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[Tao374]

She sounds pretty manipulative, especially if she stopped having sex with you as you grew in yourself. That's a definite attempt to try to control you by withholding sex, it's something I really hate and have refused to accept from girls.

It's actually a good sign from what you wrote, now you can attract someone whos more positive for you. I'm glad you didn't put up with her bs.

Benjamin, I agree with you also.  I hate being manipulated but after reading this I need to clarify my post.  She didn't stop having sex with me, she just stopped enjoying it and refused to do anything extra besides just laying there like a zombie.  After we broke up she said she hated that I thought that I deserved to have a HJ or BJ just for being a good partner.  I'm not sure if this was manipulation or just lack of effort / loss of connection.

People who are low awareness and/or very emotional will not always be trying to manipulate you when the sex stops, Ben.  Sometimes they just don't feel the right connection anymore.  I personally can't have sex with a woman I am not connected to the right way emotionally, which has confused the hell out of some physically very beautiful women who were used to getting whatever they wanted from any man they came across.  However, for me, physical beauty is something I consider, but it isn't the primary key.  People who come to believe they are the gift to humanity because everyone kisses their butt trying to get some from them have to do better than "But I'm beautiful!" to get me in bed. 

I think in this case it was most likely that he was growing and she was not, and they no longer had the right level of resonance for her to feel connected and supported the right way.

That seems like the case.  I want to make money and focus on my career and she wants to have a family.  I want to focus on my health and she wants to stay out all night.  Etc.  Also, after talking to her I realized I used to tease her saying things like don't worry you will have a real job one day, which I didn't mean any harm by but that effected things.