09-12-2015, 10:59 PM
I think we've all been there. I intellectually came to the conclusion that no woman will ever fulfill me a few years ago but I didn't really internalize it until I did my AM6 run. After that I could instinctively just sense in the media I looked at (music, movies, books) and see how men are indoctrinated into this whole thing of worshiping women and becoming needy towards them (Which turns them off big time). I remember how I use to get depressed when I would see my friends on Facebook get a girlfriend/married but now I see how they make those women their entire existence and use all kinds of needy language to describe their relationship. It automatically makes me cringe now to see that.
Now it does suck to realize that what you've been told your entire life was a lie but at the same time you could see it as a opportunity. A opportunity to change things now so you can move your life forward with the right information. The point being that a woman should be a accessory to a man's life but never the main focus to it. Also, if you want any woman who will be a accessory to your life but not the focus your going to need to be a alpha. I've realized that most of the relationship advice you get nowadays is very dated. You might have gotten away with being beta back in the 19th and early 20th century but not now. Back then women had economic incentives (men had more economic opportunities so that automatically raised their value) to have a man in their lives and social reasons (divorce was stigmatized) to stay with a man. That is no longer the case today. So, you have no choice to but to become a Alpha if you want have any women in your life without becoming needy about it.
Of course betas still get women but they usually end up getting used (both in the dating phase and in the marriage phase, if they reach that point) and are then promptly thrown to the curb. That is the new type of reality we live in.
P.S. Found it interesting that we are having this discussion when I just read this article a few days ago. Beta Male. I don't usually read return of kings but I found this article entertaining.
Now it does suck to realize that what you've been told your entire life was a lie but at the same time you could see it as a opportunity. A opportunity to change things now so you can move your life forward with the right information. The point being that a woman should be a accessory to a man's life but never the main focus to it. Also, if you want any woman who will be a accessory to your life but not the focus your going to need to be a alpha. I've realized that most of the relationship advice you get nowadays is very dated. You might have gotten away with being beta back in the 19th and early 20th century but not now. Back then women had economic incentives (men had more economic opportunities so that automatically raised their value) to have a man in their lives and social reasons (divorce was stigmatized) to stay with a man. That is no longer the case today. So, you have no choice to but to become a Alpha if you want have any women in your life without becoming needy about it.
Of course betas still get women but they usually end up getting used (both in the dating phase and in the marriage phase, if they reach that point) and are then promptly thrown to the curb. That is the new type of reality we live in.
P.S. Found it interesting that we are having this discussion when I just read this article a few days ago. Beta Male. I don't usually read return of kings but I found this article entertaining.
"I have no use of disciples. Let everyone be their own true follower" - Nietzsche
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