12-24-2013, 10:36 PM
@Dee; if I may interject
You've done a very good job at having some courage to look at your life exactly as it is, and moreso for posting it on this site. You seem to have a mind for math or for accounting, given the fact that it is very researched and meticulous.
But please allow me to tell you; it's also very important to give some importance to the experiencial side of life, also known as the emotional side. You're so analytical about your situation that it probably won't do you any good, given that it's an abstract assessment of your life as it is.
This isn't to say that I'm trying to neg you or anything like that; I could imagine that you're taking all of these tests and posting your scores so that you have a benchmark for where you're starting. One month from now, you could retake all of those tests and see some progress. I get it.
I invite you to consider things like visualising, Natural Grounding, and perhaps Abraham Hicks as a spiritual teacher; she teaches manifesting through reaching for positive emotions.
Also, if I may, the distinction between effort and results must be made as well; the program about meeting 10,000 women is futile if you're not learning from your mistakes in each approach. You could, in theory, meet 200 women and have more results, if you're coming at it properly. A guy could even never approach a woman in his life, and still have better results than a guy that's approached 10,000 times.
I am misinterpreting what you wrote, because you want to become sociable, and using approaches to do that. Fair, but you can start being sociable whenever you choose; it doesn't happen after 10,000.
But I'm belabouring the issue because I know for an absolute fact is that your sticking point will be bogging women down with logical details. You might not "see" it, or think it's true. But you'll eventually realise that. I wish you the best with your journey.
You've done a very good job at having some courage to look at your life exactly as it is, and moreso for posting it on this site. You seem to have a mind for math or for accounting, given the fact that it is very researched and meticulous.
But please allow me to tell you; it's also very important to give some importance to the experiencial side of life, also known as the emotional side. You're so analytical about your situation that it probably won't do you any good, given that it's an abstract assessment of your life as it is.
This isn't to say that I'm trying to neg you or anything like that; I could imagine that you're taking all of these tests and posting your scores so that you have a benchmark for where you're starting. One month from now, you could retake all of those tests and see some progress. I get it.
I invite you to consider things like visualising, Natural Grounding, and perhaps Abraham Hicks as a spiritual teacher; she teaches manifesting through reaching for positive emotions.
Also, if I may, the distinction between effort and results must be made as well; the program about meeting 10,000 women is futile if you're not learning from your mistakes in each approach. You could, in theory, meet 200 women and have more results, if you're coming at it properly. A guy could even never approach a woman in his life, and still have better results than a guy that's approached 10,000 times.
I am misinterpreting what you wrote, because you want to become sociable, and using approaches to do that. Fair, but you can start being sociable whenever you choose; it doesn't happen after 10,000.
But I'm belabouring the issue because I know for an absolute fact is that your sticking point will be bogging women down with logical details. You might not "see" it, or think it's true. But you'll eventually realise that. I wish you the best with your journey.
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