Have you no shame? - OGSF 5G | EPRHA 2.0

[LionKing]

Sweet. You seem to be doing much better than you give yourself credit for.

Thanks. Fundamentally I do think I'm fine and quite capable etc, but sub-wise I tend to focus on what needs to be worked, i.e. what's "wrong" with me. Plus, I've been raised not to brag, so when writing anything like that I always have to triple check it its not too much for me. I have been getting praises like from her before, e.g. "you just always really know how to handle me" in a case where she got fed up with her friend, and "omg, you're just so sexy last Saturday" :P

To be fair to myself about my last post, I'd definitely be easier to me "emotionally available" if I was content in doing/being what I'm supposed to do/be. Usually what I want and think is against SP, so I've come to expect either a shaming or a guilt trip response to "normal" people asking me about things. A full answer to why I think/feel whatever I do in some situation would often require me to give them quite personal information when their facial expression and often tonality implies that they're not going to agree with me anyway. But I still expect myself to be quite fine with this. Any reaction of mine is still caused by my GSF and whatever other factors, which I intend to deal with in my time.

By the way, make sure your women know that your authority and your sex require compensation. You really can't just invest all that time in providing a woman with authority and giving her sex without getting something in return. They need to do things for you, pay you, entertain you, bear you children, help your situation, or whatever it takes to keep your attention long enough to give them those 2 extremely valuable things.

Dude, you're scaring me... no bearing children! :D But you've got a point, I've been slacking on that a bit. As a Christmas present, she did make me a surprise meal and she'd bought us movie tickets for the same night. For food, we'll usually agree on smt before via text and then each will bring about half of the groceries. Sometimes I'll ask her to get me smt I need on her way to my place. Pay me :D What's your rate for a drop of white stuff? Her being a student, 50/50 is already way in my favor. What sort of other compensation do you require?

I just don't know how one goes from meet to lay, and how the paying for stuff works.

I haven't been meeting anyone totally new for quite a while. But for me it was almost always us going for 1 beer, or equivalent, then it that went well we'd go to another place for another, and if it was still on, we'd "go somewhere else" and then I'd just start walking towards my place. But that's the rare occasion, usually I'd call it the night after drink #1 or #2. Paying was never a problem for the ones that ended well; we'd both just pay for our own. Thinking back, if she was hesitant about paying or getting smt like tea, then nothing really came out of those dates. But its only 1 drink, so sometimes I'd offer to pay just because I could.