04-03-2016, 01:31 AM
(04-02-2016, 05:32 PM)SargeMaximus Wrote: You don't come to porn at all? That's crazy. I envy you. I actually wish I wouldn't come at all unless I decided to.
Just stop and walk away :) I decided at some point that its not worth the loss of drive and motivation push those drops out at the end - its really just a few a seconds of pleasure. Go do something else. Blue balls can and will happen, but its just uncomfortable and doesn't last that long. It helps to shift the focus to enjoyment of the energy vs. expecting the release, and to be satisfied with the just the process. Sure it helps with actual sex too, but it does make me pretty sensitive if I haven't blown it for a full week prior. Combine that with a new girl, and yeah.. not gonna go fast on that 1st round, lol.
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