Need advice on emotionally connecting fast

[Superbad12]

I generally know how to connect with a woman emotionally, mainly involving letting them speak about themselves most of the time and "being a good listener." What I need advice on is building this emotional connection faster, more quickly, and preferably in a much more sexual direction.

I've read (pickup) books that say things like tell stories with emotional highs and lows that get them imagining themselves in those situations and feeling like you imply you felt, and while this seems to be potentially good advice I don't have a clue how to do this practically, consistently, and sexually directing.

Ideally I would rather the conversation do it naturally, but if there's no other practical and consistent way to do it other than, say, telling an embarrassing sex story or something I'm fine with that too.

Authentic man program (conversations that pop).
Speak to spark arousal- program

Probably Natural seduction for men; 5G 0E can be used for top-up

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fbfFLt1a8Dk