12-23-2014, 11:08 AM
AM6 STAGE 1 - Day 3
Caring what people think
So I have been approaching at least a person a day (some days skipped coz of mild depression), some were good, others not so, yesterday I even had a negative day and thoughts of quitting entered my mind. But I managed to push through it. I noticed that I could approach women in the dark when they alone but not in a place with people close enough to hear or see (could explain my poor results).
I would see someone I wanted to approach but my mind would only focus on the people around and I’ll abort mission. I even tried approaching at night time but only managed in places that where isolated from the groups of potential critics.
So today I decided to go out into a town/city where I would never be seen at again and do live EFT round’s on myself in public. I just walked around looking at people and tapping, walked in stores, in supermarkets, stopped in the middle of busy streets and tapped. It seems to have worked really well I approached three women after that, one at a bus stop her bus came and she skipped, one in the middle of a busy road, I was in a daze and that approached sucked but she gave me a chance. The last was a girl at a bus stop near home, I got her number.
Auto-pilot interviewer
I realised I start asking rapid questions unconsciously , am glad a’ve given myself the opportunity to learn from my mistakes without been too negative about the arward approaches . I know that by the end of next year I will a different person, I even went to watch a movie alone, something I would never have done some time ago. My brother even said I changed as he has a short temper and the other day he lost his top while texting and I didn’t get trapped up in that like I normally would. I guess change happens to gradually it’s hard to pin point.
Face my demons
Anyway I seem to have this motto I have been saying to myself, “Am the type of person that confronts his fears”. I was trying to look for it in the script library thinking maybe it was a suggestion. I figured out that if I want to be successful I have to do what average people aren’t willing to do, even if it means reading some homoerotic out a loud in a busy area to become comfortable with my voice.
All our dreams are on the other side of our fears and most people don’t face there’s. I was really looking forward to going to that nudist manor last summer, but at least I have steady income so next year, I will definitely go. Also I think during summer I will try to visit all the nudist beaches too, even by myself, that 12 weekends in summer. After that depending on my budget I’ll shoot a porn movie, I found a company that does private videos and it doesn’t cost that much.
Just figured been 100% comfortable in your own skin to the point that you can have sex in front of people and a camera would completely change your life forever.
PICK UP metaphor for true happiness
I have a metaphor I thought of today to illustrate that point. I saw this butiful women in the bus, we looked at each other, I thought of approaching but there was an old couple behind and I walked pass her and sat at the back. She when sat sideways, which in my mind was still inviting and she could probably see thru the mirror, but ……… I thought to myself, shame that’s every average person’s story, they see something they want, open, inviting, just waiting for you to crab it, but fear gets in the way.
Not just women, but in everything, education, profession, business, health and so on. That’s why in the beginning I wanted to master this PUA stuff, not for the lots of sex, like I said I didn’t enjoy it much so that’s not a motivator right now, I wanted to master it as a gateway to bigger things.
Push it to the limit
The stuff I’ll do over the next few months will be a little extreme and am sure you guys will be stocked, the thing is a watched this documentary of an actor with learning and attention deficits, she spent about 3 hours cramming her lines that would take “normal” people 15-20 mins to cram. Bottom line I have to work harder that most and push myself more, I have to do more extreme stuff to stimulate change. I still have that voice in my head “Am the type of person that confronts his fears”.
PS anyone know of good resources for summerising techniques or are these long post OKAY?
Caring what people think
So I have been approaching at least a person a day (some days skipped coz of mild depression), some were good, others not so, yesterday I even had a negative day and thoughts of quitting entered my mind. But I managed to push through it. I noticed that I could approach women in the dark when they alone but not in a place with people close enough to hear or see (could explain my poor results).
I would see someone I wanted to approach but my mind would only focus on the people around and I’ll abort mission. I even tried approaching at night time but only managed in places that where isolated from the groups of potential critics.
So today I decided to go out into a town/city where I would never be seen at again and do live EFT round’s on myself in public. I just walked around looking at people and tapping, walked in stores, in supermarkets, stopped in the middle of busy streets and tapped. It seems to have worked really well I approached three women after that, one at a bus stop her bus came and she skipped, one in the middle of a busy road, I was in a daze and that approached sucked but she gave me a chance. The last was a girl at a bus stop near home, I got her number.
Auto-pilot interviewer
I realised I start asking rapid questions unconsciously , am glad a’ve given myself the opportunity to learn from my mistakes without been too negative about the arward approaches . I know that by the end of next year I will a different person, I even went to watch a movie alone, something I would never have done some time ago. My brother even said I changed as he has a short temper and the other day he lost his top while texting and I didn’t get trapped up in that like I normally would. I guess change happens to gradually it’s hard to pin point.
Face my demons
Anyway I seem to have this motto I have been saying to myself, “Am the type of person that confronts his fears”. I was trying to look for it in the script library thinking maybe it was a suggestion. I figured out that if I want to be successful I have to do what average people aren’t willing to do, even if it means reading some homoerotic out a loud in a busy area to become comfortable with my voice.
All our dreams are on the other side of our fears and most people don’t face there’s. I was really looking forward to going to that nudist manor last summer, but at least I have steady income so next year, I will definitely go. Also I think during summer I will try to visit all the nudist beaches too, even by myself, that 12 weekends in summer. After that depending on my budget I’ll shoot a porn movie, I found a company that does private videos and it doesn’t cost that much.
Just figured been 100% comfortable in your own skin to the point that you can have sex in front of people and a camera would completely change your life forever.
PICK UP metaphor for true happiness
I have a metaphor I thought of today to illustrate that point. I saw this butiful women in the bus, we looked at each other, I thought of approaching but there was an old couple behind and I walked pass her and sat at the back. She when sat sideways, which in my mind was still inviting and she could probably see thru the mirror, but ……… I thought to myself, shame that’s every average person’s story, they see something they want, open, inviting, just waiting for you to crab it, but fear gets in the way.
Not just women, but in everything, education, profession, business, health and so on. That’s why in the beginning I wanted to master this PUA stuff, not for the lots of sex, like I said I didn’t enjoy it much so that’s not a motivator right now, I wanted to master it as a gateway to bigger things.
Push it to the limit
The stuff I’ll do over the next few months will be a little extreme and am sure you guys will be stocked, the thing is a watched this documentary of an actor with learning and attention deficits, she spent about 3 hours cramming her lines that would take “normal” people 15-20 mins to cram. Bottom line I have to work harder that most and push myself more, I have to do more extreme stuff to stimulate change. I still have that voice in my head “Am the type of person that confronts his fears”.
PS anyone know of good resources for summerising techniques or are these long post OKAY?
If you can't manage the little you have now, who will trust you with more, if you can't control yourself long can you rule over others for? Its easier for a king to rule a kingdom than himself and who does want an empire? Being unconquerable lies with yourself!
