11-21-2015, 11:45 AM
(11-21-2015, 10:25 AM)eternitys_child Wrote: NOOOOOOOOOO MAT don't give in to the resistance!!!!!!! continue with the OF!!!!
it may seem counter intuitive but EMBRACE the suck! the most growth happens when you come out of the horrible slump you're in, as hard as it is to see it while you're going through it!
if for nothing else, then do it at least to contribute to the other guys on here who would benefit from your experience
It may not be resistance. If you read Shannon's post about the spiderweb theory, sometimes these problems are interconnected and need to be taken out at the same time. I merely noticed another potential piece of the puzzle that needs to be addressed and I'm changing my plan of action. If I stuck with OF I wouldn't be tackling the right issues.
It's alright, it's not that drastic of a change. EHPRA has OGSF in it, so I'm still tackling the fear.
If anything this is an important message for a lot of guys doing subs. It's not always resistance. Sometimes you need to reevaluate and not be afraid to do something different.
The problem is there is a fine line between your mind wanting to avoid a subliminal and move onto something else vs your mind indicating that it needs something else. After briefly switching to EHPRA today I can honestly say it's brought up more of those crappy feelings than OF 4G which shows there is a lot more potential benefit with it.
Sorry to abandon ship so early on OF, but I gotta do what's best for me.
