SargeMaximus: Time to Heal (DMSI 3.2A)

[SargeMaximus]

You guys, there are PM's for furthering discussions that I don't want in my thread. Thank you.

[SargeMaximus]

REALLY want to run ver. B next week. I think that;s prolly resistance but maybe not. So hard to know.

It shouldn't matter, right? I mean, if you're executing, neither version is better than the other, am I right?

So yeah, prolly resistance.

ION, that 25 y.o. claims she is out of town this next week. My main takeaway there is that I need to make the meetings less committal and more chill. Like, instead of saying "Hey let's meet. I have X and Y day off" say "what's your schedule like?" then when she says "I'm pretty busy with XYZ this week" you can say "I hear you. Have time for a quick coffee on X day?"

IME that works and they say "Yeah that should be fine "

The key is to make it no big obligation. Just a quick coffee. Once your in the date, you can work your magic.

It's like in sales.

[SargeMaximus]

So I'm also reading "Money: Master the Game" by Tony Robbins.

Very good book. Now that I'm making money I can focus on putting it to good use.

Anyhow, as always, some amazing insights from Tony that I think could help in the development of DMSI. Observe:

The issue talked about on pages 39 & 40 regards organ donation. They found that some countries were low (like Germany with only 12% agree to donate their organs) while other countries (like Germany's neighbor Austria) were much higher (99%!).

The defining factor they found was not religion, culture, or what have you but simply this:

"In countries with the lowest donor rates, like [Germany], there is a small box that says "check here if you want to participate in the organ donor program." In countries with the highest, rates, like [Austria] the form says "Check here if you DON'T want to participate in the organ donor program."

That's the secret! Nobody likes to check boxes!"

Fascinating, isn't it? How do I see this applying to DMSI? Observe again:

"If a problem is too overwhelming, we tend to just freeze and do nothing. Or we do what's been decided for us. It's not our fault. It's the way we're wired. The problem with organ donation is not that people don't care, it's that they care too much. The decision is difficult and complicated, and many of us don't know what to do. "and because we have no idea what to do, we just stick with whatever has been chosen for us." says Ariely."

In my experience with the 8.5 I finger-blasted, I definitely experienced her thinking too much. Perhaps she cared too much.

In my own experience, I know that if I have a good script (like in sales) things are so much easier and successful than if I have to consider too many factors. Likewise, if you present too much info to a customer, they will shut down and "need to think about it" whereas if you streamline and simplify the experience, they will buy far more readily the exact same product.

Anyhow, I thought that was some good stuff to share.

[SargeMaximus]

ASRB break tonight. I'm going to stay off DMSI till Wednesday night because I may be sleeping over at 6.5's house Tuesday

[SargeMaximus]

Got a date set up with a 25 y.o. 7.5-8 for this Wednesday. Just gotta keep sarging.

[SargeMaximus]

Gonna see the 6.5 tomorrow. She said to me in text "Bring fruit loops" XD Translation: "you're staying the night"

ION, got cocky and IDGAF with online chatting and lost a ton of hot girls today.

[SargeMaximus]

Hey guys. So last night I went to that 6.5's house. We watched thor ragnarok then got hot and heavy. At first, nothing was happening and that was because I was waiting for "mutual escalation" to happen. Well it didn't so I pulled her on top of me and we made out on the couch. Took her shirt and bra off. I got hard, she said "I think it would be more comfortable in my bed" so we went there. Everything was looking good. After a while I took off her pants and she put on a condom for me. Blew me and then we kept making out. I tried to get my hard dick into her pussy but was having trouble finding it (she's a bit overweight), so I got on top and began to finger her. I went slowly and she was clearly enjoying it tho she didn't make any noises. Just clutching me with her legs and thrusting her hips.

I got bored of that since she wasn't cumming as fast as the 8.5 I was with and not making any noise. I was also losing my erection so I tried to penetrate her but still couldn't because my dick was only half mast at this point.

She's like "I know the problem, you're too tall" and she gets up and goes into doggy position. Well, I still try to find her pussy and cant then, because I'm holding my dick this whole time, I cum. :/

So I tell her "Ah, you made me cum already" she's like "what?" I'm like "yeah, you're too hot. I'll cleanup and put on another condom and be ready to go in a few hours"

needless to say it was done from there. I cleaned up and we lay in bed talking but no more sexual stuff. My dick was limp. maybe 30% engorged so it was big but in no way solid enough to penetrate. It was like that for the rest of the night till we "went to sleep"

Well, I couldn't sleep, and I'm pretty sure she couldn't either. It was torture, I was laying perfectly still focusing on my breathing trying to let my body sleep but it wouldn't happen. I don't know how long I lay like that. Maybe I fell asleep for a bit.

She woke up and went to the bathroom, and we talked a bunch. Then back to sleep. This happened a few times.

I had a boner at one point and I was like "oh shit. There's activity down there again" and she was like "poor sarge…" FML

so yeah, nothing happened. Then I woke up at one point after a very hot wet dream. I had spunked in my pants and some of it was on the bedding. I told her cause she was awake "you gotta clean these sheets... I had a wet dream" and she was just like "dear god" lol

We laughed about it but you know.

Anyhow, she assured me she doesn't want kids and is on IUD.

In the morning we ate fruit loops and talked a bit, then I left. I said "I had fun" and she said "yeah, me too" I kissed her once and as I was leaving she was like "talk to you soon".

Meh.

The ED and PE are big issues for me now. I mean, I even had ED with the 8.5.

Anyhow, that was that. :/

[4Kingdoms]

The 4-Hour Body: An Uncommon Guide to Rapid Fat-Loss, Incredible Sex, and Becoming Superhuman
by Timothy Ferriss

There is a chapter on sex positions, I am dying to try!! Hopefully next week when my schedule clears!!
There is also a chapter on how to increase testosterone... aka BONER!!

[Zane]

I guess we need PE and ED modules in DMSI also...

[SargeMaximus]

I guess we need PE and ED modules in DMSI also...

I think part of it might be excessive boners are damaging my dick. Seems like I always have erections at night and I have some pain in that area so it could be my dick needs to repair more than anything. I'ma get it checked just to make sure.

[Zane]

I guess we need PE and ED modules in DMSI also...

I think part of it might be excessive boners are damaging my dick. Seems like I always have erections at night and I have some pain in that area so it could be my dick needs to repair more than anything. I'ma get it checked just to make sure.

U mean erections so hard that starts to hurt.. Like insane.. Yeah. I remember having those few times.. But didn't worry about them.. Hardly ever happen anymore

[SargeMaximus]

I guess we need PE and ED modules in DMSI also...

I think part of it might be excessive boners are damaging my dick. Seems like I always have erections at night and I have some pain in that area so it could be my dick needs to repair more than anything. I'ma get it checked just to make sure.

U mean erections so hard that starts to hurt.. Like insane.. Yeah. I remember having those few times.. But didn't worry about them.. Hardly ever happen anymore

Yeah I've had those, now if I start to get an erection it hurts which is why I think it's damaged, that and the erection isn't as strong.

[Tigerismyspirit]

Bro, I lost a super hot Polish MILF last year as I was unable to get my dong up after coming during the foreplay. About a week later, I went down on my friend S and in the back of my mind I was continuously worried about coming too soon. That shit still terrifies me. When I had a girlfriend, I used to have this problem too. Our sexual energy is too localized around the penile area, I think. I would definitely advocate for PE and ED modules getting added to DMSI.

[SargeMaximus]

Bro, I lost a super hot Polish MILF last year as I was unable to get my dong up after coming during the foreplay. About a week later, I went down on my friend S and in the back of my mind I was continuously worried about coming too soon. That shit still terrifies me. When I had a girlfriend, I used to have this problem too. Our sexual energy is too localized around the penile area, I think. I would definitely advocate for PE and ED modules getting added to DMSI.

I hear you man. I'm thinking why I lost the 8.5 is because I didn't get fully hard for her. She rejected me because my body rejected hers.

Thing is, if I was able to take my time like when I watch porn, I'd be able to get super hard for these girls. But things happen so fast in sex.

Oh well, I'm not too worried. Maybe I'll just jack off like 6 hours before meeting a girl I intend to f*ck. First I gotta make sure my dick isn't damaged tho.

But I agree with you wholeheartedly: PE and ED modules. I want to be one of these guys that just can't cum, but still feel the pleasure. That would be awesome. Leave the cumming for wet dreams.

ION, more online shenanigans. Another girl messaged me, then stopped responding. Something tells me this won't be the last of her.

The 25 y.o. I was going to see tonight never got back to my "are we still on for tonight?" message. I saw she was online today too so I'm just not going to even bother. If she goes and gets stood up by me she can come back and apologize.

Got another girl interested in me. If the date pans out (we're meeting sunday) I'll post the convo from online to show you guys how I did it.

Haven't gotten any texts from the 6.5 Not sure if she wants to see me again or no. Prolly not. But you never know.

It's just a shame about the PE because this girl was definitely wanting to have sex with me, it's not even a question yet... because no P in V, I can't say I f*cked her. ><

What else? Hmm. Oh yeah, I get paid this Friday. I'm excited. It's gonna be huge. To reward myself I'm going to buy an iPhone 8.

EDIT: Oh yes and one more thing: I'm totally seeing sex as no big deal now.

All I need is to get to the point where I can transfer that onto any woman I choose and get them all as loose and chill as the 8.5 was. She was the ideal type of woman because it was about sex from the get go and there was no playing games or pretending we didn't want to f*ck. I just messed it up is all.