(10-27-2014, 09:50 PM)DanAmerson Wrote: [ -> ]Sex drive has gone through the roof, spiking at random intervals, more often when I'm relaxed at home.
I spent some 4-5 hours just turning in my bed or sitting uncomfortably on my sofa b/c I was so horny I was about to go insane.. I actually messaged a girl I used to see that "I need a blowjob"
It gets pretty crazy sometimes, though its often low, too.
Here's my case where having an aura/energy of sex will turn women on.
The women in this series are reading literature, all while sitting on a vibrator, on camera. They go until they can't take it.
Remember, the girl in this video is JUST talking; talking is just making sounds. But there's so much more going on beyond that. Which is what makes it hilarious.
Plus, it's this cutie called Stoya (which I find out is a porn star):
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PQuT-Xfyk3o
"I need a [Sexually graphic comment - unsuitable language. Moderators take note]"
Crap guys..
I'm in class, and I cannot focus for anything. I'm not even focusing on the content of this sub; just not focusing.
By the way, I'm seeing more attractive women in higher quantity on the street. I missed 3 opportunities (1 + group of 2) to chat them up, just because I had to make a split decision on all of them. I'll work on that by making my decisions more quickly, and PSTEC Postive some sort of affirmation.
Stage 5, Day 3
My appetite (for food) has gone up; eating more than usual. I'm gaining mass, and getting into shape just cause I worked out once. I'm going back to the gym tomorrow to get some extra mass to my arms, and everywhere in general.
I've jumped out on the opportunity to chat to some pretty women; I think that two beliefs have cropped up:
1) She doesn't want to be bothered;
2) I don't think attractive women find me attractive;
First, I could frame it this way: my approaching a woman the right way boosts her self-esteem and makes her feel sexy, whether anything happens.
Second, this is possibly the cornerstone of the entire reason I'm running this sub; the feeling of worthiness in regards to women I want to be with and enjoy in my life.
I need to condition myself to act instantly, instead of asking myself: "should I?" and then say "yup", and then a fast-walking woman would be gone. I caught up to a slow-walking woman yesterday and chatted with her.
Then, I watch some of Good Looking Loser's videos, and he goes about approaching more or less the same way. I have to bring back some of my "logical" conversations until I'm able to run things on sexual vibe/polarity alone, then it will take care of itself.
I have a date tomorrow; a movie I really want to see "Fury" with a girl I was seeing in August.
Damn, PSTEC Postive works well.
Last night, I used it on this affirmation:
"I choose and decide to approach a beautiful woman, and I approach right away"
A little bit clunky for an affirmation. But it worked.
Today, I approached 3 women; the 2 I approached at the gym seem very into me (one was educated German woman, speaks very little German, has these natural breast that are beyond beautiful).
When I saw them, I calmly asked myself if I would be willing to talk to them. When I got "yes" as an answer, I was resolved, and walked over to each of them.
I was able to get emotionally aroused around the last two, more-so with German girl. It's all coming together. I have all their contact info, plus I have a date tonight with someone else, so I think I'll be having sex, and enjoying the all benefits of this program, very soon.
*jaw hits floor*
Stealing that affirmation.
Stage 5, Day 4,
I'm realizing that in regards to social and sexual confidence, even if I'm not getting laid, I'm in the top 10 or even 5% in regards to many areas. Some minor tweaking is required; a breakdown:
- Day Time; I've got NO problem talking to women in day-time social settings; Today I've approached 3 without any problem;
- Night Time; I have a little bit of anxiety about going out alone; I did okay last Saturday, and at least I'm getting experiences, and I'll be going out Friday and Saturday. I can approach some women during the night; and I'm sober (this is a big deal!)
- Sex appeal; I have virtually no anxiety related to going about my day to day life, and interacting with people; for example, I woke up this guy on the bus to make sure he wouldn't sleep past his stop. I'm more allowing of my sexual energy, and I've been successful in my last few approaches.
- Body; I'm likely in the top 10% of body. I have a gym membership and I've been going more often. I've started doing posture exercises and exercises related to having bigger arms and having success.
- Facial appearance; not tooting my own horn (just being realistic), but I consider myself handsome, as in being in the top 10%. This sub have made me handsomer.
- Persistence; this is an area of improvement; I'm likely in the top tier, but this area has improved because of this program;
- Style; another area of work on; some items of clothing work very well with me (especially tight t-shirts, good jeans and my coat/scarf), but those articles are number. The rest are sort of plain and not edgy, in which I wore the same t-shirt 2 years ago.
I just need to keep approaching, perhaps add to my wardrobe, and follow-up properly. Done.
Anyways, like I said, I got the contact info of 3 girls today. I'm do a follow-up tomorrow; not caring to do it right now. I really want to see (i.e. enjoy sex with) two of them in particular.
I went to the gym and devastated my arms in a workout (in a good way). They're the primary area of focus, as I'm rather satisfied with the rest.
A girl of interest in my class was showing more interest than usual. I gave her my card heh. We had a pretty fun conversation one on one, which I wouldn't have been able to get her to do.
Right now, I've stopped caring if women are watching me, or if the sub is 'having an effect' on women around me. I used to (in stage 3) look around the room for pretty girls to check if they were looking at me (they're not). Now, I don't notice, and don't know.
I went to see Fury with a girl I'd been seeing. We caught up no problem (after almost 2 months), and throughout the movie, we were kissing here and there.
She was on her period, so not down to do anything below the belt, so we got as far as kissing, naked from the waist up. Then I got her dressed back up, walked her to her car, and sent her off. We'll settl this another time.
Good the hear its coming together for you!
I stole that affirmation too and tested it just now. Its great, you get to visualize and practice the whole process from seeing her, to deciding you want to talk to her, to going over. Idk if you did it like that, but something that came to mind while I tried it is that you probably want to go further with imagining that interaction in your mind. I imagined going up to some girls I saw today, taking them to coffee, then leading them to my place and finally us having sex. Maybe that's overdoing it, but my point is that if you're visualizing and practicing the interaction going exactly like you want it to, you'll have more "momentum" when you really go up and it won't be like "Hi! So...................". Maybe always imagine the approach leading to a kiss, or a number.
(10-29-2014, 10:16 PM)LionKing Wrote: [ -> ]Good the hear its coming together for you!
I stole that affirmation too and tested it just now. Its great, you get to visualize and practice the whole process from seeing her, to deciding you want to talk to her, to going over. Idk if you did it like that, but something that came to mind while I tried it is that you probably want to go further with imagining that interaction in your mind. I imagined going up to some girls I saw today, taking them to coffee, then leading them to my place and finally us having sex. Maybe that's overdoing it, but my point is that if you're visualizing and practicing the interaction going exactly like you want it to, you'll have more "momentum" when you really go up and it won't be like "Hi! So...................". Maybe always imagine the approach leading to a kiss, or a number.
Does anyone know where I can get a copy of the instructions for sex magnet?
Thanks
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LionKing
Lol it's supposed to fit into one affirmation. I'm very good with making conversation and asking for the number, so I didn't need to tack on more to my affirmation. You could tailor-fit yours to which you can solve your own problems:
Perhaps:
"When I meet a stranger for the first time, we're able to share a conversation for an hour or as long as I want"