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SargeMaximus: Time to Heal (DMSI 3.2A) - SargeMaximus - 03-28-2018
What's up guys? Hope you're all doing well!
So last night I started DMSI ver. A
First notables were increased sense of self-care and this morning I'm getting my ducks in a row (basically some things I needed to get done but just put off forever).
Looking forward to a month of solid course-correction and healing. Women aren't my concern for the next 30 days. Sales, and healthy habits will be. Once I'm good there, I can think about girls.
Replaced porn with mobile games like Cash Inc. and Idle Miner.
RE: SargeMaximus: Time to Heal (DMSI 3.2A) - SargeMaximus - 03-30-2018
Today in sales a woman in her car stopped beside me and motioned me to come over to her driver side.
When I got there she said "I've seen you walking all over [city]. I just want to say I think you work really hard."
I was like "Thank you so much! I'm Sarge!" we shook hands and she was like "Ok I just wanted to say that" then she pulled away and drove off.
Pretty cool.
Other than that, nothing in sales today. I'm moving towards long-term sales. Where TRUE selling comes into play. Up until now it may be entirely possible I was just getting lucky.
Time will tell.
RE: SargeMaximus: Time to Heal (DMSI 3.2A) - SargeMaximus - 03-31-2018
Got back to my roots in sales today and got an easy one.
I'm telling myself it's easy BUT, if I had not been in the right energy/headspace, would the guy even had wanted to deal with me? I say no.
In the same way, I'm not trying to overcomplicate things. Easy sales are just as valid as difficult ones.
ION, interesting thing happened with a customer. Basically one of the guys I know offered him a deal but when I went to the guys house, he offered me the sale. Long story short, customer made it a condition of the sale for my co-worker that, if he wanted the sale, he had to split the commission with me. How cool is that?
Predictably, co-worker agreed but is now trying to say he did all this work and maybe deserves more. I never got back to him on it and he's gone for the weekend.
I'll wait to talk to the customer to hear his side of things, if it was a difficult sale like my co-worker claims, I'm fine with taking a bit less than half.
#PowerOf DMSI
RE: SargeMaximus: Time to Heal (DMSI 3.2A) - Adrien Silva - 04-02-2018
what pheromones was you using with b version?
are you still using pheromones with A version?
RE: SargeMaximus: Time to Heal (DMSI 3.2A) - SargeMaximus - 04-02-2018
(04-02-2018, 11:19 AM)Adrien Silva Wrote: what pheromones was you using with b version?
are you still using pheromones with A version?
Those are good questions.
In my B journal, whenever I used a pheromone I mentioned it. I used Hypnotica Social, Dirty Primitive, and Bad Wolf at various times.
So far, I've not used any during my ver. A run.
ION, tonight is my 7th night so tomorrow night I won't be listening, then I will the night after.
RE: SargeMaximus: Time to Heal (DMSI 3.2A) - findingme - 04-02-2018
Sarge,
I am curious, and seeking to be considerate too. You've been here a number of years, and you have had a bit of history using Shannon's subs.
What are you seeking to heal--considering your thread's title? What areas of your life do you still feel "unhealed" in?
I ask simply since I still have sexual shame and fear, and I've been encouraged to use DMSI specifically for this. For me, shame is a BIG issue. Today, while riding around for work, I saw 5 late teens walking down their private dirt road, all in bikinis walking towards the beach. Their backs were to us. We drove by......and I turned my head away while driving by to avoid eye contact. I knew they were looking for attention, but something just didn't feel right. I felt responsible, but I felt a shame which grew for a while. I went into a shame spiral, so to speak. Shame is a nasty b****.
I also imagined having DMSI hit me--feeling much more confident about myself. Not that I'd do anything with these girls, but feeling confident to flirt, without GSF.
What are you using DMSI-A for?
RE: SargeMaximus: Time to Heal (DMSI 3.2A) - SargeMaximus - 04-02-2018
(04-02-2018, 03:08 PM)findingme Wrote: Sarge,
I am curious, and seeking to be considerate too. You've been here a number of years, and you have had a bit of history using Shannon's subs.
What are you seeking to heal--considering your thread's title? What areas of your life do you still feel "unhealed" in?
I ask simply since I still have sexual shame and fear, and I've been encouraged to use DMSI specifically for this. For me, shame is a BIG issue. Today, while riding around for work, I saw 5 late teens walking down their private dirt road, all in bikinis walking towards the beach. Their backs were to us. We drove by......and I turned my head away while driving by to avoid eye contact. I knew they were looking for attention, but something just didn't feel right. I felt responsible, but I felt a shame which grew for a while. I went into a shame spiral, so to speak. Shame is a nasty b****.
I also imagined having DMSI hit me--feeling much more confident about myself. Not that I'd do anything with these girls, but feeling confident to flirt, without GSF.
What are you using DMSI-A for?
Hey man, thanks for sharing your story! I can totally relate as I've had my share of that BS when I was younger. For me the main thing that needs healing is the overall mindset I have.
I need to trust my intuition more and put less faith in theories and advice that have no "gut feeling" associated to them.
I'm listening to a book on audible right now called "Relentless: From Good to Great to Unstoppable" and is written by Michael Jordan's personal coach Tim S. Grover. His main point is that you know, instinctively, how to succeed in anything, you just have to trust your instincts.
You'd think a world-class coach would be all about hard work and techniques, and he is, but it's from a "listen to your gut" perspective.
I haven't finished it yet but, near as I can tell, you're supposed to just do your thing without thinking, and learn as you go. Practice and learn of course, but whenever you're "in the game", you shouldn't be thinking.
Anyhow, moving towards that is kind of my main focus.
I liken it to healing because this idea that you need to adopt something outside of yourself is toxic, but, in much the same way, the idea that you don't have to improve to get better is also toxic.
RE: SargeMaximus: Time to Heal (DMSI 3.2A) - SargeMaximus - 04-02-2018
(04-02-2018, 03:54 PM)Frosted Wrote: Hey man are you thinking of giving AM6 another run and maybe another SM3 run? Would love to see your results since you've ran AM a lot.
Oh yeah and are you going to use that hypnosis any time soon?
Hey Frosted, I doubt I'll go back on AM 6 any time soon but we shall see. DMSI seems to be good enough for now tho.
As for the hypnosis, no I haven't. I'm not sure if I want to use it for personal reasons but if that changes, I still have it.
How are you finding it and AM 6 btw?
RE: SargeMaximus: Time to Heal (DMSI 3.2A) - MindsOne - 04-02-2018
Hey guys eager to test 3.2A are you guys finding it in your downloads section? For some reason It says 3.2A and B but when I download I only get 3.2B. Is there a trick to get the 3.2A download?
Update, I figured it out on 3.2A. I'll start reporting my results in a week or so!
RE: SargeMaximus: Time to Heal (DMSI 3.2A) - SargeMaximus - 04-02-2018
(04-02-2018, 06:40 PM)MindsOne Wrote: Hey guys eager to test 3.2A are you guys finding it in your downloads section? For some reason It says 3.2A and B but when I download I only get 3.2B. Is there a trick to get the 3.2A download?
Update, I figured it out on 3.2A. I'll start reporting my results in a week or so!
Dude, this is my personal journal, gtfo.
RE: SargeMaximus: Time to Heal (DMSI 3.2A) - Tesla - 04-03-2018
(03-30-2018, 08:54 PM)SargeMaximus Wrote: I was like "Thank you so much! I'm Sarge!" we shook hands and she was like "Ok I just wanted to say that" then she pulled away and drove off.
Protip for you: Next time someone pays you a compliment: Ask them why, instead of immediately rewarding with a "Thanks!"
Example: If someone compliments you on the way you dress, look down at yourself and examine with them (Body Language), and say, "Huh? Really? What is it you like about it?"
In your scenario, maybe ask her, "Really huh? Why do you think that or what makes you say that?"
Regardless, the idea is to challenge them on their compliments in an effort to make them become more invested in defending their position, opening the conversation for more potential outcomes. It's a very subtle trick that makes them like or appreciate what they just said even further.
Just thought I'd drop a hint for you. Cheers!
RE: SargeMaximus: Time to Heal (DMSI 3.2A) - SargeMaximus - 04-03-2018
(04-03-2018, 07:23 AM)Tesla Wrote:(03-30-2018, 08:54 PM)SargeMaximus Wrote: I was like "Thank you so much! I'm Sarge!" we shook hands and she was like "Ok I just wanted to say that" then she pulled away and drove off.
Protip for you: Next time someone pays you a compliment: Ask them why, instead of immediately rewarding with a "Thanks!"
Example: If someone compliments you on the way you dress, look down at yourself and examine with them (Body Language), and say, "Huh? Really? What is it you like about it?"
In your scenario, maybe ask her, "Really huh? Why do you think that or what makes you say that?"
Regardless, the idea is to challenge them on their compliments in an effort to make them become more invested in defending their position, opening the conversation for more potential outcomes. It's a very subtle trick that makes them like or appreciate what they just said even further.
Just thought I'd drop a hint for you. Cheers!
This is fascinating, thanks for the tip.
Btw, where did you learn this? Any good books on the subject? Those little technical tweaks are invaluable.
ION, I'm surprised I didn't have a wet dream last night.
I was SO horny all day and it took every ounce of strength not to watch porn, tho I did download some (told myself I'd watch it later as a means of satisfying but not satisfying myself).
This morning I'm horny too. Like nothing can satisfy me.
In the past this energy has not served me in sales, but I intend to find a way to make it work.
Other than that, it's a day off today and I plan to spend the time studying that book and pick-up material.
Also, been getting heavy nostalgia recently. Watching Yu-Gi-Oh episodes (used to watch it back when it was on tv years and years ago. There was a "golden era" of my childhood in my teen years in between the f*cked-up times where my mom had a steady job and we had our own house with a mortgage. We had cable and internet and life was on the upswing... just a year or so before my mom went on another spiral and we lost it all.
Anyhow, I just noticed how my nostalgia is strong this weekend.
RE: SargeMaximus: Time to Heal (DMSI 3.2A) - PDjunkie - 04-03-2018
Hey Sarge, long time no speak man.
Just out of interest, did you get laid yet with DMSI? Also what kind of door2door sales do you do? I recently did canvassing for a couple months and found it was turning me into a compulsive liar lol
RE: SargeMaximus: Time to Heal (DMSI 3.2A) - SargeMaximus - 04-03-2018
(04-03-2018, 12:50 PM)PDjunkie Wrote: Hey Sarge, long time no speak man.
Just out of interest, did you get laid yet with DMSI? Also what kind of door2door sales do you do? I recently did canvassing for a couple months and found it was turning me into a compulsive liar lol
Lol, compulsive liar eh?
May I say that lying is firmly within your control and that a job cannot make you lie at all.
Also, the best way to sell is to be honest and transparent. At least, that's what's working for me.
To answer your question: not on DMSI no. I may have been in the bloom when I lost the V, not sure tho.
As an aside note, what the heck is with all the interest in me suddenly? You guys are coming out of the woodwork. Who's next?