Have you no shame? - OGSF 5G | EPRHA 2.0

[4Kingdoms]

Not that I'm interested in going out or approaching at all at the moment, I've got other things on my mind.

When I read this sentence, I feel you are trying to justify a reason not to socialize.

I guess much of my social anxiety, and especially avoidance of going out, has to do with that inflated ego being afraid its going to die, because I'll never be able to live up to those expectations, and I'd have to face reality. And its not just about women, but social situations in general.

From what I understand about what you are saying. You go out to go out. I used to do the same thing until someone invited me to something I really enjoyed. Then I looked forward to going out!!

Here are two websites that help you find, connect with people that have the same interests with you.
When you already have something in common... it becomes a game changer!!
http://meetin.org/
http://www.meetup.com/