I think I should give an endorsement of 'Unlimited Abundance', given in certain areas where I've improved:
- It got me off my ass to create a sales letter when I cleared on the module on holding myself back;
- I was able to do a round of the market to look for gigging opportunities when I cleared on the module of indecision;
I'm only 9 modules out of a total 25, and I feel MUCH better about myself, and money, and I'm taking steps to improve my condition.
The theme is about allowing the abundance to come, and clearing opposing thoughts. For me, a practical and concrete application of wealth building with be found with BASE 5G.
Stage 3, Day 2,
I'm 4 hours closer to be a world-class musician on guitar; my practice regimen is pretty awesome, and I just want to keep going. I'm sounding more and more like an expert by slowing myself down A LOT, focusing on the little errors I make, and being very conscious about fixing them, all while making every note ring clearly.
I also wrote half a song today.
I wish I'd put some more attention on singing; it's on or off, and when I do, it's for about half an hour. Then again, that's what's recommended.
A talent related subliminal in 5G/future 6G would be UHH-MAZING!
Stage 3, Day 3,
I'm seriously entering a flow-state in relation to my guitar playing, and there's some serious momentum building up. I went from 6pm to 4am doing something related to my music. There was some walking/eating/washroom time, but that time just flew by.
To think that near the start of that block (near 8pm), I was feeling bad about my playing. That went away as I found a way to enjoy myself.
Just woke up around 10am, so I have to get to work soon, and I seriously need a coffee!
Stage 3, Day 4
I've facing some negativity regarding my progress, specifically with my voice, and how if you strip away the rasp, I can't hit a pure note above G# above middle C, which isn't terribly high. I'm also finding that my mid range feels flabby. I don't know what to think. Guitar playing is a bit sloppy too. Might just be the bad night of sleep. I may also need to find myself a reputable guitar teacher; let's just hope they accept that guys can sing high notes (some will set unreasonable limits on a gender).
I approached a 'hot' girl (not cute or gorgeous) without a second thought while she was with her friend. I sort of blurted out my first introduction; she used the boyfriend opt-out almost right away, which seemed like bs, but whatever. I really didn't care after the fact, but opened my eyes about me approaching women to whom I'm interested.
Also, huge reframes thanks to Johnny Soporno and his speaking. A BIG one is looking for women with whom you'd LIKE to sleep with as opposed to looking for a media's "8 to 10". It doesn't matter if she's fat, balding, and missing teeth; if she makes my dick hard, and I enjoy having sex with her AND her company, that's all that matters. That's what will bring me a happy life, as opposed to finding women that are pre-approved by friends because she's hot.
I've been living this paradigm unconsciously for a while, and the women that I like stand out to me pretty instantly, but chucking this paradigm away will do me good. IF I LIKE HER (and she like's me), THAT'S ALL THAT MATTERS! Granted, the women in which I'm attracted that way are often attractive to others, but that's mostly coincidence.
(08-23-2014, 10:42 PM)DanAmerson Wrote: [ -> ]Also, huge reframes thanks to Johnny Soporno and his speaking. A BIG one is looking for women with whom you'd LIKE to sleep with as opposed to looking for a media's "8 to 10". It doesn't matter if she's fat, balding, and missing teeth; if she makes my dick hard, and I enjoy having sex with her AND her company, that's all that matters. That's what will bring me a happy life, as opposed to finding women that are pre-approved by friends because she's hot.
I've been living this paradigm unconsciously for a while, and the women that I like stand out to me pretty instantly, but chucking this paradigm away will do me good. IF I LIKE HER (and she like's me), THAT'S ALL THAT MATTERS! Granted, the women in which I'm attracted that way are often attractive to others, but that's mostly coincidence.
Totally agree with this. I'd also say that when you approach women you're NOT interested in, she feels it and is repelled anyways.
However, I think EVERY woman has at least 1,000 guys in her life that want to f*ck her, so don't look for girls you won't have competition with, as that will push you out of the "pool".
Stage 3, Day 5,
Won't go into too much detail, since I'm underslept, and about to go to bed.
Went to work for 5 hours (slowest day ever), then went home to eat and warm up, went to the market to busk. Only managed one hour due to low energy.
I had a second date with the woman with braces. We got Lebanese food, drove to a park/playground, and made out on the wooden junglegym. We got to her car, and kissed and talked about stuff. Long story short, she keeps saying that she wants to wait before getting into a relationship before having sex. I'm in a bind, as I don't want to have to be in a relationship to have sex, though she's a great girl (I told her all this).
However, this is the second time she's wound up in my bed, naked, where we're doing everything except penetrative sex. We probably would have, but even inserting half my middle finger is extremely intense and uncomfortable. My magic wand is, well, much wider than that.
Anyways, I may need to start looking for sexually available women, who want and can have sex right away, instead of virgin women (my last two dates were complete virgins). Again, this woman is great, and she's asked to just hang out the next time without doing anything, so I might just do that.
Might be a projection of mine, attracting women, but not those who are too sexually "threatening" for me. These following stages will certainly prove to be interesting.
Her saying that is basically a form of control and trying to use sex to manipulate you into a relationship. In the past i've stayed strong and said "no i'm not going to promise that" and been prepared to lose her and several times they have been okay with having sex anyway.
It's just bs really.. maintain your own frame and she will probably have sex with you. And you agreeing to hanging out next time without doing anything you are just buying into her bs.
-Ben
(08-24-2014, 10:16 PM)Benjamin Wrote: [ -> ]Her saying that is basically a form of control and trying to use sex to manipulate you into a relationship. In the past i've stayed strong and said "no i'm not going to promise that" and been prepared to lose her and several times they have been okay with having sex anyway.
It's just bs really.. maintain your own frame and she will probably have sex with you. And you agreeing to hanging out next time without doing anything you are just buying into her bs.
^^Yep, this. I'm sure you realize that she is demanding you to go against what you want in order to get sex. That'd be needy, no way around it. Of course the choice is yours. I'd say don't force her into admitting anything directly, but just say what you think, keep making your own decisions and let her follow or not. Be prepared to lose her and make sure she knows you like her no matter if she follows or not (if you do, that is). Though its gotta be more of a big deal to virgin women, not really my thing.
I concur with Ben and LionKing. Additionally, read Black dragon's stuff and Good Looking Loser. Time to lose the rose-colored glasses pal.
(08-24-2014, 04:36 AM)SargeMaximus Wrote: [ -> ]However, I think EVERY woman has at least 1,000 guys in her life that want to f*ck her, so don't look for girls you won't have competition with, as that will push you out of the "pool".
I wondered why there was no SM or 'Man' magnet for women
(08-25-2014, 12:43 AM)Ricardo Wrote: [ -> ] (08-24-2014, 04:36 AM)SargeMaximus Wrote: [ -> ]However, I think EVERY woman has at least 1,000 guys in her life that want to f*ck her, so don't look for girls you won't have competition with, as that will push you out of the "pool".
I wondered why there was no SM or 'Man' magnet for women
Lol dude, a hot girl IS a sex magnet.
(08-24-2014, 10:16 PM)Benjamin Wrote: [ -> ]Her saying that is basically a form of control and trying to use sex to manipulate you into a relationship. In the past i've stayed strong and said "no i'm not going to promise that" and been prepared to lose her and several times they have been okay with having sex anyway.
It's just bs really.. maintain your own frame and she will probably have sex with you. And you agreeing to hanging out next time without doing anything you are just buying into her bs.
-Ben
She seems a bit freaked out about the idea of sex, and I think she just equivocated sex with a serious relationship.
To everyone who commented, we've gotten to third base on one another on the two occasions that we've gotten together, despite her caveat on both occasions. Just yesterday (Day 5), I even had a condom on, and she was allowing me to slowly insert myself until it hurt; I didn't get very far.
I can see that she sees actual sex as a big deal, and the fact that putting anything in her cause pain doesn't help. No rose-colored glasses here.
Lol, I just meant for YOUR side of things. I have, however, heard that if enough foreplay is done, sex for a virgin doesn't hurt and there's no blood. Course, I forget where I read it.