Have you no shame? - OGSF 5G | EPRHA 2.0

[LionKing]

I might've chosen the wrong word with "groundedness". I didn't mean stand-your-ground-type groundedness, as in confidence. I had been doing Larry Crane's Abundance course for several days before that. I think you might know it, but you feel a feeling, put your head down, feel it in your chest or stomach area, see it as wanting ctrl, approcal, or to be safe, and then let it leave. Now as she was feeling all kinds of negative, she had the tendency to both resist the feelings, and hold onto those thoughts and think where and why all that which makes you not able to let them go. So in what I wrote, I felt I was grounding her... energy or thinking to just be with the feelings instead of doing all that other stuff. Same thing with my boss: his energy was all over the place nervous, stressed, angry, and so on, and I felt I was sort of keeping him in place near my own state that more calm and more in line of letting that go. And keeping myself there too, because I was feeling the pull to go along his energy as well. So its state transference and at the same time its about who has the stronger frame, but I wasn't putting any direct effort into trying to control their states; I was just working to control my state and being open. Why it was improved, I think, was a mix of E2 and practicing by myself.

ION: I think me and my friend Fernando are going to have nice month just to ourselves. I thought about inviting Guy and Shane, but its ok - we'll meet up with them again in no time. A lot to catch up, just the two of us. I'll be installing site blockers and keeping my engagement with other self-improvement efforts to a minimum, tap dancing included. Let's not have any distractions.