Ricardo's Woman Magnet Journal (COMPLETED)

[Ricardo]

Ask yourself. What's the first thing that comes to your head when you think of yourself as a woman magnet? Whatever comes to mind you should pursue, wether it's being in great shape. Talking to many women everywhere. Being honest, dressing smart. The journey is what you make it. Gratitude for all women is the way to go.

I see myself as a cool and laid back person with a choice of women to enjoy life with. Another reason I chose WM over SM was that there is that emotional connection thing in WM which is something women really need to bloom in a relationship. When there are feelings involved it makes the relationships more fun as long as you are careful how you carry on dating other women

[Fonzy3]

You seem like a romantic guy. This would be great leading into AYP. My general experience with people wanting self improvement is that they would like a statistical result e.g. 7 dates a week rather than having breathing taking moments with quality women.

[Ricardo]

You seem like a romantic guy. This would be great leading into AYP. My general experience with people wanting self improvement is that they would like a statistical result e.g. 7 dates a week rather than having breathing taking moments with quality women.

I do like a connection with a women not just because she has a pretty face but that there feels like a kinship. I enjoy being with women who excite me emotionally as well rather than just a great figure or attractive. I've only met 4 women like that in my entire life and only dated one of them, but that time was exquisite for me because of the feelings she gave me. I know when she's made that connection with me because sex becomes second place to just enjoying kissing, (the neck I love omg!) and stroking for hours on end. Miss Secretary is one such who would get the hours

[Fonzy3]

Everything will be in first place.

[Ricardo]

Stage 1 Day 29

I am having more sexy dreams which is a good thing and I've now got the urge to get into shape (shift some belly fat). I had this in AM6 but after I finished it I took a break and didn't really get back into exercising. Now I'm fixated with getting rid of the rest of my belly fat which although is a lot better I still want to lose another inch. I've even bought some fat burning supplements (cambogia) which is something I never would consider in the past. I've always been afraid of taking supplements designed to burn fat because of the possible side effects, but now I will try them gradually to make sure I'm not allergic to them or anything adverse happens when I take them (little amounts each time not full doses).

I have increased the dB's to to just under -30dB at the source (speakers) for the ultrasonic. I just felt I should as before it was -40dB. I have noticed it tiring me since doing this but that's no bad thing.

I feel like I've spent ages on this stage and it certainly brings changes over the whole time, unlike AM which gives it's purpose after about week or 10 days into the stage.
I will do a fuller round-up on day 32 (Wednesday) BTW I've pretty much recovered from the silly heartbreak feeling thing!

[Fonzy3]

That's awesome! About the exercising thing. I also suggest to invest in a small cute puppie and walk it regularly in highly female populated areas lol in all seriousness get as many coffee dates in a week as you can.

[Benjamin]

I've even bought some fat burning supplements (cambogia) which is something I never would consider in the past.

I'm interested to see how it goes.

The thing with fat burners is that they are only going to help if you have everything else dialed in, such as exercising consistently and eating well, just like any other supplement they are a boost. It's only recently i've considered trying them as i'm at a bit of a sticking point after getting in pretty good shape and still wanting to lose more fat, but my workout program and eating are good.

EDIT: I'm going to try some green tea extract, just ordered some from bodybuilding.com

[Ricardo]

Stage 1 Day 32

Time to wrap up stage 1

It took a good few days to feel any effects, but I did start to have feelings of being a bit of a playboy in my heart and acting open and warm to women I encountered. I showed genuine warmth and interest in my encounters (this wasn't forced but came naturally) and this was reciprocated by them being more open with me. Women take note of me and seem pleased when I'm around. It was also encouraging to be hit with some dating requests on POF and Match and be voted hot on hotornot. Although the women were not attractive to me it's encouraging to see some external
happenings. These were the first requests and hot vote since I joined these online sites nearly 2 years ago so it is significant. The fact they were
not lookers was a bit of a downer but I expect the quality of women will improve as I progress. This last 10 days or so has given me sexy dreams
and dreams about women in general. The overal theme is that I'm controlling them and their lives, what I say they have to do.. Weird! I've never had dreams like this in my whole life until I started WM so it's worth noting.

I think some resistance kicked in later when I had the "want to hide away" feelings and some depression generally. This period also saw me start my new job and for some reason, even though I was punching the air with happiness that I was leaving my old job, once I started the new job, I became very melancholy and had a feeling of bereavement about it all. I still don't feel so good about it but much better than before.

I do miss my favourite lady on reception but that's not the only issue as such (and just for those who think I've got oneitis over her...I also have a picture on my desktop of a woman who I met up there and who really turns me on just looking at her, but she is unfortunately taken as well.)

The problem is that I've gone from a large environment working amongst hundreds of people with a fair few hot women, to a small office and hardly any women, so I don't have much opportunity unlike my previous job. The women in the new job seem to appreciate me and like seeing me (big smiles, welcoming looks!) but they are not my types and are taken anyway. There is also a chronic shortage of single women outside of work and the online dating sites just have older unattractive ones all the time.

I remember this being a serious worry for me in the early stages of AM since I had planned even back then to do WM. So now I'm hit with that concern again and feeling I jumped ship too soon. I do wish I stayed longer to see out WM then do another AM>WM round. Another 18 months would have been quite doable but I was tempted by the money and extra time aspect but perhaps that doesn't outweigh the bigger cost of having a Woman Magnet sub attracting beautiful single woman where there aren't any beautiful single women

I know the sub 'manifests' women but right now manifesting beautiful single women seems an impossibility. Perhaps it's resistance making me feel hopeless.

This sub has really got it's work cut out!!!!!

[CatMan]

Things will get better, this is only the foundation building stage before things start really taking off!

Work isn't the only place to meet women, I meet them everywhere now, even at the mall or when I go out to eat. Even though I'm not even done AM lol! To my understanding, the magnets make you go out a lot more and develop yourself socially, so the situation at work will become less and less of an issue. Or maybe the women at work, know hot women as friends of theirs, or family members, we're all a huge web of people don't forget.

I'm seeing some negativity and neediness, I had it too. Gone now. The magnets seem to get very aggressive on killing all of that, so don't worry. Stay the course and it'll be wiped clean, I'm sure of it. Once you have a lot of hot women around you, that will help it vanish as well. WM2 will take care of that I have no doubt!

You're becoming a 1% man over time. Focus on that. For me, for "proof" of how much I've changed...even though it makes me CRINGE to see it nowadays...I go and watch media of "typical" beta guys trying to get girls now, movies or YouTube videos etc., It's shocking how clueless most guys are compared to those who have put in the time to develop themselves like us. I don't mean that to be arrogant...I mean it in the sense of, going and experiencing that, may help you SEE just how far you've come, and get you excited and positive about where you'll end up! It always works for me to help me see the "proof", in a third person, as I used to do so much of the things they do, I didn't know better and thought there was no way to become better with women and I was doomed.

Hope that helps you and looking forward to reading about Stage 2!

[Ricardo]

Yes I think you're right Catman. I do have some neediness and negativities but it's from the past when I wanted to date a women that really got me she would always be unavailable or not interested. When it feels like the same thing is happening again it just depresses me.
Part of the reason I like to journal is because I can also vent if I need to which releases some of the pressure. It helps also to get a take on how I'm feeling from people here.
You're absolutely right of course, there are many ways to meet women and places to. When I get depressed or upset I get very narrow minded so I appreciate your words putting me on the right track

[Ricardo]

Stage 2 day 4

Thought I'd give a brief update on initial responses to this stage.
Firstly my sex drive has gone right down. Since about December when I was on stage 5 of AM I have been struggling to not feel sexy and keep the woodpecker down. Now since the start of stage 2 WM it's all left me and I hardly feel sexy at all. I also feel a lot less needy and indifferent to women in general right now. That earlier emotional phase seems to have pretty much gone as well.

Secondly, I've noticed that I'm becoming short tempered and resentful almost of my current lifestyle. It's too restrictive in that I don't really go out to decent places but rather stick to the same venues and ultimately the same people. I'm getting bad tempered because of my limited lifestyle and the people in my circle. There's a whole world out there and I'm just not experiencing it:@:@
I really want to go to different places and move in different circles, make new friends and acquaintances who will have a positive impact on my life rather than ones that just make me lazy and tired....

..and I thought WM was going to be bliss

[Womanizer]

Stage 2 day 4

Thought I'd give a brief update on initial responses to this stage.
Firstly my sex drive has gone right down. Since about December when I was on stage 5 of AM I have been struggling to not feel sexy and keep the woodpecker down. Now since the start of stage 2 WM it's all left me and I hardly feel sexy at all. I also feel a lot less needy and indifferent to women in general right now. That earlier emotional phase seems to have pretty much gone as well.

Secondly, I've noticed that I'm becoming short tempered and resentful almost of my current lifestyle. It's too restrictive in that I don't really go out to decent places but rather stick to the same venues and ultimately the same people. I'm getting bad tempered because of my limited lifestyle and the people in my circle. There's a whole world out there and I'm just not experiencing it:@:@
I really want to go to different places and move in different circles, make new friends and acquaintances who will have a positive impact on my life rather than ones that just make me lazy and tired....

..and I thought WM was going to be bliss

Could you perhaps be resisting the sub? I mean maybe that's happening so you can change that. That's something that I need to work on too expanding and creating a new social circle of like minded value giving individuals.

[Ricardo]

I don't think I'm resisting the sub but it's hard to tell. AM did touch on these feelings briefly but WM seems to be making me face it more and take note of the situation. AM is supposed to manifest a good circle of friends but I don't think anyone has had that success with part. WM focuses on the playful and social but right now I just want to tell everyone to f**k off.

[Inconceivablezen]

I've got great success with the friends part. Lost some bad friends where the relationships deteriorated. And I've got some extreme quality new friends (even won back a quality old friend). Going fine here!