08-22-2015, 11:00 PM
Reading my post again I agree that it does sound like I'm making excuses, but I do believe that while her allergy is a physical trait that can't be changed it could cause a problem if I were pursuing a relationship.
I'm still going to try though, but for a purely physical relationship at first and then see how limiting her allergy is. Due to my religion I can only have seafood at almost 80 percent of restaurants or food establishments, and from her explanation of her allergy it's a pretty severe reaction which makes her very ill for an entire day.
It might be picky but to me if I ignore her allergy that's like saying I don't care if she only has one arm and one leg.
And 4kingdoms, I also find myself using stupid excuses like the ones you mentioned to disqualify myself or other women before even trying. I don't quite know why I do it ,maybe anxiety, maybe confidence , maybe fear of rejection, it could be anything which is why I'm going to run AM6 again
I'm still going to try though, but for a purely physical relationship at first and then see how limiting her allergy is. Due to my religion I can only have seafood at almost 80 percent of restaurants or food establishments, and from her explanation of her allergy it's a pretty severe reaction which makes her very ill for an entire day.
It might be picky but to me if I ignore her allergy that's like saying I don't care if she only has one arm and one leg.
And 4kingdoms, I also find myself using stupid excuses like the ones you mentioned to disqualify myself or other women before even trying. I don't quite know why I do it ,maybe anxiety, maybe confidence , maybe fear of rejection, it could be anything which is why I'm going to run AM6 again
