(03-10-2016, 05:52 PM)yeah! Wrote:(03-10-2016, 04:19 PM)LeonidasXVI Wrote:(03-10-2016, 02:58 PM)Aventus45 Wrote: Day 40
Went to a social event and tried to immerse myself and It felt really awkward. When I am with my close buddies, I have a loud and great voice. For some reason, with new people, I don't have the same volume with new people. Like my voice turned down a couple of notches. Hopefully, Am6 fixes a lot of those issues and more. Not to say I am sitting around and hoping for the best but I'll continue to inject myself into social events.
If I were you, I wouldn't expect AM 6 to fix that. Now I am not saying that AM 6 can't, but when it comes to social situations, it is almost always some kind of fear. I am not you, but the main reason for your voice to be turned down when you meet new people could be that you build a wall around you, and therefore, be disinterested and discouraged to meet them. The thing with AM 6 is that you will go through patches where you will want to disconnect from the society and this will not help your social awkwardness much.
Just my 2 cents.
This answer makes me sad. Maybe I put too much expectation on subs. You would think the time money investment of AM6 it would fix everything. If socializing is a challenge then surely the seek the challenge would clear this up?
Maybe it needs socializing is a fun game added in to it? Im not talking about AM7 but an upgrade to AM6.
I, or anybody, cannot comment on an individual if his expectations will be fulfilled or not. It depends on many factors. And only you can know for sure. As far as socialization is concerned, yes, it did help me express myself, destroyed majority of the anxiety, but one thing it didn't do is make me connect to people. It didn't make me less defensive in my interactions. Maybe results are different for you. Maybe not.
The important thing is to not put all your eggs in one basket. Accept either possibility that it may or may not help you in this one particular area of life, and then proceed from there. You will save yourself a lot of disappointment and learn to take full responsibility for the results.