Subliminal Talk

The old "I want you, but he can see me, so I'll act with him, and signal you."

(07-03-2017, 08:46 PM)Shannon Wrote: [ -> ]The old "I want you, but he can see me, so I'll act with him, and signal you."

Thank you Shannon.

If that was her intention, it completely grossed me out and ended up turning my back on her. Now that you are mentioning this, I once recall a colleague doing something similar, but not this extreme, approximately six months ago where she acted very friendly with male to make me jealous right in front of me.

(07-04-2017, 04:00 AM)Snoop Wrote: [ -> ]

(07-03-2017, 08:46 PM)Shannon Wrote: [ -> ]The old "I want you, but he can see me, so I'll act with him, and signal you."

Thank you Shannon.

If that was her intention, it completely grossed me out and ended up turning my back on her. Now that you are mentioning this, I once recall a colleague doing something similar, but not this extreme, approximately six months ago where she acted very friendly with male to make me jealous right in front of me.

I've had similar situations while on DMSI. No humping, but hugging, stroking, kissing even. And yeah, I always take it as the girl rubbing things in my face. :/

Women you don't know will almost never try to "rub things in your face" because they don't know you. That would be vindictive behavior that requires a good reason for it. You will almost never see "rub it in your face" unless she is your ex. 99% of the time, she is signalling you that this is what she wants to do with you, but she is limited by this guy who she is "allowed" to do these things with, so if you want it, come and get it, but she's not yet willing to break ranks in front of her boyfriend/husband/etc.

That's what it means when they do it. "This can be you, if you have the balls to come make it yours."

(07-04-2017, 02:11 PM)Shannon Wrote: [ -> ]Women you don't know will almost never try to "rub things in your face" because they don't know you. That would be vindictive behavior that requires a good reason for it. You will almost never see "rub it in your face" unless she is your ex. 99% of the time, she is signalling you that this is what she wants to do with you, but she is limited by this guy who she is "allowed" to do these things with, so if you want it, come and get it, but she's not yet willing to break ranks in front of her boyfriend/husband/etc.

That's what it means when they do it. "This can be you, if you have the balls to come make it yours."

Ah ok, cool.

I guess it makes sense that they wouldn't rub things in your face unless there was reason for it. Clearly a symptom of my more negative thinking. >>

But is DMSI gonna help her break ranks? If not, what are we supposed to do, knock the S.O. out and then seduce her? lol.

I suppose (if you saw her regularly) you could wait till she wasn't around the S.O.

(07-04-2017, 02:27 PM)SargeMaximus Wrote: [ -> ]

(07-04-2017, 02:11 PM)Shannon Wrote: [ -> ]Women you don't know will almost never try to "rub things in your face" because they don't know you. That would be vindictive behavior that requires a good reason for it. You will almost never see "rub it in your face" unless she is your ex. 99% of the time, she is signalling you that this is what she wants to do with you, but she is limited by this guy who she is "allowed" to do these things with, so if you want it, come and get it, but she's not yet willing to break ranks in front of her boyfriend/husband/etc.

That's what it means when they do it. "This can be you, if you have the balls to come make it yours."

Ah ok, cool.

I guess it makes sense that they wouldn't rub things in your face unless there was reason for it. Clearly a symptom of my more negative thinking. >>

But is DMSI gonna help her break ranks? If not, what are we supposed to do, knock the S.O. out and then seduce her? lol.

I suppose (if you saw her regularly) you could wait till she wasn't around the S.O.

DMSI is aimed at getting her to act on her genuine desires. It isn't all there yet, but it's aim is to do that.

If you want to go after a taken woman, you can do so in a number of ways that do not require you to be violent. I'm not going to tell you how to do it, though. That you'll have to figure out on your own.

(07-04-2017, 03:24 PM)Shannon Wrote: [ -> ]

(07-04-2017, 02:27 PM)SargeMaximus Wrote: [ -> ]

(07-04-2017, 02:11 PM)Shannon Wrote: [ -> ]Women you don't know will almost never try to "rub things in your face" because they don't know you. That would be vindictive behavior that requires a good reason for it. You will almost never see "rub it in your face" unless she is your ex. 99% of the time, she is signalling you that this is what she wants to do with you, but she is limited by this guy who she is "allowed" to do these things with, so if you want it, come and get it, but she's not yet willing to break ranks in front of her boyfriend/husband/etc.

That's what it means when they do it. "This can be you, if you have the balls to come make it yours."

Ah ok, cool.

I guess it makes sense that they wouldn't rub things in your face unless there was reason for it. Clearly a symptom of my more negative thinking. >>

But is DMSI gonna help her break ranks? If not, what are we supposed to do, knock the S.O. out and then seduce her? lol.

I suppose (if you saw her regularly) you could wait till she wasn't around the S.O.

DMSI is aimed at getting her to act on her genuine desires. It isn't all there yet, but it's aim is to do that.

If you want to go after a taken woman, you can do so in a number of ways that do not require you to be violent. I'm not going to tell you how to do it, though. That you'll have to figure out on your own.

No worries Shannon.

(07-04-2017, 03:34 PM)SargeMaximus Wrote: [ -> ]

(07-04-2017, 03:24 PM)Shannon Wrote: [ -> ]

(07-04-2017, 02:27 PM)SargeMaximus Wrote: [ -> ]

(07-04-2017, 02:11 PM)Shannon Wrote: [ -> ]Women you don't know will almost never try to "rub things in your face" because they don't know you. That would be vindictive behavior that requires a good reason for it. You will almost never see "rub it in your face" unless she is your ex. 99% of the time, she is signalling you that this is what she wants to do with you, but she is limited by this guy who she is "allowed" to do these things with, so if you want it, come and get it, but she's not yet willing to break ranks in front of her boyfriend/husband/etc.

That's what it means when they do it. "This can be you, if you have the balls to come make it yours."

Ah ok, cool.

I guess it makes sense that they wouldn't rub things in your face unless there was reason for it. Clearly a symptom of my more negative thinking. >>

But is DMSI gonna help her break ranks? If not, what are we supposed to do, knock the S.O. out and then seduce her? lol.

I suppose (if you saw her regularly) you could wait till she wasn't around the S.O.

DMSI is aimed at getting her to act on her genuine desires. It isn't all there yet, but it's aim is to do that.

If you want to go after a taken woman, you can do so in a number of ways that do not require you to be violent. I'm not going to tell you how to do it, though. That you'll have to figure out on your own.

No worries Shannon.

Interesting discussion. Learn a few things. Thank you both for your input.

I completed my 2 week run on version B two fridays ago. Nothing much to report apart from the usual IOI's which I've talked about in the past. Toddlers seem to pick on the aura. Two instances in one day. Was at the food court at the mall eating my grub when a girl with a pacifier in her mouth walked up to my table and just gazed at me for a good two minutes under the watchful eye of her mom (an 8) a few feet away. That same night, went to Wal-Mart was in hurry and pass by this couple with a toddler. He started following behind me like a dog despite repeated calls from her mom to come back. She eventually had to come and pick him up as I waited.

My view of women has changed over the course of my year long run of DMSI. First, I was hit upon by two women, who were in LTR. One of these had her kids in tow and the other was with her boyfriend. These incidents and numerous others made me realize that women will look at any opportunities to upgrade. That special unicorn that will stick with you through thick and thin just doesn't exist.

On another note, the red head that was snipped at church has been back after an absence of 4 to 5 months. She's still sitting near me, but the spark just isn't there. I've purposefully been ignoring her. She will have to work a lot harder to get my interest back. I will complete my two week stint on version A next friday and go back on version B for another two week stint.

(07-23-2017, 01:04 PM)Snoop Wrote: [ -> ]My view of women has changed over the course of my year long run of DMSI. First, I was hit upon by two women, who were in LTR. One of these had her kids in tow and the other was with her boyfriend. These incidents and numerous others made me realize that women will look at any opportunities to upgrade. That special unicorn that will stick with you through thick and thin just doesn't exist.

Experiencing this has made me "seen" why women that get so much attention from men become numb to the attention.

(07-23-2017, 01:04 PM)Snoop Wrote: [ -> ]On another note, the red head that was snipped at church has been back after an absence of 4 to 5 months. She's still sitting near me, but the spark just isn't there. I've purposefully been ignoring her. She will have to work a lot harder to get my interest back. I will complete my two week stint on version A next friday and go back on version B for another two week stint.

I've read about this behavior in other DMSI journals and wonder if the woman is bouncing off our energy. You act cold, she responds in kind. That initial attraction you/I felt, in the beginning, is no longer the same for you/me.

(07-23-2017, 05:15 PM)4Kingdoms Wrote: [ -> ]

(07-23-2017, 01:04 PM)Snoop Wrote: [ -> ]My view of women has changed over the course of my year long run of DMSI. First, I was hit upon by two women, who were in LTR. One of these had her kids in tow and the other was with her boyfriend. These incidents and numerous others made me realize that women will look at any opportunities to upgrade. That special unicorn that will stick with you through thick and thin just doesn't exist.

Experiencing this has made me "seen" why women that get so much attention from men become numb to the attention.

(07-23-2017, 01:04 PM)Snoop Wrote: [ -> ]On another note, the red head that was snipped at church has been back after an absence of 4 to 5 months. She's still sitting near me, but the spark just isn't there. I've purposefully been ignoring her. She will have to work a lot harder to get my interest back. I will complete my two week stint on version A next friday and go back on version B for another two week stint.

I've read about this behavior in other DMSI journals and wonder if the woman is bouncing off our energy. You act cold, she responds in kind. That initial attraction you/I felt, in the beginning, is no longer the same for you/me.

On your second point, I will test your hypothesis and see if she reacts differently by using a different approach next time I see her.

Just finished my two week stint on version A. The manure is hitting the fan at work and I feel like dead man walking. There was a general meeting and one of my colleagues at work got credited by the CEO for work that I was mainly involved with. What pisses me off is that he wasn't even involved in the project. Obviously, my boss is feeding the CEO wrong information. When this was announced, some of my colleagues looked in my direction in disbelief. I did not and could not say anything, but I was clearly seething with anger and rage. I left work early that day, dejected that something like that would happened to me. In my 20 years as a professional, I've never seen anything remotely close to this.

That night I went to the gym to let off some steam and as a result, beat my personal best on the bench press by 30 lbs. The rage that I had inside had some interesting effects on the DMSI side, as I noticed that every woman in the gym was staring at me at some point or another. Otherwise, not much to report in the last two weeks with the exception that Y commented on my physique. Saying that I've lost some weight and look more muscular. In reality over the last month, I've gained 5 pounds.

I think that I'm resisting version A for some reason as I feel I'm seeing less results that on version B. Just flipped to version B today and got a coffee at the mall. The woman who's serving me told another woman behind the counter that she needed a coffee for that "really nice gentleman". the other woman asked her "did he sing to you?". Made them laugh both with my response. It made their day and mine.

EDIT: Just came back from shopping in two different stores. Coming in the first store, I was enthusiastically greeted by the cashier. On my way out to pay, she give me a deep and longing gaze and come and do me look. At the second store, on my way out I stop by the lottery booth to buy tickets and the cashier was very talkative and apologized profusely for nothing. She went gaga and couldn't stop giggling when I answered her questions.

Sorry to hear that about your situation at work. I'm curious, why is it you aren't able to correct the situation? It seems you also have a lot of people to back you to make sure credit is given where it's due. If you feel like your time there is through, what do you have to lose by standing up for yourself?

(07-29-2017, 05:19 PM)RTBoss Wrote: [ -> ]Sorry to hear that about your situation at work. I'm curious, why is it you aren't able to correct the situation? It seems you also have a lot of people to back you to make sure credit is given where it's due. If you feel like your time there is through, what do you have to lose by standing up for yourself?

Thank RTB. My former manager passed away about two years ago. They hired a new one who came from another organization. Over the past two years, she's been finding ways to replace staff by maligning former colleagues of mine who in my opinion were let go for no good reason than to give cushy jobs to her friends. Our organization is going through changes and she has the backing of upper management emboldening her to expedite the process. So I have to tread carefully, but I am making arrangements to leave on my own terms whether I quit or I get fired.