03-03-2016, 10:52 PM
wolverine is so right man. sometimes the fact that i'm indian gets me self conscious and negative self talk hits me because i feel inferior to the white guy who seems to have it so easy with the white girls. truth of the matter is that it's very little to do with race... but rather how you carry yourself.
TheRealJustin posted something in my SM3 journal a while back....
http://subliminal-talk.com/thread-5713-p...l#pid81611
TheRealJustin posted something in my SM3 journal a while back....
http://subliminal-talk.com/thread-5713-p...l#pid81611
Quote:Lol, I have lots of golden nuggets up my sleeve. That line is golden if you meet women on apps because you hear "creep, you're creepy, bye, eww, gross, go away ect" all the time when talking to girls online and they almost always love it but sometimes you do get the major cu*t that's like "didn't I say stop talking to me?!? Go away" (or something worse) I never even try to get passed those girls walls because they are not people I would ever want to know in a million years.
My main point though is I wanted eternitys_child to know that even if he was what he thinks he needs to be, he would still deal with the same shit for the most part. It has nothing to do with being Indian, maybe for some girls that's a deal breaker, but no matter what race you are it's going to be a deal breaker for some girls. Not everybody is meant to get along or be attracted to everybody.
Some people have sh*t easier than others, but you just have to work with what you've got.
Think of Kumar from Harold & Kumar, or the Indian guy on The Big Bang Theory. Those two probably have fuc*ed some of the most gorgeous women on the planet.
There's a whole hoard of sh*t that comes into play with attracting women, and looks and race are just a small part of it, and looks and race are only surface level.
You could be going door to door selling candy bars that are only chocolate and all the girls could be like "gross, I only like the candy bars with the nuts in them" it's not a big deal because you will find just as many girls that prefer the candy bars that you're selling.
Some like pure chocolate, some like with nuts, some like with caramel, some with peanut butter, some candy coated, some with whatever whatever, and some women aren't picky and will try any kind and see if they like it.
I'm not the best at explaining things. I'm saying you just can't let women make you wish you were not you. You are you and you should never wish to be someone else. I wish I was in better shape and made more money, but I never have and never will wish to be someone else. Be proud that you're Indian. If you learn how to rock it, you'll have guys looking at what you're doing and they will be wishing that THEY were Indian. They'll be like "why can't I get pus*y like that? I wish I was Indian, that lucky fuc*er Huh"
Hope you get what I'm saying lol I'm so bad at getting what's in my head out of my head.