shannon@localhost Compressed]$ sha256sum *

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9e800fcfbf1987ee62df6e39807d5878537129cc135709e46cb40870af417b34 Life_Tune_Up-v6_5754G_Stage_5_Ultrasonic_Subliminal_(Silent).flac

b6d29fcfbebcf2e9b19cff8f6801d4af83da116ef32e9aa139dd020e2a61b27e Life_Tune_Up-v6_5754G_Stage_5_Ultrasonic_Subliminal_(Silent).mp3

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[shannon@localhost Compressed]$ sha256sum *.txt

1cf273f50067127a6856c4a2450dfcd1c7660bb7938601722f001ee40c0674a9 Life_Tune_Up_v6_Stage_5_5754G_Subliminal_SHA256Sum_Hashes.txt

[shannon@localhost Compressed]$

[Benjamin]

Sale is over, hope you got something good.

[Jake2015]

Your phone can play ultrasonic just fine, Jake.

Yes, for fine tuning, use the ocean surf to set volume.  That should be right for trickling stream as well.

Thanks Shannon again. The reason I felt it didnt play US was cos I used the speaker test on the phone and got a swooshing sound on both my newer s10 samsung phone as my older s7 phone.

Also im now on cycle 5 and still nothing. I admitted I had to restart the cycles as I stopped due to the mess I went through and stress with the girl but I restarted soon as I could and reached cycle 5 with nothing noticed.

So was going to give masked a go but if you say my phone can play US just fine then ok ill stick with US.

thank you again

When you say swooshing sound, you mean the last several seconds were not silent?  I'd be very surprised if that phone couldn't reproduce ultrasonic audio correctly.

I didn't say you have to keep using US.  I just have a hard time believing your phone can't play it.  If you want to experiment with different formats, go ahead.

Thanks @Shannon yeah I dont think it can play it. I made a recording to show you but I cant add it here as an attachment. its a video file as I screenrecorded on my phone to show you. Any way to send a video file?

No need, Jake.

no problem ill give masked a go then and see if I can sleep and get results for a while then.

[CatMan]

Just to confirm as I think you missed my previous post:

OF V2 will be 5.75.5G, correct?

Very excited for this, @Shannon! Should be amazing.

[fab10]

Shannon,
Does “Improve Your Eyesight” include DRS?

[K-Train]

What’s up Shannon? Feedback in general on these products can be a bit spotty and it’s made worse by a lack of coherency when one DOES ask for feedback. Here’s my experiences and feedback for the new Orgasm Enhancer. 
For those reading, this post is NOT SAFE FOR WORK. Read at your own risk. 

Background Info:

Me and my girlfriend are 2 months into our relationship. To be blunt, I didn’t really think I needed this subliminal but I was interested in keeping the spark up in our relationship and also I was curious to see what this bad boy could do.

My GF is late 20’s and I am in my early 30’s. We’re both graduate students and enrolled in a hellacious program pursuing advanced degrees. Those who’ve done PhDs or any higher level education know how stressful this stuff is. 


Relationship Prior to Orgasm Enhancer:

We connected on lots of mutualistic understanding and due to high compatibility in multiple areas including rule 4, emotional language, physical attractiveness, communication, and yes of course sexual compatibility (which became apparent after the other stuff). Sex is already awesome between the two of us as mentioned previously but we both had lots of baggage and issues from past relationships that we had to work through to start enjoying sex more.

Example: GF has had negative experiences due to her race and perceived attractiveness. She is a beautiful woman but unsavory individuals and bad experiences made her doubt that in the past. She also has some hang-ups sexually which made her feel guilty about enjoying sex but  I’ve been successful at working through those issues with her. 

Usage of Orgasms Enhancer:

Typically I use at least one loop prior to love making although sometimes it’ll be two loops prior to exposure. Normally I let it play on throughout the entire session. And for those wondering, my GF doesn’t really know much about subliminals although she has seen the title for OE pop up on my phone. This program does work better if sex takes place after 2 loops and/or you’ve been exposing the woman (and yourself) to OE several times previously.

Sex with Orgasm Enhancer:

The part most of y'all wanted to read the most. TLDR; Yes it works. So the very first time I used it I definitely noticed more enthusiasm from the GF. Granted, I can elicit multiple orgasms from her anyway but right away the very first orgasm was extremely intense which I judge based on the amount of shaking she was doing. She normally will cum the hardest from me going down on her and I can usually get a few orgasms this way. This also helps me get orgasms from penetration easier as well. 

What I was more so curious about was if EVERY orgasm she had would be intensified. This is a bit harder to gauge because with oral orgasms I’m in a more advantageous position to gauge however here’s my best crack at gauging the orgasms intensity by position:

Missionary

• She’s definitely a bit more loud and expressive. This has been a universal improvement across the board.
  

Sideline

• I tried this only in two sessions with her along with OE but the second time I used it produced a much more intense orgasm (about 10/10) based on her body reaction
  

Her riding me

• Easily one of her favorite positions based on her feedback. With OE playing and me doing some extracurricular stuff (nibbling on her breasts, talking dirty, sitting up to create an angle allowing me to hit her g spot, etc.) this bad boy is a straight up 10 or 11. Most of the time it’ll be so intense that she inadvertently pushes me out of her because her vagina pulsates and tightens so much.
  
  
• For those curious, we discovered the right angle for her g spot BEFORE OE and while those orgasms were very good the ones she has now are consistently excellent. So I’d say going from an 8/10 or 9/10 to a solid 10.
  

Doggystyle/From the back

• This is also one of her favorite positions and it’s also my personal favorite too just because my GF has nice “assets” and the visuals really turn me on. Plus she loves the sensations when I penetrate from behind and when I give oral from behind her as well. In addition, this is usually the position I finish from ( fyi I finish inside normally).
  
  
• This one is very hard to judge because we both enjoy this position a lot however since OE usage I’ve definitely noticed an increase in vocality and she’s definitely had some really good orgasms from this position to the point that her body vibrates and her vagina tightens and pulsates. 9/10 to 10/10
  

Eating her out/ Performing oral on her 

• This has been the area that I’ve shined at the most before OE and I was able to consistently get at least 2 orgasms from her during foreplay.
  
  
• Nowadays, these same orgasms are much more intense (yesterday in particular she was going crazy and had some powerful orgasms that were stronger than any I’ve seen since we met)
  
  
• Normally she’s on her back when I go down on her but I’ll mix things up and do it throughout love making and in different positions.
  

There’s more positions but these are the positions that we’ve been in enough to compare and contrast. They’re also a bit easier for me to judge. 

Relationship Post OE 5.75.3G

This relationship was already pretty good beforehand but I would like to reiterate what Shannon has said: good orgasms can make or break a relationship. Yes me and my girlfriend previously had great chemistry before sex but the sex and subsequent orgasms most certainly aided and accentuated the relationship. I remember reading once that a relationship is similar to a car. Emotional and physical (as in how attracted you are to each other physically) chemistry, communication styles, attitudes and beliefs (such as rule 4) make up the parts of the car. Love is the gasoline that fuels the car and sex (especially great sex) is the oil that helps make things run better in the engine.

Ways in which our relationship has improved includes

• More affection (me and her)
  
  
•  Stress relief (this is HUGE especially with finals week upon us both)
  
  
• If she gets an attitude with something or someone she makes sure to not direct it at me
  
  
• Little annoyances seem to slide off her back easier especially during the afterglow
  
  
• More possessive of me (in a good way). To elaborate, she’s more prone to holding my arm in public and getting protective if she feels like someone is trying to give me a hard time
  
  
• Positive outlook for the future - she’s brought up how much she looks forward to spending the rest of her life with me after school and this has intensified since OE.
  

Disclaimer:

I’ve said it before throughout this post but I will reiterate it here: I was capable of giving my GF orgasms' BEFORE introducing OE but OE has certainly improved things. I mention this because if you are not capable of giving women an orgasm on your own then I would work on that first because OE enhance orgasms (as its name implies) but that doesn’t necessarily mean its going to put them there if you aren’t able to generate them on your own. Does it help get you/her there? I would say yes but again, I strongly recommend you get your sex/love making skills up to par beforehand to improve your results.

Thanks for reading.

[firsthelix]

What’s up Shannon? Feedback in general on these products can be a bit spotty and it’s made worse by a lack of coherency when one DOES ask for feedback. Here’s my experiences and feedback for the new Orgasm Enhancer. 
For those reading, this post is NOT SAFE FOR WORK. Read at your own risk. 

Background Info:

Me and my girlfriend are 2 months into our relationship. To be blunt, I didn’t really think I needed this subliminal but I was interested in keeping the spark up in our relationship and also I was curious to see what this bad boy could do.

My GF is late 20’s and I am in my early 30’s. We’re both graduate students and enrolled in a hellacious program pursuing advanced degrees. Those who’ve done PhDs or any higher level education know how stressful this stuff is. 


Relationship Prior to Orgasm Enhancer:

We connected on lots of mutualistic understanding and due to high compatibility in multiple areas including rule 4, emotional language, physical attractiveness, communication, and yes of course sexual compatibility (which became apparent after the other stuff). Sex is already awesome between the two of us as mentioned previously but we both had lots of baggage and issues from past relationships that we had to work through to start enjoying sex more.

Example: GF has had negative experiences due to her race and perceived attractiveness. She is a beautiful woman but unsavory individuals and bad experiences made her doubt that in the past. She also has some hang-ups sexually which made her feel guilty about enjoying sex but  I’ve been successful at working through those issues with her. 

Usage of Orgasms Enhancer:

Typically I use at least one loop prior to love making although sometimes it’ll be two loops prior to exposure. Normally I let it play on throughout the entire session. And for those wondering, my GF doesn’t really know much about subliminals although she has seen the title for OE pop up on my phone. This program does work better if sex takes place after 2 loops and/or you’ve been exposing the woman (and yourself) to OE several times previously.

Sex with Orgasm Enhancer:

The part most of y'all wanted to read the most. TLDR; Yes it works. So the very first time I used it I definitely noticed more enthusiasm from the GF. Granted, I can elicit multiple orgasms from her anyway but right away the very first orgasm was extremely intense which I judge based on the amount of shaking she was doing. She normally will cum the hardest from me going down on her and I can usually get a few orgasms this way. This also helps me get orgasms from penetration easier as well. 

What I was more so curious about was if EVERY orgasm she had would be intensified. This is a bit harder to gauge because with oral orgasms I’m in a more advantageous position to gauge however here’s my best crack at gauging the orgasms intensity by position:

Missionary

• She’s definitely a bit more loud and expressive. This has been a universal improvement across the board.
  

Sideline

• I tried this only in two sessions with her along with OE but the second time I used it produced a much more intense orgasm (about 10/10) based on her body reaction
  

Her riding me

• Easily one of her favorite positions based on her feedback. With OE playing and me doing some extracurricular stuff (nibbling on her breasts, talking dirty, sitting up to create an angle allowing me to hit her g spot, etc.) this bad boy is a straight up 10 or 11. Most of the time it’ll be so intense that she inadvertently pushes me out of her because her vagina pulsates and tightens so much.
  
• For those curious, we discovered the right angle for her g spot BEFORE OE and while those orgasms were very good the ones she has now are consistently excellent. So I’d say going from an 8/10 or 9/10 to a solid 10.
  

Doggystyle/From the back

• This is also one of her favorite positions and it’s also my personal favorite too just because my GF has nice “assets” and the visuals really turn me on. Plus she loves the sensations when I penetrate from behind and when I give oral from behind her as well. In addition, this is usually the position I finish from ( fyi I finish inside normally).
  
• This one is very hard to judge because we both enjoy this position a lot however since OE usage I’ve definitely noticed an increase in vocality and she’s definitely had some really good orgasms from this position to the point that her body vibrates and her vagina tightens and pulsates. 9/10 to 10/10
  

Eating her out/ Performing oral on her 

• This has been the area that I’ve shined at the most before OE and I was able to consistently get at least 2 orgasms from her during foreplay.
  
• Nowadays, these same orgasms are much more intense (yesterday in particular she was going crazy and had some powerful orgasms that were stronger than any I’ve seen since we met)
  
• Normally she’s on her back when I go down on her but I’ll mix things up and do it throughout love making and in different positions.
  

There’s more positions but these are the positions that we’ve been in enough to compare and contrast. They’re also a bit easier for me to judge. 

Relationship Post OE 5.75.3G

This relationship was already pretty good beforehand but I would like to reiterate what Shannon has said: good orgasms can make or break a relationship. Yes me and my girlfriend previously had great chemistry before sex but the sex and subsequent orgasms most certainly aided and accentuated the relationship. I remember reading once that a relationship is similar to a car. Emotional and physical (as in how attracted you are to each other physically) chemistry, communication styles, attitudes and beliefs (such as rule 4) make up the parts of the car. Love is the gasoline that fuels the car and sex (especially great sex) is the oil that helps make things run better in the engine.

Ways in which our relationship has improved includes

• More affection (me and her)
  
•  Stress relief (this is HUGE especially with finals week upon us both)
  
• If she gets an attitude with something or someone she makes sure to not direct it at me
  
• Little annoyances seem to slide off her back easier especially during the afterglow
  
• More possessive of me (in a good way). To elaborate, she’s more prone to holding my arm in public and getting protective if she feels like someone is trying to give me a hard time
  
• Positive outlook for the future - she’s brought up how much she looks forward to spending the rest of her life with me after school and this has intensified since OE.
  

Disclaimer:

I’ve said it before throughout this post but I will reiterate it here: I was capable of giving my GF orgasms' BEFORE introducing OE but OE has certainly improved things. I mention this because if you are not capable of giving women an orgasm on your own then I would work on that first because OE enhance orgasms (as its name implies) but that doesn’t necessarily mean its going to put them there if you aren’t able to generate them on your own. Does it help get you/her there? I would say yes but again, I strongly recommend you get your sex/love making skills up to par beforehand to improve your results.

Thanks for reading.

Thanks for sharing, glad that the sub made such a difference to you and your GF. However, way too much detail here IMO. Simply sharing the answer to asking yourself and her about the change in quality and intensity would actually do ;-)

Also, sex and the ability to orgasm are definitely important in a relationship, I agree. But then again, don't overestimate the impact of the quality of an orgasm on the whole relationship, haha. Especially if you think good orgasms will have the power to either make or break it. Believe me, there are so many areas besides sex you can f*** it up, so it's always wise to balance your mindfulness on all areas.