02-23-2016, 08:00 AM
Sarge, if it's a girl I don't know and am sexually interested in, in my opinion is it's got to be a quick meetup for a coffee or drink @ bar and then go to "hang out" at my house after that. there's no need for hours and hours or any kind of "wooing". it's just a matter of seeing if you click or not. (if not, it's not your fault. especially for a high maintenance, intelligent guy like you, you will be well suited for like 10-20% of the women out there which is kind of how it shakes out for me too, as another high maintenance dude.) anyway the first part of the meetup is maybe 45 to 90 minutes. and it's always nice to double book meetups like that (i.e. one at 8, one at 930, one at 11) so you can eject if you don't like one and then hop over to the other. (girls do this ALL THE TIME).
