12-29-2013, 05:44 AM
AM5 Stage 1 - Garbage Disposal
25 days later...................
WOW!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! what more can I say?
The amount of improvement I have made this pass month have been incredible. I would not have believed anyone who told me it was possible or that i would be writing these words one day.
Every time I went out in the past I would drink to 1) Feel good in general, 2) Feel good about myself, 3) Be social, 4) Not care what others think, 5) Be fun, 6) and of course our personal favorite; Dutch Courage.
I could not understand the guys in the club that didn't drink.
Sober in the Club, SAY WAAAT!
On Boxing Day I was that guy, sober in a night club.
It was amazing, I had to pinch myself. I unexpectedly went out with my brother and sister, so I wasn't prepared. They had been drinking from earlier in the evening, and we ended up in the club because we could not get alcohol, everywhere was closed.
In the past I could be so self-conscious about my appearance and allow it to dictate my mood but not that night. I don’t think I even thought about my appearance once.
Been sober I noticed a lot of things I didn't notice before, like people interacting and most of it was hilarious watching guy’s strategies for approaching women and the reasons they could get rejected. Mostly they looked sex hungry and tried to initiate kino to fast, blowing they cover.
Then she said “why you so boring”,
Anyway I got approached by this HOT! Tai babe, and am a really critical guy when it comes to looks. She just came and started dancing right in front of me, face to face, eye to eye.
Needless to say that’s why I hate going out, I froze again not knowing what to do or say ( a 1000 thoughts in my mind).
She even said to me “why you so boring”,
I replied "Am tired". (which i was, but still the only excuse that came to mind)
Then I asked her where she was from after a poor attempt to dance with her and have fun.
She replied "Thailand"
That brought back memories; mostly when I was drunk in a situation like that, I would say or do something cleverly stupid, and the women would talk away.
On that particular day her friend pulled her away because they were with some other guys before and she ended up interacting with me when we made eye contact while she was waiting to be attended to at the bar.
I saw her a few times before the night ended with the guy/s they where with before and I just ignored her, because I didn't have anything “interesting” to say. (according to PUA teachings
)
Reflections of a Man-child
I love the fact I didn't let it drag me down into a bad mood like it would have before, or the fact I didn't worry about what people were thinking about me and that situation.
Before I would either have disappeared into a dark corner or put on a I don’t give a F**k drunken attitude.
21 days into my evolution and hot babes are approaching me and I don’t care what people think, something must be working. I still can’t help but think about what Danamerson said
What did it really mean? and was he right in this instance.
25 days later...................
WOW!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! what more can I say?
The amount of improvement I have made this pass month have been incredible. I would not have believed anyone who told me it was possible or that i would be writing these words one day.
Every time I went out in the past I would drink to 1) Feel good in general, 2) Feel good about myself, 3) Be social, 4) Not care what others think, 5) Be fun, 6) and of course our personal favorite; Dutch Courage.
I could not understand the guys in the club that didn't drink.
Sober in the Club, SAY WAAAT!
On Boxing Day I was that guy, sober in a night club.
It was amazing, I had to pinch myself. I unexpectedly went out with my brother and sister, so I wasn't prepared. They had been drinking from earlier in the evening, and we ended up in the club because we could not get alcohol, everywhere was closed.
In the past I could be so self-conscious about my appearance and allow it to dictate my mood but not that night. I don’t think I even thought about my appearance once.
Been sober I noticed a lot of things I didn't notice before, like people interacting and most of it was hilarious watching guy’s strategies for approaching women and the reasons they could get rejected. Mostly they looked sex hungry and tried to initiate kino to fast, blowing they cover.
Then she said “why you so boring”,
Anyway I got approached by this HOT! Tai babe, and am a really critical guy when it comes to looks. She just came and started dancing right in front of me, face to face, eye to eye.
Needless to say that’s why I hate going out, I froze again not knowing what to do or say ( a 1000 thoughts in my mind).
She even said to me “why you so boring”,
I replied "Am tired". (which i was, but still the only excuse that came to mind)
Then I asked her where she was from after a poor attempt to dance with her and have fun.
She replied "Thailand"
That brought back memories; mostly when I was drunk in a situation like that, I would say or do something cleverly stupid, and the women would talk away.
On that particular day her friend pulled her away because they were with some other guys before and she ended up interacting with me when we made eye contact while she was waiting to be attended to at the bar.
I saw her a few times before the night ended with the guy/s they where with before and I just ignored her, because I didn't have anything “interesting” to say. (according to PUA teachings
)Reflections of a Man-child
I love the fact I didn't let it drag me down into a bad mood like it would have before, or the fact I didn't worry about what people were thinking about me and that situation.
Before I would either have disappeared into a dark corner or put on a I don’t give a F**k drunken attitude.
21 days into my evolution and hot babes are approaching me and I don’t care what people think, something must be working. I still can’t help but think about what Danamerson said
(12-24-2013, 10:36 PM)DanAmerson Wrote: @Dee; if I may interject
But I'm belabouring the issue because I know for an absolute fact is that your sticking point will be bogging women down with logical details. You might not "see" it, or think it's true. But you'll eventually realise that. I wish you the best with your journey.
What did it really mean? and was he right in this instance.
