06-04-2016, 12:07 AM
In terms of goals, I understand the subs need to have a clear goal to be effective. I've also observed that it is really unnatural for me to be that single-minded in my life for extended periods at a time (3 - 12+ months). Another observation is that I don't care to put a lot of conscious effort into chasing tail these days - though this could change, of course. So, if I put most of my conscious effort into my job, hobbies, and personal development, AND I run a sub such as BASE, then I will completely block out any dating life, and will not make any progress there. So a sort of balance could (maybe) be achieved by consciously working on other goals, and concurrently running a sub that has a strong dating component. Because I do want my dating life to "take care of it itself", so this might accomplish just that. And subs are positive programming, so there's bound to be spillover into other areas of my life too. Or E2 will work on everything, makes everything a little lighter, a little easier. I do feel somewhat lazy and in observation mode while on it, though. No strong desire to engage in challenges, because I'm already quite happy. Because I don't need them to be happy. But.. bored? I want to become more engaged again - but maybe more just for having something exciting to do than the actual "results".
Thoughts, opinions and beliefs subject to change without prior notice.