12-14-2014, 05:08 PM
This thread has been going on for awhile so I am only at page 2.
I noticed two things.
Not evaluations- because I myself do/did them and am learning to be more natural.
*You think to much. Why do I say this? Well, I used to be just like you. I think alot, I read every PUA thing I could get my hands on. In the end I only dissapointed myself. Why? Because I was not ready.
Some people just mature faster than others. But I assure you their are people who may get women left and right (and rightfully they are more mature in that area), but at the same time they are very weak in others.
My father always said to me (very valuable now that I am beginning to understand) "You can witness what people have accomplished, and acheived; but you have no idea of their internal battles or what they had to overcome."
The fact is we all got sh** dumped on our plate. All of us. Thier are billionaires who cant get a woman to truely love them. Their are moviestars who cant get women to love them.
The first step you honestly need to do is to slow down your thinking. I am just like you or was... with the charts the vision boards the notes of the PUA material.
You want good PUA material. Just read Attraction Code by Vin Di Carlo and let that sink in.
A REAL natual with women, the summit of the venusian arts is naturalism. Men who are good with women feel with their intuition with their internal communication systems.
Like the indians who made the best guides through foregn lands. Did they have maps? No. Purely based on visual cues, and feelings.
Dump the thoughts and honestly learn to calm ones-self.
The thoughts inside your head cant even shake a stick to what the real world can throw at you.
If your doing AM5, I would onestly throw any expectations, charts, calculations and QUANTIFICATIONS out the window.
Id run am5 and then am5 again or am6.
I bet when you return to this thread then- you will almost balk at the overthinking you did.
Im not great with women, but I do have those who I can see interest in.
You will never win 100% of the time with women- nor 50%- mayyybeeee 25%.
Pickup always had me thinking I could get 100%...
haha, how wrong I was. When women become a MUST have- they immediatly become a CANT HAVE.
I wish success to you my friend.
-Leo
I noticed two things.
Not evaluations- because I myself do/did them and am learning to be more natural.
*You think to much. Why do I say this? Well, I used to be just like you. I think alot, I read every PUA thing I could get my hands on. In the end I only dissapointed myself. Why? Because I was not ready.
Some people just mature faster than others. But I assure you their are people who may get women left and right (and rightfully they are more mature in that area), but at the same time they are very weak in others.
My father always said to me (very valuable now that I am beginning to understand) "You can witness what people have accomplished, and acheived; but you have no idea of their internal battles or what they had to overcome."
The fact is we all got sh** dumped on our plate. All of us. Thier are billionaires who cant get a woman to truely love them. Their are moviestars who cant get women to love them.
The first step you honestly need to do is to slow down your thinking. I am just like you or was... with the charts the vision boards the notes of the PUA material.
You want good PUA material. Just read Attraction Code by Vin Di Carlo and let that sink in.
A REAL natual with women, the summit of the venusian arts is naturalism. Men who are good with women feel with their intuition with their internal communication systems.
Like the indians who made the best guides through foregn lands. Did they have maps? No. Purely based on visual cues, and feelings.
Dump the thoughts and honestly learn to calm ones-self.
The thoughts inside your head cant even shake a stick to what the real world can throw at you.
If your doing AM5, I would onestly throw any expectations, charts, calculations and QUANTIFICATIONS out the window.
Id run am5 and then am5 again or am6.
I bet when you return to this thread then- you will almost balk at the overthinking you did.
Im not great with women, but I do have those who I can see interest in.
You will never win 100% of the time with women- nor 50%- mayyybeeee 25%.
Pickup always had me thinking I could get 100%...
haha, how wrong I was. When women become a MUST have- they immediatly become a CANT HAVE.
I wish success to you my friend.
-Leo
