Aventus's prelude to greatness (OGSF)

[wolverine_i_am]

Inner conflicts:
-The thought of Interracial couples, specifically white male asian female, used to make me jealous and angry. I don't quite know why. Maybe because of my own lack of self esteem and confidence. I noticed this thought is changing for the better. I see it as now her preference and I should improve my own life to attract other people.

I used to feel the same about seeing some particular combinations of interracial couples myself. My automatic assumptions would be that she hates her own race and why wouldn't she date her own? But I came to realise it was a projection of my own insecurities and I was limited by lack. Over the years, I realised my assumptions weren't true, that people have their own preferences and there's nothing wrong with that. Nowadays, I personally date outside my race too. I focus on my own life and date whoever I want. Good on you for realising the same too.