So here's an update on what's been going on behind the scenes on my end.
Been running X4A-1000 at the specific settings that were indicated to work best specifically for my particular woman (3 loops instead of 4, since she will apparently feel like she'll have to compete otherwise, and will simply not try), and it has not failed to impress. During the time we have been testing it I have noted a number of interesting effects on me, and her, and others as well that I will detail here.
First, it seems to be affecting me according to what it's supposed to be doing to others, i.e. makes me very aroused. This has also resulted in me being much more interested and engaged in sex and much more comfortable with and willing to initiate sex, apparently without much thought. My usual is that I focus so much on business (and so does she) that sex doesn't get prioritized. Now, it gets prioritized and is quite a natural desire, as if I was 20-30 years younger than I am, except it has also apparently made me my inner seductio0n artist re-emerge, and he tends to get what he wants.
My girlfriend and I make it a point to go on a date at least once a month. A date always means we have a nicer than usual dinner together, we spend quality time focused on each other, and we try to do something out of the ordinary for entertainment purposes. In the beginning of the relationship, I made a point of including sex each time we went on a date, so now she knows that on date night, we are going to have sex unless one of us doesn't feel good or has some other reason for not having sex, and usually we just don't have date night if that is the case anyway. This helps us keep sex in our relationship even when we get too focused on business during a particular month, which occasionally happens if we are dealing with a particularly challenging thing to accomplish, such as a big build or something else that requires a serious, dedicated commitment of time, focus and energy.
About 60-70% of the time, I'm the one who "asks her out on a date", but this month, she asked me out. What surprised me was that she asked me out while she was menstruating, which she usually doesn't do because then I can't taste the tuna taco, which she very much enjoys. But this time, she decided that we would just have sex for my pleasure, which is really unusual because neither of us prefers it when only I achieve an orgasm. We enjoy sharing pleasures more, so we usually wait until we can both have a good time. But this time, she insisted that I have a good time, and got in my favorite position. So we did that and she was most definitely having a much better time than usual, and after she said that she had fun. Usually if she does that it's a quickie meant to take care of me, but she doesn't enjoy it much because we didn't take the ime to get her aroused first. This time, she was ready to go, no foreplay needed.
The sex usually isn't anywhere near as good when we have quickies, because a lot of my arousal and pleasure comes from her arousal and pleasure. This time, because she was so aroused and having such a good time, I had a very good time also, and that was very unusual.
Then we went to a movie, and when we came home, we were laying in bed tired, talking and I started wanting to make her feel good. So without even thinking about it, I started touching her and kissing her and telling her that it disappoints me when she won't let me tease her and play with her before sex, referring to the quickie we had earlier that day. She asked what I meant, and I demonstrated, and she was starting to get upset because she was getting aroused and presumed that I wasn't going to please her, so she wanted me to stop. Normally I will stop, because I don't like being teased without satisfaction, so I don't do that to her. But that night, I decided not to, and instead I kept going. After a little while of this she said to me that she needed sex, and she decided to use a method for getting to the finish line that she hadn't used in a long time. It takes a while, and requires a lot of endurance on my part, but I wanted her to join me at the finish line, so I did it without complaining about the "I'm no longer in shape for this because she never asks for it" pains. When she did mreach the finish line, I could tell by the way she sounded that this orgasm wasn't like the ones she usually has, and when she was finished, she put me inside her. To my amazement, I finished the race a second time, when I had been focused entirely on getting her to the finish line. Usually if I focus on her too much I don't relax enough to finish the race myself, but this was no sweat, I was there with her.
Both of us had exceptional results, and she proceeded to tell me that that was the best orgasm she had ever had. We have been together 5.5 years now and I've spared no effort to make sure she has had a good time, so to hear that after all this time was very surprising.
Day before yesterday I came home from meditating alone in the woods and I was aroused. She was too tired, she said, and what I did next really surprised me. Without a thought, I proceeded to take off her shirt, have her lay on her stomach and kissed her back in a place I have never kissed her before, as if I just knew that was the magic spot. This turned her on instantly and overwhelmingly, and within less than 2 minutes she was inviting me to share pleasures. Not only did neither of us know she was responsive that way from that spot, but also, she's never gone from too tired to inviting me to share pleasures, never mind within 2 minutes! And once again, both of us had exceptional finish line experiences.
During this time I have also had short periods of time where I stopped using X4A, either because I was just tired, or because I got sick. Both times that happened, I was clearly able to feel and see a difference on the 2nd day off. At one point I decided I was going to stop using it because I though that certain females I had encountered multiple times while using it were getting a bit too interested, but GF and I decided that we like what it does for our relationship so much that we're going to keep using it. It has improved our relationship in multiple ways, and not just sexually, but also in terms of intimacy, openness, bonding and trust. I'm impressed enough that I'm going to be building a version aimed at couples.
As for the effects on other women, I now have one server who has decided GF and I are "family" and she is trying to get us to have kids "so she can have grandkids", and she is slowly working her way closer and closer to us. Another server has done something similar, but more in a friendship direction, and has invited me to demo advanced stress relief at her home when she gets a little time. There are various people in food service whom we know and see on a semi-regular basis, like some of the girls (I say girls because I believe they're between 17 and 20) who work at an ice cream shop, who are taking quite the shine to me.
So X4A has proven to be most useful, effective and valuable for me, and I'm not ready to stop using it just yet.
And if you're wondering why you're not getting results like mine... here are some possible reasons.
1. You're not exposing the person long enough and or frequently enough.
2. The person doesn't feel like they have the freedom, privacy or relationship with you to allow them to express their desires.
3. You're not socializing enough.
4. You're not letting them know you're open to their interest, efforts or advances.
You don't have to do everything all the time, but you also can't sit around and ignore everyone who responds, because then they'll presume that either you're gay or uninterested, and there's no point in trying. Socialize, be friendly, be playful, let them get to know you, and try to make situations and atmosphere where they can express themselves in ways that move things forward. Then acknowledge their expressions, and let them know it's okay, and you can also help things by accepting their advances and sometimes making your own!
Been running X4A-1000 at the specific settings that were indicated to work best specifically for my particular woman (3 loops instead of 4, since she will apparently feel like she'll have to compete otherwise, and will simply not try), and it has not failed to impress. During the time we have been testing it I have noted a number of interesting effects on me, and her, and others as well that I will detail here.
First, it seems to be affecting me according to what it's supposed to be doing to others, i.e. makes me very aroused. This has also resulted in me being much more interested and engaged in sex and much more comfortable with and willing to initiate sex, apparently without much thought. My usual is that I focus so much on business (and so does she) that sex doesn't get prioritized. Now, it gets prioritized and is quite a natural desire, as if I was 20-30 years younger than I am, except it has also apparently made me my inner seductio0n artist re-emerge, and he tends to get what he wants.
My girlfriend and I make it a point to go on a date at least once a month. A date always means we have a nicer than usual dinner together, we spend quality time focused on each other, and we try to do something out of the ordinary for entertainment purposes. In the beginning of the relationship, I made a point of including sex each time we went on a date, so now she knows that on date night, we are going to have sex unless one of us doesn't feel good or has some other reason for not having sex, and usually we just don't have date night if that is the case anyway. This helps us keep sex in our relationship even when we get too focused on business during a particular month, which occasionally happens if we are dealing with a particularly challenging thing to accomplish, such as a big build or something else that requires a serious, dedicated commitment of time, focus and energy.
About 60-70% of the time, I'm the one who "asks her out on a date", but this month, she asked me out. What surprised me was that she asked me out while she was menstruating, which she usually doesn't do because then I can't taste the tuna taco, which she very much enjoys. But this time, she decided that we would just have sex for my pleasure, which is really unusual because neither of us prefers it when only I achieve an orgasm. We enjoy sharing pleasures more, so we usually wait until we can both have a good time. But this time, she insisted that I have a good time, and got in my favorite position. So we did that and she was most definitely having a much better time than usual, and after she said that she had fun. Usually if she does that it's a quickie meant to take care of me, but she doesn't enjoy it much because we didn't take the ime to get her aroused first. This time, she was ready to go, no foreplay needed.
The sex usually isn't anywhere near as good when we have quickies, because a lot of my arousal and pleasure comes from her arousal and pleasure. This time, because she was so aroused and having such a good time, I had a very good time also, and that was very unusual.
Then we went to a movie, and when we came home, we were laying in bed tired, talking and I started wanting to make her feel good. So without even thinking about it, I started touching her and kissing her and telling her that it disappoints me when she won't let me tease her and play with her before sex, referring to the quickie we had earlier that day. She asked what I meant, and I demonstrated, and she was starting to get upset because she was getting aroused and presumed that I wasn't going to please her, so she wanted me to stop. Normally I will stop, because I don't like being teased without satisfaction, so I don't do that to her. But that night, I decided not to, and instead I kept going. After a little while of this she said to me that she needed sex, and she decided to use a method for getting to the finish line that she hadn't used in a long time. It takes a while, and requires a lot of endurance on my part, but I wanted her to join me at the finish line, so I did it without complaining about the "I'm no longer in shape for this because she never asks for it" pains. When she did mreach the finish line, I could tell by the way she sounded that this orgasm wasn't like the ones she usually has, and when she was finished, she put me inside her. To my amazement, I finished the race a second time, when I had been focused entirely on getting her to the finish line. Usually if I focus on her too much I don't relax enough to finish the race myself, but this was no sweat, I was there with her.
Both of us had exceptional results, and she proceeded to tell me that that was the best orgasm she had ever had. We have been together 5.5 years now and I've spared no effort to make sure she has had a good time, so to hear that after all this time was very surprising.
Day before yesterday I came home from meditating alone in the woods and I was aroused. She was too tired, she said, and what I did next really surprised me. Without a thought, I proceeded to take off her shirt, have her lay on her stomach and kissed her back in a place I have never kissed her before, as if I just knew that was the magic spot. This turned her on instantly and overwhelmingly, and within less than 2 minutes she was inviting me to share pleasures. Not only did neither of us know she was responsive that way from that spot, but also, she's never gone from too tired to inviting me to share pleasures, never mind within 2 minutes! And once again, both of us had exceptional finish line experiences.
During this time I have also had short periods of time where I stopped using X4A, either because I was just tired, or because I got sick. Both times that happened, I was clearly able to feel and see a difference on the 2nd day off. At one point I decided I was going to stop using it because I though that certain females I had encountered multiple times while using it were getting a bit too interested, but GF and I decided that we like what it does for our relationship so much that we're going to keep using it. It has improved our relationship in multiple ways, and not just sexually, but also in terms of intimacy, openness, bonding and trust. I'm impressed enough that I'm going to be building a version aimed at couples.
As for the effects on other women, I now have one server who has decided GF and I are "family" and she is trying to get us to have kids "so she can have grandkids", and she is slowly working her way closer and closer to us. Another server has done something similar, but more in a friendship direction, and has invited me to demo advanced stress relief at her home when she gets a little time. There are various people in food service whom we know and see on a semi-regular basis, like some of the girls (I say girls because I believe they're between 17 and 20) who work at an ice cream shop, who are taking quite the shine to me.
So X4A has proven to be most useful, effective and valuable for me, and I'm not ready to stop using it just yet.
And if you're wondering why you're not getting results like mine... here are some possible reasons.
1. You're not exposing the person long enough and or frequently enough.
2. The person doesn't feel like they have the freedom, privacy or relationship with you to allow them to express their desires.
3. You're not socializing enough.
4. You're not letting them know you're open to their interest, efforts or advances.
You don't have to do everything all the time, but you also can't sit around and ignore everyone who responds, because then they'll presume that either you're gay or uninterested, and there's no point in trying. Socialize, be friendly, be playful, let them get to know you, and try to make situations and atmosphere where they can express themselves in ways that move things forward. Then acknowledge their expressions, and let them know it's okay, and you can also help things by accepting their advances and sometimes making your own!
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The scientist has a question to find an answer for. The pseudo-scientist has an answer to find a question for. ~ "Failure is the path of least persistence." - Chinese Fortune Cookie ~ Logic left. Emotion right. But thinking, straight ahead. ~ Sperate supra omnia in valorem. (The value of trust is above all else.) ~ Meowsomeness!
