08-25-2019, 08:54 AM
(08-25-2019, 07:56 AM)EvolvingPhoenix Wrote:(08-25-2019, 05:09 AM)Greenduck Wrote: I would like to add to this.
People love each other. They do. Love is wired inside of us and we like other human beings because it’s historically been useful in survival. We are are species who enjoy being with each other. But to expect to be loved is to be needy, and trying to fill a hole inside yourself with what you should find within. And this will never end good. And you will not be able to love others truly when you have a hole within and when you can’t love you can’t receive love.
Respect and trust have to be earned. But love, that one you deserve already. But you need to make yourself feeing able to receive it and not craving it.
Wise choice of words, Greenduck. I just had a new*****torn into me at another thread when I posted this very same content, got some support from some people and basically spat back in their faces for it. And then got torn apart for it by one user.
It seems learning detachment is the key to get out of my situation, but I have a problem with detachment.
Detachment can be healthy when having your own foundation in place, but can become “to much detachment” if only done by will. So healing is the key, and I think you are on the right way of doing so.