DMSI 3.1 - The Journal

[Shawn]

- Later at a party I met another girl I learned when using DMSI V2.1 where there seemed to be a lot of attraction but this disappeared on V2.2. Yesterday I saw her again, and saying this I never seen her that sexy as yesterday so she may even qualify for the LDS. Lot of IOI's have been there and also tons of attraction, I felt like glowing. We have been talking later about different things and at some point she mentioned her bf and that she isn't looking for something new and she will move back to her bf after studies are finished. I just told "that's fine" or something along the lines. Don't know what else I should had answered.

Women will often try to prevent anything from happening when they are more interested than they want to be by either inventing or talking about a boyfriend, fiance or husband. It's her way of trying to put up a wall to prevent herself from acting on her desires, and a sneaky way of saying, "If you're a GOOD man, you'll help me not **** you." She's also shit testing you to see if you are a guy who really wants what she has to offer, or will allow yourself to be deterred. She's trying to get you to initiate and have no responsibility for what happens.

Hm, I guess there is where my inexperience comes in play. I have been thinking yesterday how can I move things forward but there were many people she knows so if I had tried something physically and she would accept it, it would make her look like a sl*t in the eyes of the other people regarding the fact that she has a bf (and for now I assume there is one). So she wouldn't had been able to respond to this positively and so this seemed to be mission impossible.

Would you be telling all those people about the affair? Would she?

That's not what I was talking about. I mean everybody would see if I would have started touching her and make out at that party. If I could managed to do it discreet and then continue at my place this would be a whole different game.