01-04-2015, 01:04 PM
AM6 STAGE 1 - Day 15
In NLP they say if you have one option you a robot, if you have 2 you in a dilemma, if you have 3 you have choice. So I sent about 2-3 hours in the town centre teaching my brain to have flexibility of thought/mind.
The run when like this:
1) See a women I want to approach, (think of approaching and notice my thoughts and emotions)
2) Write down my first thoughts that stop me from success, (I might run out of things to say and she’ll get bored of me)
3) After 15 mins create a dilemma by giving another positive outcome that’s possible, (like the fact she might feel attractive and be flatted by my approach)
4) Then after another 15 min create flexibility by imagining a crazy scene. (like her begging to give me a BJ after a few mins of speaking because am so incredibly hot)
I saw 40 hotties I wanted to approach and went thru the steps and then a pattern immerged which goes like this “I’m in a low energy zoned out state and am afraid that would be off turning has she’ll be influenced by it, if not that then I’ll run out of things to say and the convo will get awkward and our boredom will ruin a possible close like getting her number for another meetup.”
The Outcome
After the excise I realised that if I really knew how to tell the future or read minds I’ll be a billionaire playboy by now. I seems that some women could also have that energy (is everyone in a happy energetic state 24/7?) and I could have a dark vampire sort of seduction vibe that would work with some women if am willing to find out who. Another thing is that the women might have a lot to say and the responsibility of the convo doesn’t have to be mine alone, I don’t have to know what am going to say , I can let things flow and if indeed there is awkwardness it just means we don’t click or or are distracted by our attraction or something.
I rather have friends/partners I enjoy the company of rather than just having friends. It’s hard to explain but I’ve learnt not to take all my thoughts as fact but rather as suggestions and opinions and given more choice of thoughts I have more flexibility to create the reality that I want rather than been controlled by my past conditioning and fears.
THIS IS TOO EASY
Besides that I was comfortable in the town centre today can’t seem to have had 1 thought of what people might be thinking of me walking around alone looking at women and taking notes., AWESOME. The only things that pissed me off was:
1) Only old ladies seem to be staring at me
2) I always meet a superhot women and we have chemistry but I always never act on it, before It would depress me now am just f/cking pissed off.
That said since starting AM6 I seem to have gone out on my own and on my own terms more that I have in 2013 combined, coincidence? The whole of next week I’ll be conditioning myself with the 3 sec rule, if I can get myself to unconsciously approach women I like and say anything without thinking like removing my hand from a hot stove then life will be much more easier, I can use the same excise above to re-frame “rejection” by creating more options to unfavourable reactions. THIS IS TOO EASY!!!!!!!!!!!
PS: I have to move out by the end of this week (all fear is wiped out) and my ADD is making it hard to prioritize the tasks, can’t wait to get my hands on those stimulates.
In NLP they say if you have one option you a robot, if you have 2 you in a dilemma, if you have 3 you have choice. So I sent about 2-3 hours in the town centre teaching my brain to have flexibility of thought/mind.
The run when like this:
1) See a women I want to approach, (think of approaching and notice my thoughts and emotions)
2) Write down my first thoughts that stop me from success, (I might run out of things to say and she’ll get bored of me)
3) After 15 mins create a dilemma by giving another positive outcome that’s possible, (like the fact she might feel attractive and be flatted by my approach)
4) Then after another 15 min create flexibility by imagining a crazy scene. (like her begging to give me a BJ after a few mins of speaking because am so incredibly hot)
I saw 40 hotties I wanted to approach and went thru the steps and then a pattern immerged which goes like this “I’m in a low energy zoned out state and am afraid that would be off turning has she’ll be influenced by it, if not that then I’ll run out of things to say and the convo will get awkward and our boredom will ruin a possible close like getting her number for another meetup.”
The Outcome
After the excise I realised that if I really knew how to tell the future or read minds I’ll be a billionaire playboy by now. I seems that some women could also have that energy (is everyone in a happy energetic state 24/7?) and I could have a dark vampire sort of seduction vibe that would work with some women if am willing to find out who. Another thing is that the women might have a lot to say and the responsibility of the convo doesn’t have to be mine alone, I don’t have to know what am going to say , I can let things flow and if indeed there is awkwardness it just means we don’t click or or are distracted by our attraction or something.
I rather have friends/partners I enjoy the company of rather than just having friends. It’s hard to explain but I’ve learnt not to take all my thoughts as fact but rather as suggestions and opinions and given more choice of thoughts I have more flexibility to create the reality that I want rather than been controlled by my past conditioning and fears.
THIS IS TOO EASY
Besides that I was comfortable in the town centre today can’t seem to have had 1 thought of what people might be thinking of me walking around alone looking at women and taking notes., AWESOME. The only things that pissed me off was:
1) Only old ladies seem to be staring at me
2) I always meet a superhot women and we have chemistry but I always never act on it, before It would depress me now am just f/cking pissed off.
That said since starting AM6 I seem to have gone out on my own and on my own terms more that I have in 2013 combined, coincidence? The whole of next week I’ll be conditioning myself with the 3 sec rule, if I can get myself to unconsciously approach women I like and say anything without thinking like removing my hand from a hot stove then life will be much more easier, I can use the same excise above to re-frame “rejection” by creating more options to unfavourable reactions. THIS IS TOO EASY!!!!!!!!!!!
PS: I have to move out by the end of this week (all fear is wiped out) and my ADD is making it hard to prioritize the tasks, can’t wait to get my hands on those stimulates.
If you can't manage the little you have now, who will trust you with more, if you can't control yourself long can you rule over others for? Its easier for a king to rule a kingdom than himself and who does want an empire? Being unconquerable lies with yourself!
