08-24-2015, 08:02 AM
It's harder to maintain your changes when surrounded by people/places that have been associated with your previous state of being. Basically you've been used to being a certain way around certain people, so your subconscious will revert to that default state whenever around them because that's what it knows works.
Your options are to cut ties or work through it. Working through it is harder/slower, but it can be done.
I have the same thing when around my mom, brother, and one cousin. I just stay aware of it and I can see pretty clearly when the old behavior is resurfacing. I'm also making progress.
Your options are to cut ties or work through it. Working through it is harder/slower, but it can be done.
I have the same thing when around my mom, brother, and one cousin. I just stay aware of it and I can see pretty clearly when the old behavior is resurfacing. I'm also making progress.
