Superman's Journal 2015 BIABWS, AM6, erpha, Wm2, AOSI

[apollolux]

I love to eat everything and tried to date a vegetarian. It was a challenging experience and did not last too long. If the goal is to just have sex, it wouldn't really matter. For a long term relationship... it will be... challenging.

One cannot choose their allergies, but they can choose to be vegetarian or not. That choice of vegetarianism may also often result in a lot of elitism and being judgmental of meat-eaters, which may or may not be among what you experienced from this girl, 4Kingdoms.

The other stuff, "won't do anal", "is needy and calls me all the time" (your words) are beliefs/personality traits that can be changed.

Exactly. The dealbreaker aspect about the things I listed and the vegetarian example is primarily about if she's extremely resistant to changing things that can be changed, either due to stubbornness or some other reason.

My point is that something like allergies that is as unchangeable as, say, base eye color should not be a relationship dealbreaker.