12-25-2013, 08:48 AM
(12-24-2013, 10:36 PM)DanAmerson Wrote: You've done a very good job at having some courage to look at your life exactly as it is, and moreso for posting it on this site.
I appreciate you talking the time to review and help me plan better, as am sure with the input of all the guys on here that have been through they own transformations, i cant go wrong with mine.
I am planning on writing and publishing a book when this is all over as my mum is a published author so i know how the game goes in that regard. Posting on here will help keep me motivated apart from all the other benefits.
(12-24-2013, 10:36 PM)DanAmerson Wrote: But please allow me to tell you; it's also very important to give some importance to the experiencial side of life, also known as the emotional side. You're so analytical about your situation that it probably won't do you any good, given that it's an abstract assessment of your life as it is.
I am not exactly sure what you mean, so i'll try clarifying my position as you have brought up some important points.
(12-24-2013, 02:03 PM)Dee Wrote: So I will tackle my goals from all levels of existence:
Subconscious ~ Unconscious - Subliminal training (most powerful)
Conscious ~ Imagination/Mental – Hypnosis (seeing is believing)
Physical- ~ Experimental – EFT (self-administered), actions in the real world
I have been using the "Emotional Freedom Technique" (EFT) for a few years now and various NLP Techniques. Needless to say its the reason I have the courage to post here.
Before I would have felt like a loser and that people are laughing at my Log and some would be feeling shame and embarrassment for me. Now I don't feel that way even if some people are I have more control over my emotions.
As soon as i complete my NLP Master training I will upgrade to "Faster Emotionally Focused Transformation" (FasterEFT)
Am sure this would help in the real world too, as I could go somewhere discreet to tap away negative reactive feelings, and reprogram my emotional responses in a positive way.
(12-24-2013, 10:36 PM)DanAmerson Wrote: I invite you to consider things like visualising, Natural Grounding, and perhaps Abraham Hicks as a spiritual teacher; she teaches manifesting through reaching for positive emotions.
The hypnosis programs that I have been using usually have Guided Visualization Techniques embedded in them.
The hypnotherapist/coach I will be working with is well versed in many sexual and relationship Spiritual Practices like Tantra and theirs literary 1000s of Visualization Techniques in that system alone.
I find hypnosis to be more effective in that sense, as it not only creates a relaxed receptive mental state before Visualizing but it also ensures you mind stays on task and even gives you post suggestions to follow after.
The One Outlawed Technique
That Natural Grounding has been outlawed by Shannon if I recall correctly, as it may interfere with the AM programming. He says its cool use it after AM thought.
I have been exposed to Rion Williams Natural Game Seminars, his teaching style couldn't hold my attention but the nuggets i received lead me to making my own changes.
I used to be a conspiracy buff a few years ago of Rions stuff sat well with me. The problem I have with Natural Grounding is my ADD it cant watch the same stuff over and over and still have emotional reactions either than boredom, 10,000s of hours of grounding there has to be quicker ways.
I will log the changes of perception he caused in me soon, I would like your feedback on it as i didn't finish his courses and am assuming you did.
If I Can't Perceive it is it real?
Oh Abraham Hicks is a she , I don't like her on a personal level, I don't know why. I just listened to a 2 min clip on youtube and that was it for me.
I am normally open minded but i don't think i'll be giving her a change any time soon.
The Spiritual side of Life
I have a view that my entire makeup or "being" if you like cant be separated and that everything affects everything else. I am my unconscious, superconscious, subconscious, body, soul, spirit etc all the objective "things" seen or unseen.
I get confused with spirituality some times, living a Life of Love (emotion?) boosts up your immune system (psychical/body ) , increases you intelligence (mental?), makes you magnetic (spirit?). Is Love spiritual or a mixture of all things mentioned?
Spiritual Alchemy
Definition: Art of Transmutation of Energies and Transmutation of Self.
The art of Alchemy includes:
Transmuting negative energies into positive
Transmutation of self and self-actualization
Reaching enlightenment
Keeping the body healthy and slowing aging
Studying the principles of energies
Studying the nature of time and creation
I am a dedicated practitioner of Spiritual Alchemy, I will log my improvement too, it a bit hard to measure how much Love you feeling so i thought it would be a waste of my time Benchmarking these emotional/spiritual states.
(12-24-2013, 10:36 PM)DanAmerson Wrote: Also, if I may, the distinction between effort and results must be made as well; the program about meeting 10,000 women is futile if you're not learning from your mistakes in each approach. You could, in theory, meet 200 women and have more results, if you're coming at it properly. A guy could even never approach a woman in his life, and still have better results than a guy that's approached 10,000 times.
I was just looking for a way to measure Social and Seduction Mastery, using the model of "5 on 5". Every 5 women I approach I must have the social and seductive skills to sleep with all 5 ever time no matter what.
The way I am considering achieving "Mastery" is by spending 4 hours a night 5 days a week going out and been social with new people/women ever night. Regardless of the amount of women I meet, my objective will be Mastery through practice. And the Wingman/NLP coach i mentioned will be there to shorten learning curve if I decide to go ahead with this.
If I achieve "Mastery" the day after I compete WM2, trust me you will know, I will write it down in huge bold letters in my Log
I HAVE MASTERED SEDUCTION
What you think? am I still missing something DanAmerson? I was i bit confused about some of your points hope this clarified it a bit more.
(12-21-2013, 03:32 AM)Dee Wrote: “The World changes the instance you change the way you look upon the World”, you have to experience it to fully appreciate it .
I had felt like I could never change anything for the better in my life because I could not change my smoking habit, the day I changed it I felt like I could change everything in my life for the better; everything, now no stone shall go un-turned.