03-27-2015, 02:16 PM
Drop the coin
http://youtu.be/62o345dp_fc
Within 24 hours I experienced both an effusively cheerful and an annoyingly whiny moment from my boss, both directed at me for things I did. It reminds me of a Peak Potential seminar where T. Harv Eker preaches to not only let the bad comments roll off your back, but the good ones as well. Just like something bad might have happened to predispose them to being nasty to you, something good might have happened to predispose them in the opposite direction. You thus can't let yourself be affected by the good side of the coin without handing your control to the bad side as well. In the end, take what objective value exists in the comments, toss the coin aside, and continue to take control your mood from the inside.
http://youtu.be/62o345dp_fc
Within 24 hours I experienced both an effusively cheerful and an annoyingly whiny moment from my boss, both directed at me for things I did. It reminds me of a Peak Potential seminar where T. Harv Eker preaches to not only let the bad comments roll off your back, but the good ones as well. Just like something bad might have happened to predispose them to being nasty to you, something good might have happened to predispose them in the opposite direction. You thus can't let yourself be affected by the good side of the coin without handing your control to the bad side as well. In the end, take what objective value exists in the comments, toss the coin aside, and continue to take control your mood from the inside.
