Seem to be a good mentor there. The thing with red pill theories is that they suppose all human beings are a hundred percent rational. That not the fact. People, including girls, are also highly emotional in the way they make decisions in their lives. Therefore a guy who can make a girl laugh, or just are relaxed enough to have a normal conversation and enjoy her company, is attractive to her. He doesn’t have to be super alpha with dominant body language but can just be a normal dude and still find a girl who like him and is attracted by him. Obsessing to much about stuff like that can really throw spanners in the works for yourself and take away your greatest gift, to be human with others and with girls. Much of your ability to atttract others is just to be “normal” and not overthinking the way you interact with others.
Btw - are you on nofap? That have helped me a lot.
Btw - are you on nofap? That have helped me a lot.